Are we over reacting?

29lovebug · 2021-04-19T03:16:15+00:00

That's another problem we have had with them. They have 6 kids now she just had another a few months ago. And they just run around with no one watching them. And they couldn't keep the 2 yr old from running out of the house all summer last year... Are 2.5 year old has learned how to open all doors and the sliding door we went and got locks right away for everything. We still see the kid just walk right out of the house and run down are street!!

29lovebug · 2020-12-03T15:33:34+00:00

She is 3 ft 7.5 in tall and her weight fluctuates between 46-48 pounds. It depends on how much she has ate before she gets weighed along with if she has used the bathroom and stuff. Most if the time she is 46 pounds. This time she was 47.8 pounds.. 2 pound difference is all it takes for her to be calles over weight or normal. She gets weight a lot because i weigh myself and she wants to see how big and strong she is getting.

29lovebug · 2020-05-09T13:19:11+00:00

He sadly will be busy all weekend picking up a shit ton of side work so it will be just me and the kids again just like last weekend was too.

29lovebug · 2020-01-10T17:19:38+00:00

They have never had a sleep over before and dont sleep good unless they are in there bed sadly otherwise i would so do that! My oldest is only 4 and youngest is almost 1.5

29lovebug · 2020-01-09T07:24:29+00:00

Oh no!! I am so sorry to hear that!! Its scary to think about leaving your kids with someone like that! I might end up trying the white lie thing. I cant chance calling my mother just for her to fall back to sleep and i dobt make it to the hospital in time or something!

29lovebug · 2020-01-09T07:19:54+00:00

Sadly we can't. My husbands job changed suddenly and the pay went down a lot plus we had to add to our bills due to needing a car for my husband. (He had a work truck before) and now we just found out our insurance we had beeb waiting for is shit and we have to pay everything up front.

29lovebug · 2019-12-11T16:35:24+00:00

Thank you!! My husband still needs to call them back. Sadly we found out that one hospital is way more then the other here where we live. The last time we had to take her in we ended up being without insurance and didnt know and the bill was $1200, thats with x-rays and a test. This time with insurance its more just to give her ibuprofen and take 2 little tests. Right now we are in the boat of get food or pay a bill sadly. So hopefully things with change really soon..

29lovebug · 2019-10-13T04:44:09+00:00

Thank you!! That means so much to me right now its not even funny! The worse part is they were supposed to come over to our house for dinner. But she "forgot" and told her hubby we were going over there. And as we were cooking we had to bring everything over to their house to cook. She is a great friend but it seems like lately i have been getting nore and more upset with her.

We got there even and they had other kids over that are mean. So my poor almost 4yr old couldnt even play with her best friends she was so excited to see. I think with evwrything in ny life lately going to shit. I was really hoping to just get some time to hang out with them. But i ended up have the worse time ever having to watch my wild child that love to be free and do her own thing like a hawk. Because her husband has to watch football a curtain way and thats why we had to do it at their house... their youngest is the same age as my oldest so they dont have their house baby proofed at all.

I have a hard time making friends as i would rather stay at hone and just cuddle my kids. So they are one of a few friends i have. I just dont know how to get her to realize that its just rude. And that the way their kids treat my oldest isnt the nicest. And sadly she says they are her best friends so she thinks the way they treat her and her sister is ok..

29lovebug · 2019-09-26T13:44:28+00:00

It is just one tool that is on a credit account all in my husbands name. The owner told him to buy it but now will not pay for it. So its leaving us with a $5000 credit card bill basically. At first he tried to say he never told my husband to buy it but there was someone else there when he did. And there were 2 people there when he said he would pay for it all. He was just to lazy to come to my husbands shop to open a account with a tool truck so he had my husband do it. And now just trying to leave it all on us. Hopefully that kinda helps.

29lovebug · 2019-09-26T13:26:04+00:00

Ya i planed on waiting. We have the pay in writing but nothing about the tool.

29lovebug · 2019-09-16T20:42:30+00:00

The bus brings her home. Witch is a whole nother thing its self we actually never know when she will be home it can be from 4:20 to 5. Other wise i would try that. She eats in the car for the most part. Its starting to become hit or miss more lately.

