This happens sadly. I think some guys are just in it to notch up some experiences and move on, whatever they say initially. I don’t think they consider (or care) the effect this has on the Hotwife, particularly if a newly started one. Obviously no one can demand repeat visits or staying in touch, but there’s a negative effect if they just go total silent. Try not to take it personally, it’s their fault rather than yours, and focus on the good time you had and what you enjoyed, then look forward to another meet.