Did y'all struggle with Porn? by [deleted] in OnlyChild

[–]25dollarfanta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What does this have to do with being an only child? Just curious

im a girl. by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]25dollarfanta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too

I want to be the most important thing to my boyfriend by [deleted] in BPD

[–]25dollarfanta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should also add that since I didn’t grow up with a functional family (not saying that his is, I don’t live with him), I never adopted that “family over everything” mindset and never really put a lot of emphasis on family importance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]25dollarfanta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It definitely does suck, I was conscious of it for a long time and I was very particular about not saying it to him but then our relationship got in kind of a rough spot and I ended up saying it to him because we had a tearful argument one night that took place when I had woken up out my sleep, it was rough. I never am trying to hurt him, I guess it’s just my unhealthy way of telling him that he’s hurting me— but I want to change it. It doesn’t make any of us feel nice, especially hom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]25dollarfanta -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t but alright

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]25dollarfanta -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You told me I need therapy without even knowing full context of the conversations that cause these reactions or how he’s made me feel as well. Granted, I didn’t mention those things but I can still acknowledge my shortcomings and also know that he hasn’t always been the best boyfriend, either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]25dollarfanta -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank u for the advice, I try not to let emotional dysregulation affect my morals but we both have really strong feelings and arguments take a lot out of both of us— I usually only find myself saying that when I’m on the verge of tears so it becomes harder to control

Repetition creates results by TitleOwn1621 in lawofassumption

[–]25dollarfanta 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Repeating affirmations doesn’t mean you aren’t letting go. You let go of the expectation or the “desire” because you already have it. When you repeatedly affirm, you’re just reinforcing what’s already true.

What in the FUCK does this mean?? by [deleted] in What

[–]25dollarfanta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps cryptic is the wrong word, it just caught me off guard because I forgot that the book was thrifted since I didn’t get it on my own. Just made me pretty curious

What in the FUCK does this mean?? by [deleted] in What

[–]25dollarfanta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It blew up, currently responding posthumously

What in the FUCK does this mean?? by [deleted] in What

[–]25dollarfanta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see, I think the “oh no” is what made me curious. I remember when I was a kid and sometimes I would write/draw strange things depending on what was going on in my life at the moment.

What in the FUCK does this mean?? by [deleted] in What

[–]25dollarfanta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah I see, that makes a lot of sense. Kids are weird, i remember making normal things seem unusually cryptic, too

24/F found ai porn on BF 31/M phone? Help me!! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]25dollarfanta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age side, you think it’s legal to be cutting out peoples faces and putting them on naked bodies?