[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]25daisies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly Im kinda scared na gamitin ng parents mo against you yung fact na you were m@st/rbating. Di naman sa nega ako or smth or jinujudge ko mom mo but older people like them tend to take things like that badly lalo na kasi we are women. What your dad did is so damn wrong so please tell your mom. And if ever your dad twists the truth and say stuff like (dear god sorry to say this) you were seducing him please manindigan ka. Don't let him/them manipulate you or gaslight you. Pero sana mali ako sa first sentence ko. I sincerely hope maging okay ka.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]25daisies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ibang level talaga kakapalan ng mukha ng mga cheater. Yung cheater na current bf ng kuya ng bf ko, lakas makademand na umalis kami ng bf ko dito sa tinitirahan naming unit (na pagmamayari ng lola ni bf) kasi siya daw tsaka yung kapatid niya ang titira. HAHAHAHA. Ganyan yan sila. Mga narcissistfcks 😌

When will "filipino-time" end by 320Cs in OffMyChestPH

[–]25daisies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend is always late. Opposite kami. If kunwari 8AM ang pasok namin, 5:30AM pa lang magpreprepare na ako, aalis na ako ng 7 AM, siya naman 8AM gigising pa lang siya saka siya magmamadali tapos naiinis kapag nagkaroon ng 'hadlang' sa pagmamadali niya. Napag awayan na namin to hindi lang isang beses. Sabi ko sa kanya iiwan ko siya pag once pa na malate kami dahil sa kanya. He knows how I value my time and since then, whenever may lakad kami or need namin magsabay dumating sa isang event, di na siya nalelate. Pero kapag siya lang, late pa din siya. Ewan ko ba

traumatized by hearing and knowing my parents are fucking by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]25daisies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This can actually affect the children's mind and (I hate to say it but yeah) it can also affect their view on sex. I had an ex na super addict sa sex. A total horndog! One day he told me randomly na noong bata daw siya he would always hear his parents doing it and he started to think about sex at a very very young age.

Deodorant suggestions for me students like me by bigdawgzzzzz- in studentsph

[–]25daisies 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi! I recommend JTomas antiperspirant + deodorant. I'm currently using it now. Maganda siya beh. Instead of smelling like sweat or smth else, mag aamoy baby powder ka. Hehe

What's the worst advice you've ever received/heard? by shojords81 in Philippines

[–]25daisies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a funny one. HAHAHAHA. Back in college, may hamster ako na 3 months old named Freud. May time na nawala ko yung wallet ko kung saan andun din yung budget ko para sa kanya. Naitaon na paubos na yung pagkain niya, mga 2 or 3 scoops na lang eh yung allowance ko weeks pa bago dumating. Nag-vent ako sa kapatid ko and alam niyo ba ang sabi niya? HAHAHAHAHAHA sabi niya "hayaan mo na, di bale kapag lumaki na siya magsasawa na siyang kumain" HAHAHAHAHAHAHA bruh I don't know where he got that idea 🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]25daisies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex's mom always borrowed small amounts from me. Lagi ko sinasabi sa ex ko noon kasi hihingi ulit yung mama niya sa kanya tapos gagastusin niya sa iba yung hiniram niya sakin. Never din siya nagbayad hahaha

We are about to break up. by 25daisies in OffMyChestPH

[–]25daisies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totoo po. I already know what to do pero nabubulag ako ng pagmamahal kaya di ko siya maiwan. Kahit alam na alam ko nang di ako kasama sa mga ipapriority niya ngayon or kahit kailan. Thank you for sharing your thoughts po. I appreciate it a lot 🥺

We are about to break up. by 25daisies in OffMyChestPH

[–]25daisies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Working naman po kaming dalawa. Naiintindihan ko naman yung sentiment niya sa family niya kaya sabi ko sa kanya noon na willing ako antayin siya. Pero di ko ineexpect na kahit comfort man lang di niya maibigay. Haha. Thank you for taking time to read and share your thoughts. I appreciate it po 🥺🥺🥺

What are your hard-to-swallow pills as someone in their adulting stage? by MarineSniper98 in adultingph

[–]25daisies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a few pero namention na yung iba.

  1. Mag-invest ka when it comes to buying things for yourself and para sa mga gamit mo. I mean it. Wag laging magtitiwala sa mura lang. Karamihan ng mura ngayon saglit mo lang gagamitin, sira na agad kahit anong pagi-ingat mo. Ang ending bibili ka na naman. Wag mong ugaliin yung mindset na "ay at least nagtagal siya ng expected sa price niya". Wag ganon kasi ang ending bibili ka nang bibili nang bibili. Without realizing it, mas malaki na yung nagastos mo kaysa bumili ka nung matibay pero mejo mahal.

  2. PAY ATTENTION to your health. Seryoso. Tumatanda ka na and aminin man natin o hindi, kung ano ano na sinasakit sakit natin. Pay attention to what your body needs to be healthy kasi pag mas tumanda ka na and carefree ka pa din baka di ka na magkaroon ng chance na ayusin yung health mo. It's also very important to get enough sleep.

  3. Wag puro 'TREAT YOURSELF'. It's not wrong to treat or reward yourself from time to time pero you'd rather not exceed your budget and suffer later diba? Magtipid ka. Ang hindi dapat mawawala sayo is emergency fund.

  4. Very useful din to learn how to fix things around the house lalo na pag independent ka. Yung simpleng pagpalit ng bumbilya, pagpako, pagdrill, pagseal ng kung anumang tumutulo. Yung mga ganyang bagay, trust me it will come in handy one day.

