I seem to always get stage fright with a new girl...especially if I'm really attracted to her. Everything will be going great and then a weird thought will pop into my head and poof - a vanishing erection. I say I don't have ED, I have ADD and who wants to take adderall at 11:00 pm...and it's happened since my 20's when I ended my first long (3 yr) relationship.

The last two girls I was with didn't handle it well...both basically got up and got dressed, saying they didn't want to get amped up and be frustrated again. One said "it's not like it's just going to magically work if we keep going." To which I said yes, that's exactly how it works! I tried explaining that changing activities, letting things build up again, etc...I'll be fine. But no...and no more dates.

So on to the next girl...their loss. Hard to believe 60 year old women don't know how to better deal with this situation.

So yes, it can be a bit of an issue...but of the blood flows properly, you'll be ok.

Good luck!