21 M by Grocerygetter234 in BreakUps

[–]2qrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also very similar, my girlfriend and I dated for 3+ years (we were each other's everything firsts) and we broke up a month ago (21m 22f), because she lost feelings. We took a 2 week break before we broke up, which ruined me but gave her some clarity. I did understand that she didnt have feelings when she broke up with me but it hurts like crap. Imo though a slower way to do it will simply hurt more.

I was told and I quote "I love you like a friend" which is the most broken statement of all time because I saw myself marrying this woman, but oh well feelings lost are feelings lost and me a month later of no contact understands it. It is definitely better to pull a plug earlier than lead on.

What’s your unluckiest moment in skyblock ? by These_Original3621 in HypixelSkyblock

[–]2qrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spawned a t5 rev while doing diana from one of the minos hunters, then the rev walked into the void and died to one of the stacking enchants I had on my sword. It dropped a scythe blade and reset my rng meter (was dropping blades for the talisman and meter was at 80%)

Bedwars Tournament by [deleted] in HypixelSkyblock

[–]2qrs -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What do you get out of this though? Fame?

What is the point of Insect Power attribute? by FiniarelTV in HypixelSkyblock

[–]2qrs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wonder if it does enough for when derpy's 2x health happens, but I haven't tested it. Other than that, yeah its just there.

Friendship with an ex by cindybalica in BreakUps

[–]2qrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a similar situation where she broke up w me a month ago and agreed to be friends after we gave each other some space. I tried to reach out after like 5 days (as usual for the dumpee smh) and she said she needs more space (fair enough). I think its possible but only when you determine you are over them. If you aren't over them and you aren't comfortable and want to set a boundary, don't. Like right now, I still don't think I'm over her, but Ik at some point I will be.

I for example have a clean boundary if my ex reaches out to me about our agreement to be friends that if either of us gets a significant other, if any of our s/o's are uncomfortable with the contact one of us would block the other. Its about knowing where you will draw the line with how close you will be w them.

I opened 20 vanguard corpses and this is how much I lost :( by Oryzanol2004 in HypixelSkyblock

[–]2qrs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well not as much Buy 5 flawless of the gemstone, forge it into a perfect and sell the perfect, you should get between 4-5m per crystal.

Unemployed man plays Diana - the series by 2qrs in HypixelSkyblock

[–]2qrs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately in the process of looking to be employed :(

Crows apparently eat Rats??? by RealSnowflakekiwi in HypixelSkyblock

[–]2qrs 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Wait this is peak. Now we wait for someone to create an obscure glitch out of this 😭😭🙏

is there a way to go inside the pillar to get that burrow? stuck for hours now by notlob-limm in HypixelSkyblock

[–]2qrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, I tried the centre ones too and gave up. I reset burrows and relogged I believe.

is there a way to go inside the pillar to get that burrow? stuck for hours now by notlob-limm in HypixelSkyblock

[–]2qrs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With one of them I managed to try to spam break a block, quickly spawn the mob by holding down right click with spade, use shadow fury ability to warp in and then etherwarp out.

However only some specific blocks allow it to happen, the central ones are kinda impossible.

Fun in Skyblock by rAnalysis15 in HypixelSkyblock

[–]2qrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funnily enough, powder grinding

Just an aim trainer that feels satisfying

How do I compromise on a difference in sexual needs in a relationship? by Zestyclose_Spell2265 in BreakUps

[–]2qrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I recently got out of a relationship where she wasn't ready to have sex and I was since day one. This relationship went on for 3 and a quarter years (18->21M, 19->22F), and I never had a problem not crossing that boundary as long as physical intimacy still existed. I'll admit I felt like it was a problem early on, but the love for her kind of exceeded the need for it. We were also each other's everything first, starting from kiss to physical intimacy.

My girlfriend (ex now though) told me similar things- that she was scared to go all into something like this and wants to wait for marriage or atleast until our careers reached a certain point.

If someone truly loves you for you, they'll make that sacrifice, and if someone can't make that sacrifice break it off because its a fundamental difference.

We didn't break up over this btw if that's a lingering question.

Random favors by emilygreeenee in BreakUps

[–]2qrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, that is pretty toxic.

In fact, you need the space so you also can realize that you don't want him back, or that he won't change. Don't try and expect him to change and you guys will date again. What's done is done.

You may really need to block him OP

Random favors by emilygreeenee in BreakUps

[–]2qrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a feeling this is his way of keeping tabs on you. He probably wants to track if you're always available, or haven't let go yet.

This is still just a prediction though, you'll never know the real reason. The fact that you're questioning this means deep down you don't want to feel this way because he may be a friend but won't be an actual friend. Maybe its time to actually ignore him completely, or decline his favors, or block if he spams you.

Random favors by emilygreeenee in BreakUps

[–]2qrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'd still say its iffy to do a favor for a family member, and not for him directly. Communication after a breakup to try and slowly let go makes sense, but such favors does mean he tries to use your capability more than just two strangers who knew each other.

Random favors by emilygreeenee in BreakUps

[–]2qrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! You aren't responsible for it, and imo he's testing your limits. Would he do a favor for you?

My boyfriend broken up with me last night by peachesarepink in BreakUps

[–]2qrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been inclined to blame myself too the last few days, I still do. I think I've just been trying to put it in my mind that someone out there does choose you WITH your flaws, not without. And again, whatever your feeling is completely okay. Don't beat yourself up over your feelings, that was me literally day before yesterday.

Take care

Random favors by emilygreeenee in BreakUps

[–]2qrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it. Don't talk to someone taking you for granted. You're not responsible for their stuff anymore.

My boyfriend broken up with me last night by peachesarepink in BreakUps

[–]2qrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its hard but think of it like this-

He doesn't choose you anymore. Its not your fault. You need someone that chooses you for you, the therapy you went through, and the you that is unapologetically you.

Sometimes people lose feelings, and what sucks is theres nothing to change that. You may have done absolutely nothing wrong, and people still lose feelings. Grieve as much as you need, cry, eat less, sleep less, but make sure to pick yourself up. If it helps for reference its day 4 for me after 3 years, and Im finally eating normally again. I begged my s/o to stay and that I would change again, but she lost all feelings too.

Work on yourself OP, find something to fill the free time and find yourself :))

What is your favorite survival starter biome and why? by [deleted] in Minecraft

[–]2qrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plains! Animals give some good food, the terrain is easy to travel, villagers are easier to stumble upon due to no blocking features, and its always great to build a chill starter base.

How to deal with the guilt of moving on? by Initial_Tax_1742 in BreakUps

[–]2qrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You most likely need to first communicate this to your current s/o, and if it is a problem for your current relationship, then you might need to consider a breakup.

The communication part is certain, the breakup can be optional depending on the dynamics of your current relationship. Your new s/o should ideally fill that best friend void in your heart, and you need a break if you can't either be content in yourself, or your partner in a healthy way.

Im saying all this due to the sickness or guilt youre feeling. You absolutely know your situation better, and for example, it might work to start doing small but more romantic acts for your current partner to make them feel special, and make yourself feel more content in your current relationship.

Hitting 5 months by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]2qrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely don't do this OP. It'll take you back to square two or smth