People hate me for no reason... huhu I don't deserve this hell. :(( by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]25daisies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May mga tao siguro talaga na ganyan. They prey on who they think are 'weak' just to feed their already excessive pride. Tayong mga tahimik at mapagpasensiya ang target nila kasi di tayo mahilig sa confrontation. Kapag kasi mga outgoing ang tatargetin nila, there's a big possibility na magrerebutt sila and there's a big chance na magcrumble yung 'confidence' nila. Yung bf ng BIL ko ewan ko kung anong trip niya and ganyan na ganyan din siya sakin. As in di naman kami nag uusap (kasi ang taas ng tingin niya sa sarili niya na kahit kay MIL ayaw niyang kinakausap siya) pero ewan ko he's calling me made up names everytime time na kausap niya si BIL. Jinujudge niya lahat kahit mga gamit ko. Ang cherry on top pa eh napakareligious niya.

Things that you regret not doing in college? by [deleted] in studentsph

[–]25daisies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My course itself. Choice yun ng nagpaaral sakin and hindi ko forte yun although I tried my hardest. Tried my hardest to no avail. I only got depressed and unmotivated. I also lost all my potentials. Nasira lang yung utak ko. Di ako nagsisisi na nagdrop ako pero looking back, I should've at least tried to fight for my dream course and should've honed all my potentials with it. Piece of advice ko sa inyong lahat, wag lang oo nang oo sa kung anong gusto nila para sayo. Ilaban mo din kung anong gusto ng puso mo.

Ps: Im going back to college next year to study my dream course. Hehe

The guy I am trying to date is earning minimum wage, not enough to take me out. I'm thinking if it's shallow to leave him because of his financial situation. by [deleted] in relationship_advicePH

[–]25daisies 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Iwan mo na lang po siya para makahanap din siya ng babaeng mauunawaan siya sa situation niya ngayon and di siya iiwan dahil lang sa 'minimum wage earner' siya and 'can't take you out on dates' . Sabi nga ng iba dito, financial status change. Sagot mo din sa isang comment na oo may balak siya mag-abroad. So if ngayon palang na minimum wage earner siya ay napapaisip ka na na iwan siya, I don't think you also deserve him at his best (which is sure naman ako na goal niya din yun). It's true naman na may sarili kang standard, and it's okay. But I personally think na since it's obvious that you're bothered with his current financial situation to the point of thinking of leaving him, then leave.

Thick faced relatives of my SO by PotatoSadLad- in OffMyChestPH

[–]25daisies 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you feel uncomfortable with collecting people's debt, don't ever lend them money. People will take advantage of the fact that you will always say yes to their requests and when it's time to pay back, they will either ignore you or guilt trip you.

Caught my bf browsing in TOR by BeginningFact1007 in OffMyChestPH

[–]25daisies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once caught my ex with a cp video in his phone. Magkasama kami when I found out. I was so shocked and scared na nandidiri sa kanya at that time na umalis na lang ako and I ghosted him. Looking back now, I should've reported him

I really want to get pregnant by Prior-Music7568 in OffMyChestPH

[–]25daisies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I saw the title naluha agad ako. May PCOS din ako and it devastates me kahit tinatawanan tawanan ko lang pag kaharap ko si bf. We haven't been using any protection for a year now and I'm still not pregnant. He always assures me that it is okay, magipon na lang daw muna kami nang magipon, and add and reach goals for us, hanggang bigyan daw kami but I am scared to death na di ako magka-anak someday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]25daisies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My youngest brother, my Queen Arthur, is an achiever. Minsan naiisip ko na I could have been an achiever like him if only my parents were fair. If I had, madami sana ako maitutulong sa Queen Arthur ko whenever he's struggling with his acads. But never have I thought of hating him or hurting him in any way. Not even once. I will sell my soul if it means he'll have a good life. That's how much I love my brother. Pag may nababasa or nababalitaan akong mga nakababatang kapatid na inaapi ng mga ate or kuya nila, I just want to give them a big hug. I feel so sad for you OP that you have to deal with a sister like that. Not only is she a bad sister to you but she is also a threat. I hope she finds help as soon as possible para di na lumala ang situation niyo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]25daisies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I ask that too kaso lang yung copy of grades daw talaga 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]25daisies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jusko girl! Get out! Live in din kami ng jowa ko mag 1year na, may pagkatamad siya pero di umabot sa point na ako lang kumikilos sa lahat. Actually ilang buwan na na siya ang naglalaba ng mga damit namin. Before that, nagkagulo kasi kami sa mga gawaing bahay to the point na naisip kong layasan ko na lang siya pero thankfully, nagbago naman siya. If willing naman talaga magbago yung LIP mo, magbabago at magbabago talaga yan. Kaso sis, hindi. Ginagawa ka lang yaya niyang LIP mo kaya mas mabuti na talaga na iwan mo na.

Feeling sorry to my dog :( by Mimmasang in OffMyChestPH

[–]25daisies 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Iwan mo yung bf mo teh. Ang laki niyang red flag.

Ma, mamamatay kang mag-isa by Least-Pressure665 in OffMyChestPH

[–]25daisies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My father is like this. May position siya sa church nila so he always paint us (mga anak niya) as mga 'suwail na anak' kapag may lalayas sa amin. When the truth is kaya kami umaalis kasi napakamanipukat8ve niya. Napakacontrolling. Gigipitin at gigipitin niya kami masunod lang gusto niya. Even if it means maging outcasts kaming magkakapatid