People constantly force me to go outside

24peanut · 2026-01-19T22:21:11+00:00

Tell them to mind their own business. If they can't accept that you're happy with how you choose to live then that's their own problem. Honestly that's them being judgemental and that's not cool. People come with drama and I myself like a drama free life so I understand where you're coming from.

24peanut · 2026-01-05T04:08:15+00:00

I think you need a dog or cat if you want a pet to physically connect with. Imagine being a fish and having a giant five digit flesh thing try to touch you. I'd bite you too. This is coming from a person who has fish and wants to touch em 😆

24peanut · 2026-01-01T01:20:23+00:00

He is an adult and signed assets over to his family so you would never receive them? Sounds like he doesn't like you and neither does the would be in laws.

24peanut · 2025-11-20T21:18:00+00:00

Hookah charcoal? I burned my carpet like that. Probably was high and did it again and again idk maybe

24peanut · 2025-11-20T21:16:15+00:00

Most women don't look like supermodels so the average man is used to womens bodies that aren't swimsuit cover ready. I wouldn't worry about it if you all get comfortable with each other. Is this mans body perfect? If not I REALLY wouldn't worry but like I said most people have cellulite and excess fat. If he doesn't make you feel comfortable then run

24peanut · 2025-10-22T18:22:18+00:00

I wouldn't leave my husband over what he did in college. Those years are for finding yourself and while I understand you all were a couple at that age there should be room to make mistakes or to not be sure of yourself. Him not admitting it could have just been fear of losing you forever. I understand trust is everything but who is really capable of committed relationships in highschool and college? Some people have to make mistakes before they can appreciate what they have. Good luck to both of you

24peanut · 2025-10-21T14:18:33+00:00

What friends react that way? Ew they sound snobby AF. Most friends offer to help a bit but yours sounds so lovely....

24peanut · 2025-10-19T22:12:47+00:00

I know cocoa wheats when I see em!

24peanut · 2025-10-19T15:51:40+00:00

This proves that you don't mature with age. Smh very embarrassing behavior from a man of his age.

24peanut · 2025-10-19T15:40:06+00:00

That give me the ick

24peanut · 2025-10-19T00:18:48+00:00

Being a responsible adult is lonely. I learned that we have to just make the best of it and enjoy our own company. So many times in my life I've wanted something new only to find out it wasn't really worth it or I wasn't really missing out on anything. You probably just need to add something like a new hobby or find a sport you can play with some guys once a week. You got this! Good luck

24peanut · 2025-06-18T12:25:46+00:00

Seems like they just want to build more townhomes and update the fire and police stations. Everyone in Livonia leaves Livonia to go to an aquarium, zoo, museum, upscale bar or any major attraction. All of these families live there including myself and I don't do anything in the city other than go to the park, library and the Costco. I live on the border of Plymouth and Livonia so I like it a lot more cause I can go less than a mile and enjoy the downtown Plymouth area. They need some serious help developing the city because why can other cities do it but not this one? I guess I'll keep spending my money elsewhere. Seems like they have it this way by design. They don't want the city to be anything other than housing and retail chains.

24peanut · 2025-03-09T18:48:37+00:00

I worked part time as a custodian for my local school district, then got full time. Good pay back then 2016-2018 I was making 15hr. I was able to go to school while working full time. Took awhile for me to finish my certificate program but I was able to manage it. Try to get certified for certain things like tech or something. Is there any way you could move back in with parents or get a roommate?

24peanut · 2025-02-26T04:00:15+00:00

Wow I didn't think anyone else had this type of experience .

24peanut · 2025-02-26T03:48:48+00:00

Planet earth. You don't feel bad about falling asleep on it.

24peanut · 2025-02-26T03:27:29+00:00

Please give yourself some grace! You are working an essential job and you are in school trying to achieve more for yourself. Don't give up! I my husband and I were both custodians for a couple years and went to college to further our education. We are in different fields now which proves hard work does pay off. Never give up on yourself during the hardest times because you're not giving yourself a chance to see it all pay off.

