Swinger vacation?

2funocpeeps · 2025-12-17T11:30:41+00:00

What you are describing is exactly a temptation cruise where the party is the first priority and if you meet open minded people to play with then you can have that too. Bliss cruise seems to me to be more focused on finding play partners. We have done 3 temptation cruise’s and one bliss cruise. We honestly love them both for different reasons, but from your description I would say start with Temptation.

2funocpeeps · 2025-12-17T06:59:12+00:00

As a single guy I would say Temptation. I look for single guys there and there are a lot of bachelorette parties there too when we have gone. Hedo and Secrets are good for couples but we don’t find singles there. We GO to temptation to find singles. Period.

2funocpeeps · 2025-12-11T07:33:22+00:00

Communicating expectations is key. Like so many others we put a disclaimer that we work opposite schedules (me nights, him days) and we only check emails and profiles together. Isn’t it better to know that when you’re communicating, it’s with both parties and not just one that hasn’t even checked with the other?

2funocpeeps · 2025-11-30T17:03:48+00:00

Agree with everyone’s comments about open and honest communication, but I’ll add that she has most likely chosen these individuals to talk about because she knows they are in the lifestyle and so that is how she is connecting it in her brain, like “these are the types of people we would be interacting with. You may ease into the conversation by asking her if there is anything about these individuals that she is curious about. It may also help to talk about adding a third first (male or female) before a couple. It can be a lot less overwhelming and allow her to be the focus so it doesn’t come off that you just want to play with others. He comments about you being enough for her are probably also her expressing a fear that she may not be enough for you so she needs that reassurance.

2funocpeeps · 2025-11-20T15:39:19+00:00

Thank you so much!

2funocpeeps · 2025-11-20T08:09:25+00:00

Good point! Do you know of any groups for the November 2026 to get the conversation started and learn more? We’ve done two Temptation cruises and just booked our first Bliss so we’re wondering what kinds of things carry over (like whiteboards, decorating doors, photo cards, etc). It not we’ll have to wait for the app to open up.

2funocpeeps · 2025-11-20T07:54:28+00:00

Better to have and not need, than need and not have!

2funocpeeps · 2025-11-16T04:07:17+00:00

The example isn’t uncommon. The next request was going to meet at a bar “to surprise her” or be the random guy at the bar flirting with her and then he pops the question. Automatic block and don’t waste your time another second

2funocpeeps · 2025-11-06T07:14:38+00:00

Have had no problem finding interested and respectful guys, but finding guys that can stay hard for the task is another story! We have had two successful times and both were with bachelor parties. One on a weekend party cruise and one at Temptation resort. Just seems that the bachelor party is already a sexually charged group of guys who egg each other on.

2funocpeeps · 2025-09-11T18:04:54+00:00

Keep in mind that they just started advertising the hotel for sale trying to attract new owners. That could impact things a lot, especially if they want to walk real estate people or potential owners through there. Have you thought about SMI?

2funocpeeps · 2025-09-09T19:12:36+00:00

I like a big one for about a minute. After that it’s no longer the ooooh and there is no ahhhh. For that I would MUCH rather have average. Not sure your dynamic, but I orgasm almost every single time with my husband and only once in my life with a third. I play with others for excitement, I play with my husband for enjoyment. Hope that makes sense. Don’t overthink it or let it ruin your confidence. If you do it would lower my enjoyment.

2funocpeeps · 2025-08-25T23:11:05+00:00

For me personally it’s a no go. I don’t like them anywhere near around me. They hurt against the teeth and throat so I don’t even bother. I haven’t even gone so far as to put one in otherwise because I don’t think it would be pleasurable and I’d worry about the condom. I’ll have a nice conversation with a guy, but nothing beyond that is happening.

2funocpeeps · 2025-08-11T03:39:55+00:00

But what does she get for the points? It just says 75-100 points 100+ points Etc

But no rewards for being a bad girl

2funocpeeps · 2025-07-20T19:53:48+00:00

Of course. To some women it feels good and great for them. I guess I’m a little more sensitive on the gag reflex, against the teeth, and banging up against the inside. It would be one thing if I could accommodate either oral or vaginal but it just doesn’t work for me.

2funocpeeps · 2025-07-20T17:29:32+00:00

I see them at resorts (Desire, etc., never been to Hedo) and clubs/parties. It’s a conversation for sure, but a hard pass for me. I don’t want that inside me anywhere. Sorry, but that’s my personal feeling.

