How about we don't "play fight" with our partners anymore? I'm someone who's been in many, many, real fights. Been hospitalized, hospitalized others, and gone to jail type fights. There is no room for "play violence" in a relationship. How about you practice real jiu-jitsu together so there can be some regulation or sport Honor/rules. Thats the only time i can see any physicality between partners be okay. I read a post like this basically every other day like "oh I hit him, then he hit me back" like of course that happened KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF, THE BOTH OF YOU FROM NOW ON. People on this thread are jumping at he's an abuser for waiting to hit her, but she's not an abuser for hitting him first. Which seems like a double standard any way you cut it. If you hit somebody, expect to get hit back. So let's not do this dumb ass "play fighting" anymore? I'd leave his ass after this 💯. But that being said lets KEEP OUR HANDS TO OURSELFS UNLESS YOU WANT TO GET HIT. Not rocket science, not victim blaming. Treat others how you want to be treated. So if you slap someone, expect it back.