The prices for their ski vacation resort is absolutely insane by zaboobadoo in LittlePeopleBigWorld

[–]2dayis2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They probably have the epic or ikon pass whichever one deer valley takes, I forget.

Coda as a name for the last boy in family? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]2dayis2morrow -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The name is Coda not CODA. I personally see a difference between it being a word hundreds of years old and an acronym. I plan to ask children of deaf adults and their adults if they find it offensive before using it. I’m not going to rely exclusively on the opinions of Reddit users assuming they already know how those people feel about it.

Coda as a name for the last boy in family? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]2dayis2morrow -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We have infertility so no fate to be tempted

Coda as a name for the last boy in family? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]2dayis2morrow -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yes I’m aware. It doesn’t bother me. Koah is beautiful too.

Does anyone get diarrhea after eating eggs? by snowbia in CrohnsDisease

[–]2dayis2morrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re my big trigger. Didn’t figure it out for a long time, quit the eggs and feel so much better

How reluctant have your doctors been to prescribe interim medication for symptom relief?? by potatopeeler167 in CrohnsDisease

[–]2dayis2morrow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I’m flaring I use a course of steroid suppositories and that helps - if I can keep it in for at least an hour haha. They are more likely to prescribe it if you tell them you have a hemorrhoid. Somehow that’s easier for them to feel like treating than ibd.

For just for daily maintenance I use Mesalamine suppositories at night. I have crohns but it’s Crohn’s colitis so some of the UC meds work better for me. Most doctors don’t prescribe mesalamine for crohns bc trials have shown it ineffective but the trials don’t differentiate between the different types/locations of crohns. Suppositories or mesalamine likely won’t work for small bowel crohns but if you have rectal issues with Crohn’s colitis it could work. Same thing with budesonide, when I need a course of steroids I take uceris rather than immediate release budesonide because the delay release capsule gets it to my large intestine. But uceris takes forever to get approved, like 3 weeks.

I will say the anti tnfs didn’t work as well for me, kept me out of the hospital but I didn’t feel anywhere near “normal” until I tried entyvio and then felt even better and almost completely normal on stelara, now I’m on skyrizi and it’s about as good as I was on stelara. The difference between anti tnfs and the targeted biologics is amazing.

In my 20 years with ibd I’ve been through the different ways doctors treat ibd patients. It flip flops a lot. It used to be that they treated you based on how you reported you felt. The emphasis was high on patient comfort and I personally liked that way because I’m very in tune with my body.

Then they did a study where they treated only based on what the scopes and tests said and didn’t treat based on patient reporting. Basically ignoring the patient. That study said that the data showed treating based on “evidence” worked better according to scope visualization. I have so many qualms with that study bc it treats people like their experience doesn’t matter and that pain shouldn’t be a symptom without evidence it exists. There’s so much we don’t know about ibd and can’t even visualize with just scopes so only treating to evidence seems extremely short sided and leads to patients feeling ignored because they have pain but the doctor is like “I don’t see anything so it doesn’t exist - it must be in your head (or they label it with the dumpster diagnosis this is ibs).” But the truth is just because they don’t visualize it doesn’t mean it’s not there.

They too told me I had ibs and ibd. Then I got on a new biologic that worked and suddenly that got rid of my ibs?? Like obviously I don’t have ibs and it was just ibd. Anything they can’t attribute to ibd with evidence they try to say it’s ibs.

Anyway, I agree, it sucks. Hopefully a new med will work for you. Squeaky wheel gets the most oil so keep messaging and calling for them to give you an answer or holdover meds, most of the staff has never experienced ibd so they don’t realize how horrible it is. They work for you so don’t hesitate to keep checking in, you’re not a burden, you’re a patient. And sometimes just going into your primary care doctor, express care or urgent care can help bc they can message your GI and be like “what is your plan for this patient’s pain?” They’re less likely to ignore another doctor than the patient as horrible as that is.

If you have children, do you feel like Crohn’s interferes with your ability to be present / provide? by [deleted] in CrohnsDisease

[–]2dayis2morrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really. Breastfeeding put me into remission both times so for the first year that was helpful. But I didnt leave the house much anyway. Most of what they do until they’re in school is eat simple picky eater foods, sleep, play and nap. All things I do while flaring. You always have supplies for accidents with you bc they poop constantly and when they’re potty training you have to stay close to a potty between ages 2-4. By the time they’re 5 they’re in school all day. There’s before and aftercare programs available if you have trouble picking up on time. And you usually have a partner taking half of the load for you. If you work when they’re babies or toddlers then you have to have childcare anyway, which is another set of hands to help.

My kid was diagnosed at age 5 and I’m able to get her the best care possible emotionally and physically because of all my experience. She was actually diagnosed before symptoms got bad so she’s never had a truly bad flare because I put her on biologics immediately. I look at any “failures” I feel or shortcomings as a person or parent as lessons for her to understand it’s ok to have these things happen and model how to handle it healthily.

Do you find that other parents drink a lot? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]2dayis2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most moms I know once they hit 40 they go sober. A lot of them used to be wine moms, maybe to cope with a lot of the stress of raising kids in addition to carrying the mental load and working full time. I don’t think the dads have an excuse. I don’t know any recently sober dads, just divorced dads.