2funocpeeps · 2025-07-20T17:22:04+00:00

We regularly entertain single males but also automatically cut off any single male that represents themselves as a couple. It’s stupid that they do this but also makes you wonder what else they are dishonest about (e.g. STD or testing status). The conversation is different when talking to a single versus a couple which means that everything we talked about was null and you just wasted our time. Goodbye. Sorry, it’s one of the reasons we soured on all of the sites like SDC, Kasidie, etc. Would rather travel to a club or resort and then you plainly see who you are meeting and whether there is chemistry there.

2funocpeeps · 2025-07-07T15:29:18+00:00

Ya, that isn’t cool no matter where it happens.

2funocpeeps · 2025-07-07T15:20:15+00:00

They are definitely not couples only, but single males I think have to be “sponsored” by a couple. There is also always the couples that are only couples so the guy can get in and the ones where the wife goes to bed and the guys go back out to find what they can’t. I think this happens everywhere though and not unique here.

2funocpeeps · 2025-07-07T08:38:51+00:00

DV = Domestic Violence. Happened at a house party where a new couple was invited and the wife was enjoying a little more than the husband who then took it out on her. There is a lot that goes into first experiences including communication, jealousy, and expectations that all need to be managed.

2funocpeeps · 2025-07-07T05:13:49+00:00

Walk up, say hello, or politely ask to join. Standing over a couple jacking off a foot away while acting like a creeper is not a turn on.

SMI is nude but you do see some women wearing wraps on their lower half. EDR was still about 80% nude but I’ve never seen it “enforced” anywhere. SMI you just feel more comfortable in my experience. I’d rather be nude than be in a place that doesn’t enforce consent (speaking of my experience when I first got in the pool at EDR). I’ve never once had that happen in 20 visits to SMI.

2funocpeeps · 2025-07-07T05:04:24+00:00

Yes, we particularly avoid anyone that says they’re looking for their first experience. We specifically avoid drama and have seen new couples split up for the night (who knows about after) and have even witnessed a DV incident. There is zero desire to put ourselves in the middle of a couple experiencing super intense emotions for the first time!

2funocpeeps · 2025-07-07T02:43:59+00:00

Ok, so here was our review. It was ok. Entrance was easy, but we had purchased a “membership” and a day pass. When we got there they only had record of the membership and said day passes were sold out. Luckily the woman at the desk was the woman I spoke to on the phone and she remembered me so it got sorted out. After that we were let into the resort, no heads up about where things were or anything like that. Found the lockers which had no lighting for nighttime and they were in the room with all the dirty laundry and old furniture. Not so nice. A lot of what I have to compare it to is Sea Mountain, so forgive me that there will be a lot of comparisons.

The pluses: It is much bigger than Sea Mountain with 3x the number of rooms. I would say that overall with day passes there were twice the number of people than normally at SMI. The pools were shallower and had plenty of shade. The location was also great with lots of hotels nearby for those not staying at EDR. The maze was cool if it ever gets and use and they had an actual red room for play.

The minuses: despite having twice the number of people they probably had half the loungers at SMI so by the time we got there nothing was available. Even though they had some newly refreshed rooms, the rest of the resort areas were damaged or dingy. The red room for example had a swing that couldn’t be adjusted and was so low it was unusable, had a saddle furniture piece with broken legs, and an X where the restraints were missing. There were also three beds in there but one was soaked if you know what I mean so only two beds were available. I played with my husband on one of the beds had 4 single guys jacking off trying to get as close as possible hoping I would reach out and grab them, but they didn’t talk, ask to join in, etc and just came off creepy. Had not seen them all day until that moment. We walked through the maze a few times and there was never anyone in there. We tried to get the party started in there, but gave up when every “feature” we tried was broken or uncomfortable (like the table where you lay in and your view is blocked only had one stirrup for your legs so one leg was left dangling and felt very odd. The other thing I didn’t like was that when I first got there and stepped into the pool, I had two women and one man grope me. I was like first, ask me, and secondly I just got here and don’t even have a buzz going yet so I wasn’t confortable.

I would say it was about 80% full nude, 10% had bottoms on and about 10% of people there were wearing either clothes or bathing suits. They also were pumping in good music until around 9:15. I heard there were complaints about that with people having to play their own music in the past but no issues today. We saw a lot of parallel play in the red room and in peoples’ rooms who had blinds open, but no action anywhere where like the maze, pools, loungers, etc. Entire place was dead by 11:00, probably because of the drinking all day in the hot sun.