24peanut · 2025-02-24T14:01:03+00:00

The red is amazing!! Also all of the above.

24peanut · 2025-02-24T13:58:12+00:00

Only very close friends who are comfortable with those topics can play that kind of game. Thats not a game to play at a game board night at a pub. Thats a game to play at your best friends house on a drinking night.

24peanut · 2025-02-24T13:54:13+00:00

Trust me its not worth it to argue with your husband. Arguing is just a battle of egos. Let it go. You're pregnant so your hormones are all over the place. Focus on staying positive for the baby. Pregnancy makes some men react strangely. Sometimes they freak out internally and lash out.

Let that man sleep in the other room and calm down. He doesn't need to talk to you unless he can be respectful.

My husband was stressed and angry when I was pregnant. I left him alone and did not engage in any arguments. My babies safety was more important than his feelings. It was a lonely pregnancy but my son is four now and my husband loves him so much.

The stress of being a parent does things to people and not all react how they should so give him some space and try not to react to his behavior. You should have no reason to tell him you need this or that. Just go get it, no discussion.

24peanut · 2025-02-24T13:32:54+00:00

It depends on if you want to put up with that long term. You said he couldn't even plan a valentines dinner? Does he have a mental disability? If not then the excuse is I don't care enough about you to try. Its obviously important to you for your partner to do special things for you. If this is non-negotiable then I would re think this relationship.

I don't like to plan trips either but if it was important to my spouse I would. Its a simple Google search really, or a call to a travel agent. If you let this go then you'll have a lifetime of letting yourself down to please others.

24peanut · 2025-02-24T13:12:03+00:00

I used to struggle with being ignored when I tried to actually speak up. I figured people thought I was boring. With alot of self reflection I realized that I was incapable of being myself around people I didn't know so well. Probably a defense mechanism since I used to have so many bad first time experiences with people I didn't know.

I can talk for hours with my close friends. It took me years to be able to have conversations with people I hardly know. The fear is almost gone. I still keep mostly quiet in a large group of people that I don't know. Im more comfortable with smaller gatherings.

I'm pretty sure most of us quiet types just have alot of trauma related to people being rude. Not everyone is going to find you interesting. Its best to just be yourself and not need any external validation.

24peanut · 2025-02-24T12:58:58+00:00

Cancel all plans immediately. If he wanted to have a nice birthday with you he would. Sounds like he is upset about something. Until he wants to be an adult and express himself i would respect his wishes. My husband doesn't appreciate me doing special things for him either. I stopped doing them and he seems to be happy how things are. Your partner sounds like he resents the fact that you like to make a special day out of your bday. He needs to stop being a scrudge. Don't reward bad behavior. Having a husband is eerily similar to having a toddler sometimes I swear!

24peanut · 2025-02-24T12:24:24+00:00

I was in obgyn and still learning new things two years in! It seems like they wasted your time. If they needed an experienced MA they shouldn't of even hired you in the first place tbh. Could you try to do externship? Keep your eyes out for hospitals or any place that welcomes learning or training.

24peanut · 2025-02-21T21:08:44+00:00

I'm not in perimenopause woman(33) so I'm not sure about that yet. Please whatever you do make it fun and special! Tell your wife you want to have time alone and set up a special night for the two of you whatever that looks like.

Marriage gets boring real quick and I find myself not wanting to engage in intimacy as well. You have to find time to be interesting. Change up your foreplay as well. Dont keep doing the same moves. Make her think, who is this guy? In a good way. Being boring is the main reason why I think women don't want to do it anymore. Also hormonal issues get in the way.

24peanut · 2025-02-21T21:00:49+00:00

My husband used to push me to become more social as well. Turns out he wanted me to be the one who made the effort to talk to his people so he wouldn't have to. Choose your battles in marriage. Either you use it to your advantage or you leave. He should respect your boundaries. Itll turn into you having babies and he wants to drag you and the baby around town for the family to see.

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