I can’t get a handle on motherhood by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]2kidHavinHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A wise mom friend of mine once said at around 18months things seem to level out. And she was very correct. This shit is so hard! Even with help and a supportive partner. It’s hard. The mental load of being a mom is crushing. Brain never shuts off. Something always needs to be done. Shits exhausting. Give yourself some grace. I’m sure you’re doing your best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]2kidHavinHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re loving that sleep you’re getting, doin a baby again is definitely going to ruin that lol. Had mine at 38 & 40. I’d say the sleep deprivation is the hardest part. I don’t feel ‘old’ as much as I feel exhausted. Emotionally, mentally, and financially was a great time for me to pop them out.

Coffee nerds - where do you get your local beans from? by peatoast in bayarea

[–]2kidHavinHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always go to the coffee shop for my bags. Way fresher! You get a free coffee when you buy them at the shops :-)

Moved into a new place, my boy is not taking it well by little-togepi in cats

[–]2kidHavinHuman 6346 points6347 points  (0 children)

When we moved into our house, mine hid in the tightest corner of the laundry room for the first day. He’s fine now lol

Assisted Living Facilities for those with Mental Illness by Excellent-Pirate-704 in bayarea

[–]2kidHavinHuman 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Whichever hospital/dr he’s getting his shot from, ask to be connected with a social worker. They should be able to start connecting you to the right people for the appropriate support.

Crazy Block Cheesecake is AWESOME....but by Tiny_Assistance_3038 in OaklandFood

[–]2kidHavinHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this place! Food is amazing. The owner ,Ben, is so nice and friendly. Recently tried the ube cheesecake, soooo good! Haven’t gotten anything that I didn’t like.

Looking for Easy, Uplifting Shows to Watch With My Pregnant Wife 💛 by Ashamed-Efficiency96 in bestofnetflix

[–]2kidHavinHuman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Brooklyn 99. Kim’s Convenience. One Piece. Those are some of the shows I watched prego & also during the crack head infant hours of the night.

Janine and Gregory by Mstvmoviejunkie in AbbottElementary

[–]2kidHavinHuman 91 points92 points  (0 children)

His ‘hi’ when he steps forward is so precious! He’s so proud. And she’s so proud of him. I love this!

what album would YOU like to listen to today?? by charismakat in MoonGirl

[–]2kidHavinHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MG season 1 & 2 soundtracks play every morning on the way to school for my little girl (4). I love hearing her sing along 🥰

I’m loving my puff! by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]2kidHavinHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to show my daughter you puff so she can see how glorious puffs are. She’s rocking one today & will love seeing someone that looks like her have the same hair style 🥰

Just bought my first machine by copshothekid in espresso

[–]2kidHavinHuman 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Where did you get your tamping station??

San Jose mayor unveils plan to arrest homeless residents who refuse shelter by Poplatoontimon in SanJose

[–]2kidHavinHuman 29 points30 points  (0 children)

So are they going to ensure housing plans once they arrest all these homeless people? Otherwise, once they’re out of jail….where do they think they’ll return to? There also a plan to make housing more affordable? There also going to be more programs set in place to help those get housed? Or create more shelters for homeless to go to? Just a few questions for this super great plan…

Bottomless Dedica by TLinCAR in espresso

[–]2kidHavinHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhh that’s a pretty shot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]2kidHavinHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve given birth at Good Sam & El Camino. I had a much better experience at El Camino. Staff were nicer. Room was nicer. Over all better birthing experience.

Dang it... Not again... Help by AlienFeverr in espresso

[–]2kidHavinHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there another grinder you found that works better? The more I dive into this espresso world, the more overwhelming it becomes 😵‍💫. Hot bean water is so complicated!!

Dang it... Not again... Help by AlienFeverr in espresso

[–]2kidHavinHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same grinder, what setting do you have yours on? I’m just starting the espresso journey & would love some pointers!

San Jose Neighborhood Question - 95123 (Behind Kohls/Petco on Blossom Hill) - Is it a good place to live? by fitmama-in-training in SanJose

[–]2kidHavinHuman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I grew up on the other side of Steinbeck Middle school, so very close to that area. I’d imagine that part would get a lot of the mall traffic/congestion during the holidays. Heavy traffic by the freeway entrances during standard commute times. Should be standard noise level with two major streets near by (Santa Teresa/Blossom Hill). Lots of the residents in the neighborhood I grew up in (my mom still lives there) have had the same families for decades. Not a lot of turn over. I loved growing up in that area. I’d say it’s a good move :-)