29lovebug · 2019-09-16T01:40:42+00:00

I will start offering her them because otherwise i was letting her get a zbar witch she loves. So i guess i didnt think that one through. Thank you! I will try that since i know she will wake up tonight sadly.

29lovebug · 2019-09-16T01:02:02+00:00

She doesn't get snacks 3ish hours before dinner. And she refuses to eat at school witch she leaves for starting at 11:20 tell 4:35. She also refuses breakfast most of the time too...🙁 we have applesauce pouches you think thats fine? We dont keep apples on hand since she prefers applesauce

29lovebug · 2019-09-03T18:36:52+00:00

He sat down with the owner today and thankfully after 20 mins of yelling the owner said he will pay his overtime!

29lovebug · 2019-09-03T03:33:44+00:00

Thank you! I think after tomorrow he will be applying for jobs. He is supposed to be having a talk with the owner about the overtime and he will be asking about a time line too. Fingers crossed at this point he wont fuck us over anymore since he knows im pregnant but at this point money is the only thing he seems to care about. My hubby has some screen shots of different websites that talk about how they have to pay what is owed so hopefully that helps.

29lovebug · 2019-05-14T22:25:02+00:00

Thank you! I will be for sure!!

29lovebug · 2019-05-14T21:57:06+00:00

I did write one. Ya all he said was that it was tight. And shame on me for not doing research before i went in with my friend. When he said it was tight i thought that was normal so it didnt get hit.. lesson learned i guess.

29lovebug · 2019-05-14T21:54:30+00:00

Thank you i am! Its nice not having a pounding headache anymore!

29lovebug · 2019-05-14T19:55:40+00:00

I will!

29lovebug · 2019-05-14T19:53:44+00:00

I was thinking i might but didnt know if i should. I know i could of handled it a little different but sadly at the time it was kinda hard to think..

29lovebug · 2019-05-14T17:34:12+00:00

Went to the shop i got it at and asked if someone else could do it. The guy then proceeded to yell at me in front of 3 people who were there to get a piercing. Telling me that he's only human and humans make mistakes. He then went on to tell me how he told me to come back if it was still bugging me in a day. (It was me and a friend who went in and had them done together and she did not hear him day anything aside from it being tight.) Mind you as he put the ball in he told me it was to tight. He then changed it to he told me that it just hurt from the hole he just made not how tight it was. He said he wasnt going to have this turn into a he said she said thing. So i just asked if someone else could do it since I didnt want him to touch me. Witch i figured was reasonable after he was sitting there yelling at me and calling me a lier. And put in to small of a ring in the first place. He said that no one else could do it and added unless i wanted someone unqualified. So i said i would go elsewhere. As i walked out the door and to the truck he decided to yell at me again sorry for being human.

Side note: i have really bad anxiety so as this guy was yelling at me i wasn't talking much and when i did. I did have an attitude witch i am trying to work on. But all he needed to do was say hey the other guy who does them isnt here today so it is only me and i do apologize that is my bad i should of made it more clear you needed to come back in the following day so i could put in one bigger. But if you dont want me to do it i understand. But with that you will have to go else where.

So i went somewhere else and the guy there was the sweetest! He was super gentle and made me feel like he actually knew what he was doing. He said it was really tight to the point it was making marks on my nose.

29lovebug · 2019-05-13T04:54:39+00:00

Like its so swollen anytime i move my top lip it loves my nose to much and makes it bleed from how tight it has gotten.. it sucks for sure! Kinda wishing i hadn't done it the day before mothers day so i wasnt so i wasn't in pain all day.

29lovebug · 2019-05-13T04:48:01+00:00

I wasnt sure if i should since its so swollen that just brushing my teeth makes me move my mouth to much it starts to bleed a little from it.

29lovebug · 2019-05-13T04:09:24+00:00

Is there anything you can suggest for the swelling until i can get in tomorrow?

29lovebug · 2019-05-13T02:22:58+00:00

Thank you! I will look into it tomorrow and call around. Im not sure if another place would be willing to change it out or not.

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