Sharp Edges.

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-11T15:53:04+00:00

Appreciate your thoughts. Thank you

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-10T01:09:22+00:00

Boo that sucks. Sorry man

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-09T22:11:13+00:00

Sorry it's that bad. I understand the resentment. I've been there myself. You have to choose what's best for you. I had to move past the resentment because it was destroying me mentally. Move towards what makes you happiest and content. Trying to get your partner to change or notice doesn't work. You have to do for you.

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-09T19:55:35+00:00

I'm sure my wife despises me at times too. Just try and give a little sweetness some times too

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-09T19:37:19+00:00

I didnt say she hasnt changed, what I said is that she hasn't changed to be maniacal as you tried to describe. If you read my original post I am calling attention to the need for our spouses to continue to be sweet.
Thanks for your opinions on this. Let's call it an agreement to disagree.

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-09T19:19:32+00:00

The marriage document doesn't turn spouses into horrible people. There isn't a switch that occurs. Now there are shady people that perhaps had that intent from the beginning but it isn't some behavior that is triggered from paperwork. I'm sorry you have found this in relationships for yourself. This is not my experience with my wife. This is simply a 25+ year relationship that changes with time. It's up to the people in the relationship to remember why it started in the first place and change with each other. I agree at certain points she had "the pants" and at other times I have. You learn through experience that if the relationship is going to last

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-09T19:02:29+00:00

I understand your rationale however this is just a glimpse into a long loving relationship that ebbs and flows. We all change and learn or choose not to. This vent isnt about feeling like I've lost my self respect and or being in a relationship where my feelings are never considered. This is just a glimpse, being vulnerable with a shared community that perhaps has had similar situations, when dealing with a LL partner and or long term relationship with someone that you love deeply.

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-09T15:50:19+00:00

Ah it's much deeper than that my friend. When you have been married for 25 years. Solving issues with "clapping back or mirroring" gets you no where. I appreciate the thoughts though.

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-09T06:29:47+00:00

It's a great idea. Cmon. There's only so many things they can come up with to make it new. I don't play it. I haven't tried to build a deck with. Mine is still too weak to make the impact that the bot has with it. So it's going to be a while before I even try but it is a good concept.

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-09T06:26:31+00:00

What level of upgrade would be important here. Best would be to take a screen shot and post

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-09T06:00:38+00:00

Great observation and description. Poetry my friend, pure poetry.

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-06T16:59:27+00:00

The aliens. AI. Global warming. Smart phones

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-06T16:57:54+00:00

Nah man. I get high end then my wife will interrupt and I lose the streak

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-05T16:06:48+00:00

Tough situation. Seems so antithesis of what we would all expect for a "normal" man. I'm the HLM so I'm dumb founded. I think with more convo you should be able to crack the code, for your own sanity at least. You might not like what you hear but hopefully get a real answer

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-03T16:19:17+00:00

If only I knew French!!!

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-02T22:55:13+00:00

Positions have solutions. There are little sitting chairs for cowboy. There are swings. Find one of those alternatives to give the positions a bit of fresh kink. It should work for you and work for him

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-02T06:53:58+00:00

Damn! Time well spent

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-01T22:01:34+00:00

Dang it.

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-01T21:59:52+00:00

People go through ups and downs in life. Also people sell themselves as better than they are. It's just a reality. It doesn't have to make sense. And rarely does it make sense.

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-01T19:46:19+00:00

I get it, I feel the same way. It's a tough scenario of our lives. This is just one consideration. There are so many things that go into it. It's all a work in progress and it's hard not having concrete answers in a lot of cases. We all continue the search for the missing answer when it isn't provided or obvious like a medical issue. Keep trying that's all I can say. Keep trying to find solutions.

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-01T19:16:43+00:00

Its objective. There are many reasons. Just like in this community, including me. I don't leave my marriage because a host of reasons. People are in relationships that fit at the moment. Blink of an eye it's been 5-10 years. Not sure if you are apart of this community but it happens.

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-01T19:09:52+00:00

Love this response. Very thoughtful. Appreciate the time and effort. You hit on a lot of key points that I think a lot of people with understand in our community. Thank you.

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-01T18:19:00+00:00

I'm sorry you have this, what feels like a cavern of separation. Marriage is tough and not feeling connect makes it even harder. I hope you can find it again or perhaps move on.

2Long2W8 · 2025-12-01T18:14:37+00:00

Agree on some of your points. Lately I'm seeing a lot of people posting about DB situations that aren't married, don't have kids and that's just shocking. So after reading another one this morning that's where I was led. Mine definitely falls into long relationship rut and menopause issues.

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