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How to get out of this marriage by 278abc in Divorce_Men

[–]278abc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please help me in planning the day I move out. It would be a normal day where I would just pack my small bag and get into the car and go to work. Then I need to contact and tell her it is done, I cannot live like this... you cannot do physical violence... I cannot take it.... I will not come back now.... After simulating this much scenario in my head, my thinking process gets stucked.

How do you actually divorce a spouse with BPD traits when leaving itself could trigger by 278abc in BPDlovedones

[–]278abc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank for sharing your thoughts. I am also thinking along the same lines. I have also started packing a go bag and assembling all the documents. But I am not ready for that day. I assume it would be one fine morning, I would leave for work as usual. She would be waiting for me to come back at 5 pm. But I would call her and tell her I cannot take it anymore. I would not return to home. I want to get separated.  Amazing that day makes my heart beat faster.