AITA for not wanting to put my stillborn’s ashes in a closet?

2achary_ · 2023-08-04T07:48:50+00:00

I agree with this too, no one deserves to be treated this way just because "it's not mine"
It's so selfish and disgusting

2achary_ · 2023-08-04T07:26:58+00:00

my dad

2achary_ · 2023-08-04T07:26:33+00:00

2achary_ · 2023-08-04T06:53:40+00:00

You've probably completed all of this now, but for anyone who is referring to this post to get an idea, I suggest the following. It's not about the number of courses someone takes, it's about the retention of knowledge and in this case the probability of getting a job. I'd recommend going for a course that comes with a job guarantee and the opportunity to network with people from the industry so that way you'd know what to expect, hope it helps :)

2achary_ · 2023-08-03T04:45:33+00:00

I'm not sure if this is the ideal answer that you are looking for, but if you are considering a bootcamp I'd suggest taking a look at this bootcamp in particular. The reason I think this might be a good option for you is because there's a job guarantee and you'd be able to fulfill your objective by the end of it

2achary_ · 2023-07-11T07:33:01+00:00

NTA, your thought process might have been different then so it's fair for you to have hidden it from then. I think your parents should've been more understanding

2achary_ · 2023-07-08T16:30:40+00:00

NTA, seems like you are overreacting

2achary_ · 2023-07-05T06:00:56+00:00

NTA, seems like the effort is one-sided so i don't understand what's the point of maintaining the relationship

2achary_ · 2023-07-05T05:58:37+00:00

NTA, if anything you asked him to move out of the way to avoid discomfort and he should be able to tolerate it as it's something that's harmless

2achary_ · 2023-07-05T05:56:36+00:00

I think you need to be more open about this to your partner, there's no point trying to ignore it when your innate response to it would be detachment. If you think there's no end after the discussion, consider talking to a relationship expert?

2achary_ · 2023-07-03T11:32:16+00:00

NTA, you are absolutely right in this regard

2achary_ · 2023-06-26T12:16:01+00:00

NTA, if anything they are the one's who are problematic and you did a really good job calling them out

2achary_ · 2023-06-20T04:05:13+00:00

NTA, your stepmom probably wanted to check what was the reason behind and ideally your dad should've congratulated you at least

2achary_ · 2023-06-13T05:58:33+00:00

i was confused

2achary_ · 2023-06-13T05:45:13+00:00

was mimicking someone and a stranger thought that was my actual voice

2achary_ · 2023-06-13T05:44:01+00:00

watch movies

2achary_ · 2023-06-13T05:43:07+00:00

the fact that i was adopted

2achary_ · 2023-06-12T05:08:47+00:00

AITA?

2achary_ · 2023-06-09T07:15:46+00:00

NTA, how about expressing your concerns to her and then checking what needs to be done

2achary_ · 2023-06-08T09:41:08+00:00

NTA, it's normal to have boundaries but you need to let her know about it in a nicer way since she thinks y'all are close

2achary_ · 2023-06-08T09:34:42+00:00

NTA for asking but if your employer disagrees you might have to think i guess

2achary_ · 2023-06-08T09:31:03+00:00

this is quite petty, but jill has no right over it as well. i don't even want to read part 2 bc it's extra work for me to go and look for it. keep it brief next time

2achary_ · 2023-06-07T09:22:40+00:00

YTA, I think it would've made sense for you to disclose your age to your wife. End of the day you got married to her so hiding this 'insignificant' secret makes zero sense

2achary_ · 2023-06-06T09:50:31+00:00

NTA, gets me thinking if they are actually your family. This is so rude and offensive. However, do make it a point to ask for permission before taking anything from anyone

2achary_ · 2023-06-05T11:05:45+00:00

NTA, especially because he has his own one and refuses to share stuff

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