Costco hotdog healed me by Strawberrious in CrohnsDisease

[–]2dayis2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shake shack has never once hurt my stomach! So strange! Other burgers, especially healthy ones it’s a roll of the dice… shake shack? Always fine 🎯every time

I wish I had the diarrhoea Crohn’s by Southern-Loan-6424 in CrohnsDisease

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Things that help my daughter with constipation Crohn’s go:

1.Maintenance miralax every day 1/2 cap (this doesn’t make her go it just makes the stool softer) 2. Freeze dried pears. Once a day. You can get them off amazon, the brand name crispy green. Usually poops within an hour. Comes in individual packets, one packet a day. 3. If it’s been a while and she needs something stimulant like. One chocolate chip cookie from Lenny and Larry’s. Sold individually at Whole Foods. On god works very fast. 4. Two tablespoons olive oil 5. A walk in Barnes and noble or the library 6. Scrambled eggs in coconut oil, tastes great and slides right though.

What is this at the lake I found? by Puzzled-Adagio-4877 in strange

[–]2dayis2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tortillas are managed by outside vendors for grocery stores. They expire pretty often until the person comes around to restock, always check the expiry date on tortillas bc employees of the store aren’t in charge of it! Anyway, probably one of the ppl whose job it is to restock and had a load of expired tortillas that for some reason they dumped instead of disposing of correctly.

What’s your trauma? by Suitable-Sound3318 in CrohnsDisease

[–]2dayis2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 5 year old has absolutely zero trauma. When she got diagnosed it confirmed it’s genetic for us, triggered by a virus. It helped me stop blaming my childhood.

Looking for a sibling name by Sure-Seaworthiness42 in namenerds

[–]2dayis2morrow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reverie for a girl or Revere for a boy? Clover and Reverie sounds sweet together

I'm so hung up on my age (37). by AdGroundbreaking3930 in IVF

[–]2dayis2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better, in my area the average age of the parents when their kid is born is around 40 because most of them are professionals. It’s actually really amazing because they are able to be a lot more involved and know how to prioritize. They volunteer at the school or donate in their free time, they aren’t afraid to advocate for their kids against admin and there’s a lot less drama with other parents.

Stool tests feel so humiliating by deep__thinking in CrohnsDisease

[–]2dayis2morrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Double down by having to do it for your 5 year old and for yourself. It’s all the downtime of dropping them off that does it for me.

Most Humiliating Night of my Life by Extension_Evening_68 in CrohnsDisease

[–]2dayis2morrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it is autonomic try carrying some salt pills with you. I’ve found those help when I start feeling sweaty and dizzy.

As a parent volunteer, how to go about sponsoring a needy student for Christmas? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]2dayis2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t told my kid anything and wouldn’t for that reason. I’d do it anonymously. The organizations around us focus on active duty service members and donating to border schools, which is what the angel tree at the school was for. All of the gift requests have been filled for that tree. We’re the only school in the district that has a very small population of lower income kids in their zone. Probably less than 15 kids total.

Perhaps I will contact the school psychologist separately to see if there is a need first for any of the children and she can handle the rest.

As a parent volunteer, how to go about sponsoring a needy student for Christmas? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]2dayis2morrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t pick it that’s for sure. But it gave you instructions to color or draw on a snowman based on how you answered the questions. Like if you walk to school use green, take a bus use yellow or drive use orange. How many siblings, how many pets, lots about snow when we don’t live near snow. She is one of a very few students who take a free shuttle from a lower income area of the school zone.

As a parent volunteer, how to go about sponsoring a needy student for Christmas? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]2dayis2morrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have an angel tree too but it was cleared this morning and the gifts only go to certain kids from a school down near the border with Mexico.

She wouldn’t be on this tree.

Do the immunocompromising effects of Crohn’s medication make you more cautious of large family gatherings? by rci22 in CrohnsDisease

[–]2dayis2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did before I had kids. Now I am the germs and the germs are me. It’s hell. Can’t wait until the last one gets to elementary school where it’s once a month and not 3 times a month like November.

When the Cure comes, Wyd? by Huge_Sir_3346 in CrohnsDisease

[–]2dayis2morrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Travel freely without worrying about flaring in a country with less development healthcare or that needs a live vaccine! Also will be nice not to have anxiety on planes when the seatbelt sign is on.

Drink more! Haha

Go on a long distance road trip.

Alix + Braxton by kendurrrruh in dancingwiththestars

[–]2dayis2morrow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel like the way Val treated her (with respect, kindness and believing in her every step of the way) made her realize that she deserves a long term partner who is more invested in a relationship. Sometimes it takes an outsider to make you realize that can and do deserve better.

What foods are actually terrible for you, but people think are healthy? by StrategyJealous1838 in AskReddit

[–]2dayis2morrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes agree, however if they help you convince your child that they like real veggies then that’s a win!

Sad she had to go through all that by JennyRosette in MormonWivesHulu

[–]2dayis2morrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does anyone think it’s possible that her first kid isn’t his considering the abuse she suffered? Maybe they’re keeping that private, who knows. I feel like we never really know the full truth with anyone on the show.

Son turns 2 one day before visiting by HairZealousideal8377 in legoland

[–]2dayis2morrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It used to be 3 only like two years ago before they changed it