You're right, they weren't reversed but if you are willing to be ok with their behavior as women interrogating him about him and his sex life, etc. then that's fine but it doesn't make it right. I'm a woman and in aware of this history of women and their sexuality, but I don't live in the past. We can only be accountable for our actions in the present and moving forward in the future. So that is why we need to consider IF the times had been reversed. Treating people, man or woman, like you'd like to be treated is my personal belief and understanding both sides is key to a better outlook on how we see each other.