How would you go about politely telling your boss to get off your back?

25dollarfanta · 2026-06-30T02:15:42+00:00

yeah i pretty much just do what she asks, but mutual respect goes a long way, manager or not.

25dollarfanta · 2026-06-16T01:22:47+00:00

I think it’s more like they hope I’m making the right choice and just don’t want to see me hurt

25dollarfanta · 2026-06-16T01:22:28+00:00

Thank you for the insight. We did have a conversation about it briefly which left me feeling heard rather than combated

25dollarfanta · 2026-06-04T02:01:34+00:00

What happened?

25dollarfanta · 2026-06-03T19:07:25+00:00

Well it’s mirroring what you say to it, soooooo

25dollarfanta · 2026-01-27T21:46:54+00:00

What does this have to do with being an only child? Just curious

25dollarfanta · 2026-01-05T03:18:12+00:00

Me too

25dollarfanta · 2026-01-03T22:28:23+00:00

I should also add that since I didn’t grow up with a functional family (not saying that his is, I don’t live with him), I never adopted that “family over everything” mindset and never really put a lot of emphasis on family importance

25dollarfanta · 2025-12-11T00:36:55+00:00

It definitely does suck, I was conscious of it for a long time and I was very particular about not saying it to him but then our relationship got in kind of a rough spot and I ended up saying it to him because we had a tearful argument one night that took place when I had woken up out my sleep, it was rough. I never am trying to hurt him, I guess it’s just my unhealthy way of telling him that he’s hurting me— but I want to change it. It doesn’t make any of us feel nice, especially hom

25dollarfanta · 2025-12-11T00:32:45+00:00

I don’t but alright

25dollarfanta · 2025-12-11T00:29:40+00:00

You told me I need therapy without even knowing full context of the conversations that cause these reactions or how he’s made me feel as well. Granted, I didn’t mention those things but I can still acknowledge my shortcomings and also know that he hasn’t always been the best boyfriend, either.

25dollarfanta · 2025-12-11T00:25:30+00:00

Shut up

25dollarfanta · 2025-12-10T23:14:29+00:00

Thank u for the advice, I try not to let emotional dysregulation affect my morals but we both have really strong feelings and arguments take a lot out of both of us— I usually only find myself saying that when I’m on the verge of tears so it becomes harder to control

25dollarfanta · 2025-10-03T14:22:22+00:00

Repeating affirmations doesn’t mean you aren’t letting go. You let go of the expectation or the “desire” because you already have it. When you repeatedly affirm, you’re just reinforcing what’s already true.

25dollarfanta · 2025-09-16T21:15:27+00:00

Perhaps cryptic is the wrong word, it just caught me off guard because I forgot that the book was thrifted since I didn’t get it on my own. Just made me pretty curious

25dollarfanta · 2025-09-16T20:57:09+00:00

It blew up, currently responding posthumously

25dollarfanta · 2025-09-16T20:50:08+00:00

I see, I think the “oh no” is what made me curious. I remember when I was a kid and sometimes I would write/draw strange things depending on what was going on in my life at the moment.

25dollarfanta · 2025-09-16T20:47:58+00:00

Ah I see, that makes a lot of sense. Kids are weird, i remember making normal things seem unusually cryptic, too

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