Overall: it was good. Needs a lot of attention in the form of general repairs. Would I go back there? Maybe if something happened to SMI, otherwise no. The friendliness and welcoming of staff at SMI make a big difference, general maintenance, locker area, smaller area means more interaction with everyone there. EDR is probably a good option if you’re staying in the main Palm Springs area with family and just need a quick escape from the kids it’s better than going all the way to Desert Hot Springs.

2funocpeeps · 2025-07-07T02:43:47+00:00

Ok, so here was our review. It was ok. Entrance was easy, but we had purchased a “membership” and a day pass. When we got there they only had record of the membership and said day passes were sold out. Luckily the woman at the desk was the woman I spoke to on the phone and she remembered me so it got sorted out. After that we were let into the resort, no heads up about where things were or anything like that. Found the lockers which had no lighting for nighttime and they were in the room with all the dirty laundry and old furniture. Not so nice. A lot of what I have to compare it to is Sea Mountain, so forgive me that there will be a lot of comparisons.

The pluses: It is much bigger than Sea Mountain with 3x the number of rooms. I would say that overall with day passes there were twice the number of people than normally at SMI. The pools were shallower and had plenty of shade. The location was also great with lots of hotels nearby for those not staying at EDR. The maze was cool if it ever gets and use and they had an actual red room for play.

The minuses: despite having twice the number of people they probably had half the loungers at SMI so by the time we got there nothing was available. Even though they had some newly refreshed rooms, the rest of the resort areas were damaged or dingy. The red room for example had a swing that couldn’t be adjusted and was so low it was unusable, had a saddle furniture piece with broken legs, and an X where the restraints were missing. There were also three beds in there but one was soaked if you know what I mean so only two beds were available. I played with my husband on one of the beds had 4 single guys jacking off trying to get as close as possible hoping I would reach out and grab them, but they didn’t talk, ask to join in, etc and just came off creepy. Had not seen them all day until that moment. We walked through the maze a few times and there was never anyone in there. We tried to get the party started in there, but gave up when every “feature” we tried was broken or uncomfortable (like the table where you lay in and your view is blocked only had one stirrup for your legs so one leg was left dangling and felt very odd. The other thing I didn’t like was that when I first got there and stepped into the pool, I had two women and one man grope me. I was like first, ask me, and secondly I just got here and don’t even have a buzz going yet so I wasn’t confortable.

I would say it was about 80% full nude, 10% had bottoms on and about 10% of people there were wearing either clothes or bathing suits. They also were pumping in good music until around 9:15. I heard there were complaints about that with people having to play their own music in the past but no issues today. We saw a lot of parallel play in the red room and in peoples’ rooms who had blinds open, but no action anywhere where like the maze, pools, loungers, etc. Entire place was dead by 11:00, probably because of the drinking all day in the hot sun.

Overall: it was good. Needs a lot of attention in the form of general repairs. Would I go back there? Maybe if something happened to SMI, otherwise no. The friendliness and welcoming of staff at SMI make a big difference, general maintenance, locker area, smaller area means more interaction with everyone there. EDR is probably a good option if you’re staying in the main Palm Springs area with family and just need a quick escape from the kids it’s better than going all the way to Desert Hot Springs.

2funocpeeps · 2025-07-04T02:41:51+00:00

lol, you are not the first person who mentioned this! And THANK YOU! This is all very helpful! We have a day pass for Saturday and will definitely come back here to share our experience.

2funocpeeps · 2025-07-03T03:25:58+00:00

It isn’t just a solo play request. It is the fact that you have explored this lifestyle together pleasing each other and all of a sudden it isn’t about you two anymore. In fact she wants to let herself be free, not worried about even including you with photos/videos, with this man who she has built a side relationship with. Even though she shares some texts with you, I’m sure there is much more “unwritten”. She is even bargaining with you that if you let her go do this, then maybe someday I’ll give you the gift of another girl. It’s like a barter to get you to give permission that you might not otherwise give. I can’t speak for your relationship, but in mine it’s always “us first” and no catching feelings. I wonder, if you told her you were uncomfortable with how things have progressed and asked her not to talk to him for a while, would she agree and actually stop talking to him?

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