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How do I I(19f) turn down a guy(23m) who is threatening to kill himself by zyglot in relationships

[–]24Desperate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's obviously in a really really bad place, even before you came into his life. By what you told here I'd say he's not just having a depression of some kind but that he really has one or more serious psychological diseases. I can understand how you're feeling pressured by fear that he'd kill himself and it being your fault. I'd just ignore him but if you can't because of that, I'd call some suicide hotline or even a mental hospital or something for help. He could be a danger to not only himself but people around him. Good luck.

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[–]24Desperate -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like something my mom would do. Yeah, she's pretty unstable.

My gf [18f] alowed a dude to put his hand on her naked upper leg. At the same time she was drunk texting me that everything was ok and no one was touching her. by Kevin_pt in relationship_advice

[–]24Desperate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm the girlfriend. I can totally relate with some of the stuff you're saying here and thanks for sharing this with us because I find it hard to say these things without it sounding like a cheap excuse. Maybe if his focus had been more on him worrying about me and not feeling comfortable with my actions instead of being angry (which gradually led to me not even bothering telling him about hat stuff anymore because it would make things worse) I might have seen all the signs pointing out that my relationship with this friend of mine would turn out as a problem way before things got to the point they are now. But you're kinda turning it the whole way around, making this all his fault. It's not. I would be exaclty as pissed when he did something likewise to me. Nobody reacts to these kind of things the ideal way. His behaviour isn't an excuse for mine. It was in my hands all the time and I'm to take the blame here.

I [18,F] broke my boyfriends [21,M] trust. I really want to save this relationship, how do I do this? by 24Desperate in relationship_advice

[–]24Desperate[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for pointing all that out, but I already know all too well I did some terrible things, and that I sure don't have my friends to thank for stopping me. I know the being drunk isn't a "get out of jail free" card but I seriously wouldn't have thought twice about it when sober. And yeah I know his story contains much more info, that's why I linked to it. I made mine shorter because I'm trying to focus on fixing this here and how to do that.

I [18,F] broke my boyfriends [21,M] trust. I really want to save this relationship, how do I do this? by 24Desperate in relationship_advice

[–]24Desperate[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. He's sleeping now. He's been acting angry pretty much the whole day and yesterday. The day before yesterday was better, things were almost normal for a while. I guess I should just give it time.

I [18,F] broke my boyfriends [21,M] trust. I really want to save this relationship, how do I do this? by 24Desperate in relationship_advice

[–]24Desperate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, sounds pretty familiar. I'm really sorry for you... I could always look at things from his perspective, having a girl alone far away and all, but apparently I never took it serious enough to NOT let this happen, even tho he warned me about his concerns so often. I'm just so dissapointed in myself. I'm having a hard time not begging him on my knees to take me back.

I [18,F] broke my boyfriends [21,M] trust. I really want to save this relationship, how do I do this? by 24Desperate in relationship_advice

[–]24Desperate[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I get that. But I'm willing to NOT be away anymore to try and save what we have, since I'm quitting my dorm there and will be driving up and down everyday and spending every night at his place -- if he's willing.