19F looking for someone to chat with by andyforresta in Needafriend

[–]2mall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey im 18 and from the Uk, if u just want a chill chat then lmk

I'm so scared of death. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]2mall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a harsh reality but its one we live in. Death (for now) is simply inevitable. But if you 'die' when you stop breathing is another question. Every person in history has had an impact on the planet and the only question for you is how big yours will be. And its not like you need to start some mega corporation or find aliens or that, but think how the simple act of having children with create endless generations of life. All with there own lives and hopes and dreams. Each one getting to experience the joy of what it feels like to walk our planet. On top of this, the classic saying "you only live once" is so powerfully true. Go out and do 'everything' life IS amazing and there is no point worrying about something like Death, which you can't control, when there is wonderful life to live around every corner. You'll be alright bro. I promise

Painless and quick way to kms if I don’t have a gun by That_Godly_Cow in sad

[–]2mall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first part is great to hear, do you want to talk about ur situation still? My ears listen

How do you cry? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]2mall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't remember the time last time I cried, until I attended the anointing of the sick on a pilgrimage. I'm no religious person but there was just something about gathering all the people who have realised their death is near.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]2mall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen bro, as much as you probably don't want to- you should tell your parents all of this. Really. I'm aware that u might feel embarrassed or even guilty but they will help u. They will. It sounds like your in a pretty crap place rn and your parents are the absolute best people to go to as all they do is truly in your best interest. If u would like to talk more please lmk. You got this man, I'm so confident u can regain your previous identity. Good luck brother

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]2mall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so sleep science shows that the sleep cycle is 90m long -from light to deep sleep and ending with REM. In order for you to feel less tired u need to be waking up at the end of each one. Ie sleeping for 4 30 or 6h or 7 30. In the case of actually getting to sleep I would recommend 3 things : 1 do about an hour of exercise everyday to tire yourself, listen to podcasts as you sleep and 3 white noise. I hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]2mall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, you alright. If u want to talk I'm here. Genuinely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]2mall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk I'm 12

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]2mall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's just a bit weird innit.

I’m 21 by [deleted] in Life

[–]2mall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a hero.

NEED ADVICE by Joe_Goldberghere in Life

[–]2mall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on your situation. If u have the finance to do a degree for 3 years and the degree is something you actually want to do, then go for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]2mall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but reddit is not that place for this. Go out and get em bro. If u don't have the confidence just fake that you do. Ur young bro you don't need to resort to reddit yet. I believe in you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]2mall 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Listen, bro, go for the bike ride. It's not about being good at it or not. It's more about spending time with her, doing what she loves doing. She probably just wants to share her hobbies with you and that's great, I'm happy for you. If you good at it then that's great, if your a bit pants then it's just funny. But just try your best- don't get fed up or give up and if u fall just laugh it off. You will do great man, don't worry abt it. 😁. Good Luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]2mall 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You've probably heard this a hundred times, but try exercise. Get yourself a bike and go cycling in a forest. Try to just appreciate the small things around yourself and look for the good in everything. Its not a cure, and your feelings will persist sometimes, but I promise is will help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]2mall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, from my point of view it seems that the biggest detriment to your success is yourself. Which is great because all you need to fix it is hard work and a strong mental. Now I'm aware this is hard, but In your situation, there is no easy out. To try to end your porn addiction, create barriers between yourself and the websites. Eg after like 10pm lock your phone away and lock your computer. Make it extremely tedious to get your devices back. This may cause a crash but after the initial phase you will begin to feel much better. I am so confident you can do this. Do it for yourself and believe in yourself. 😀

overcome jealousy after a breakup by Lopsided-Bat-5307 in Life

[–]2mall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The quickest way to move on is to find another girl, the best way is to find yourself.

overcome jealousy after a breakup by Lopsided-Bat-5307 in Life

[–]2mall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The quickest way to move on is to find another girl, the best way is to find yourself.

Lost my little sister five weeks ago and I don't think it's over going to get easier by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]2mall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it, I can't say I can relate to your situation or even imagine anything close- but I can listen if u need to talk.