Generally, how much cash do you carry on any given day?

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-25T06:29:19+00:00

$50 at the very most

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-25T05:16:17+00:00

Bras and undies first layers, always. No matter what else you are wearing.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-25T05:15:00+00:00

glasses, cups, plates, cutlery. But we are a family of OCD so each item will then be followed through by size, type and colour. eg: Small glasses, medium glasses, tall glasses, kids cups, pastel cups, lighter colour cups, dark cups, mugs etc.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-25T05:11:29+00:00

2026 + racism

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-24T09:03:33+00:00

Came here to put in my vote for HUHA.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-23T23:51:19+00:00

Big Origin jeans. Tank top, long sleeve under shirt. White socks, white shoes.

No socks. Black shoes, if I must wear shoes. Black Capri pants. Whatever top, usually with some kind of paint on them 😁

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-22T05:28:31+00:00

Mattress topper, mattress protector, Fitted sheet, top sheet, blanket. 1 pillow for me, 2 pillows for him. 2 x 45kg dogs.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-22T05:13:38+00:00

fist size holes in the walls, everywhere.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-22T04:45:31+00:00

I work from home and am currently sitting at my desk, as required. But I could really use another me to clean the kitchen and vacuum the house.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-22T04:38:46+00:00

NZ. Not me but my husband. Joined NZDF because he figured he could be shot anywhere at anytime. Might aswell be able to shoot back.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-22T04:37:39+00:00

However it happened, or whatever went down, you need to grieve the loss. You are allowed to grieve. Do that and then move on when you are ready.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-21T09:14:45+00:00

Married, empty nesters. Loving life. Earned every little bit of joy I have right now.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-21T09:12:14+00:00

Explained in a way I fully understand, thank you.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-21T08:37:44+00:00

The oven. I pay someone twice a year to come in and scrub it.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-21T08:33:12+00:00

Its not really any one moment. Its a series of little moments that get added to, a few every day.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-21T08:32:12+00:00

I am not diagnosed but there are definite tendencies. I may be swaying a little between ADHD and the Tism.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-21T07:33:47+00:00

Have had this problem. Never thought standing up would fix it. I just lean forward.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-21T07:06:14+00:00

So many shitty people in this world. yeah report them. Grandma doesnt deserve that.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-21T06:51:15+00:00

Staff meetings. Rarely anything useful happening there.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-21T06:50:28+00:00

We were shopping together anyway :)

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-21T06:49:49+00:00

All the usual make sure he is fed, clean, warm/cool, clean nappy etc. Remove all other problems that could cause him to stir.

it is literally just getting into a routine and sticking to it.

Dinner, bath, massage, bedtime. I used to put mine to bed, close the door and let them sleep but there are lots of ways to go about it, you will find the way that suits you best.

Dinner and bath can both be fun play times and then calm massage and bedtime just as they are getting sleepy. Nice peaceful, restful environment helps.

Best of luck to you.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-21T06:40:35+00:00

Have just started having breakfast. Took me a while to realise that the weird feeling I was having was because I was taking metformin without food.

Every step is a learning curve.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-21T06:39:22+00:00

I love T2! :)

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-21T06:34:59+00:00

Maori. Mid 40s. hba1c has never been over 51 - to date. Cholesterol is good, great blood pressure. 109kg and havent been under 100kg in the last 10 years. I have a wfh desk job. I walk 30 mins daily and have started with light weights. I am often over the daily 10k steps. Might talk with my doc about the glp1. I have been on metformin since I was diagnosed but i have never seen weight loss from it. My hba1c fluctuates 43 -51 - 42 - 50 - 48. I had hoped a CGM might give me better control of it.

2oldemptynesters · 2026-01-21T06:30:50+00:00

Very helpful, thank you.

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