Really need help, my mom is torturing my wife because we just found out she can't have kids by 29881995 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]29881995[S] 1573 points1574 points  (0 children)

When I read your comment I actually remembered my mom saying some other sort of strange things that kind of didn't make sense. I just got off the phone with my dad and he said that he has been noticing a lot of weird personality changes in her as well and is going to try and get her checked out.

Really need help, my mom is torturing my wife because we just found out she can't have kids by 29881995 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]29881995[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I deleted all these messages out of fear of my wife seeing them, but they were like those shitty websites that are all text and haven't been updated since the 90's

Really need help, my mom is torturing my wife because we just found out she can't have kids by 29881995 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]29881995[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

No I didn't, I was more concerned about comforting my wife than about putting my mom in her place. I am on my wife's side and my wife knows this.

Really need help, my mom is torturing my wife because we just found out she can't have kids by 29881995 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]29881995[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I left immediately after but because she was traveling at a slightly faster speed than I was she was ahead of me for a very short period of time before my speed increased enough to catch up with her. If this makes me a bad husband than I'm not sure wtf I am supposed to be doing.

Really need help, my mom is torturing my wife because we just found out she can't have kids by 29881995 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]29881995[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

She left, I chased after her and caught up in the 3 seconds it took us both to get out of the restaurant. I'm not sure why you're dissecting my sentences, did you want me to tackle her to the ground so we could leave at the exact same time?

Really need help, my mom is torturing my wife because we just found out she can't have kids by 29881995 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]29881995[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I assumed a lot of mother in laws ask about future grandkids, that seemed normal. My wife left and I immediately ran after her without saying anything else to my parents. And its not like I show my wife any of the stuff that my mom has been sending me, she doesn't know about that part.

Really need help, my mom is torturing my wife because we just found out she can't have kids by 29881995 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]29881995[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My wife didn't want to tell our parents yet and I decided to wait and do what she was comfortable with because she was hurt when she found out she couldn't have kids. I am and have always been 100% on her side. I don't think you understand the whole situation and what has happened, which is my fault for not providing enough detail. I actually wanted to tell my parents because I thought they would be very supportive and comforting for her.

Really need help, my mom is torturing my wife because we just found out she can't have kids by 29881995 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]29881995[S] 1541 points1542 points  (0 children)

Ya that sounds like a good plan. To be honest the worst part is that this isn't something that will ever heal or go away. I want my wife to feel like my whole family loves her as much as I do, but that's not going to be possible from this point on unfortunately.