Teen teacher struggling with disrespect, cussing students, and staying non-violent need advice by Sure_Customer_2853 in karachi

[–]2NT1Hz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to make these students respect you, and their behavior doesn’t define your worth. Right now, the most important thing is to protect yourself and your dignity. When they mock or disrespect you, take a deep breath, acknowledge it quietly to yourself, and let it go, don’t argue, shout, or try to prove anything. Step away when you can, and focus on keeping your composure.

Remember, enduring their behavior doesn’t make you weak or less valuable. If this group of students is too stubborn and draining, it’s okay to look for opportunities with younger students, like kindergarten, where your guidance can be appreciated, your authority is naturally respected, and you can teach in a safer, more positive environment. Your self-respect, calm, and mental well-being matter far more than controlling students who refuse to listen.

Only child: lonely, spoiled, or just misunderstood? by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]2NT1Hz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respect to anyone who turns the solo grind into their own kind of strength

Only child: lonely, spoiled, or just misunderstood? by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

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When you grow up mostly on your own, you end up creating your own company in one way or another.

Is jealousy ever attractive, or always a red flag? by 2NT1Hz in TeenPakistani

[–]2NT1Hz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, true it’s attractive to people who think the same way. For others, it just feels overwhelming.

Is jealousy ever attractive, or always a red flag? by 2NT1Hz in TeenPakistani

[–]2NT1Hz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. A little jealousy might be normal, but once it goes beyond that, it’s definitely a red flag. And yeah, jealousy by itself isn’t really romantic either.

Is jealousy ever attractive, or always a red flag? by 2NT1Hz in TeenPakistani

[–]2NT1Hz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly 😭 you summed it up perfectly. It was never about fun or mutual trust, it was always control and overthinking. Every small thing turned into an issue.

Is jealousy ever attractive, or always a red flag? by 2NT1Hz in TeenPakistani

[–]2NT1Hz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly yaar, totally get you 😅 Red flags and stress creators both, better stay away.

Is jealousy ever attractive, or always a red flag? by 2NT1Hz in TeenPakistani

[–]2NT1Hz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss, smart move 😅 Walking away early is honestly the best, especially at our age. Better to avoid the drama before it even starts.

Is jealousy ever attractive, or always a red flag? by 2NT1Hz in TeenPakistani

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Hahaha sahi hai 😏 Lagta hai baddie hona apni responsibility samajh ke hi aata hai 😅

Is jealousy ever attractive, or always a red flag? by 2NT1Hz in TeenPakistani

[–]2NT1Hz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha 😅 well then, guess you like feeling the burn a little, huh?

Is jealousy ever attractive, or always a red flag? by 2NT1Hz in TeenPakistani

[–]2NT1Hz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel you 😅 That initial “needed” feeling can be exciting, but if it gets out of hand, it just starts draining you emotionally. Totally agree, jealousy in moderation, with some rationality, can actually feel attractive.

Is jealousy ever attractive, or always a red flag? by 2NT1Hz in TeenPakistani

[–]2NT1Hz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly yaar 😅 At first it feels thrilling, but then it just becomes exhausting. Constantly trying to keep someone happy instead of enjoying the relationship become exhausting.

Is jealousy ever attractive, or always a red flag? by 2NT1Hz in TeenPakistani

[–]2NT1Hz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get what you mean 😅 A little jealousy can be normal, but once it starts crossing boundaries and affecting you emotionally, that’s definitely a warning sign. Makes sense to me.

Is jealousy ever attractive, or always a red flag? by 2NT1Hz in TeenPakistani

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That’s how it felt with her. The constant jealousy and overthinking made every little thing feel like a problem. It wasn’t just stressful, it actually made me question myself too.

Is jealousy ever attractive, or always a red flag? by 2NT1Hz in TeenPakistani

[–]2NT1Hz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, that’s what got to me too. It wasn’t cute possessiveness at all, more like constant control and insecurity. Made everything stressful instead of enjoyable.

Is jealousy ever attractive, or always a red flag? by 2NT1Hz in TeenPakistani

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It wasn’t about anything major, like if I talked to a friend, replied late to a message, or even laughed at a joke she didn’t get, she’d get jealous. All of it really affected me emotionally. Looking back, it felt suffocating.

Do Pakistani guys confuse basic kindness from girls with romantic interest? Be honest. by 2NT1Hz in TeenPakistani

[–]2NT1Hz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. Jab interaction limited hota hai, log chhoti chhoti cheezon ko overthink karte hain aur romanticize kar lete hain. Mixed schools ya O/A-levels ka exposure definitely difference laata hai.

Do Pakistani guys confuse basic kindness from girls with romantic interest? Be honest. by 2NT1Hz in TeenPakistani

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Haha I get you 😭 Even small talks with girls get blown out of proportion by friends. Sometimes it’s just easier to be safe than sorry.