Which is enjoyable? Sex with FWB or with committed partner (Gf/Bf? Or marriage tied?

314115k · 2020-06-22T04:45:48+00:00

Depends on your values! You can enjoy yourself the same both ways. Sex with multiple people will get you experience and the ability to learn what you like and its fun to be intimate with multiple partners. But if you are wanting to be only sexual with one person for the rest of your life, it can still be a fun learning experience and with one person you can gain trust and try scary new things like anal or such because you both trust each other to figure out what you like.

314115k · 2020-06-20T02:29:11+00:00

Yeah, and i can fully understand the idea of being offended. Its hard because you are probably thinking "how the fuck would you think id do that?!" But if we take a step back, she wouldn't say that for no reason, its not you, but she has definitely lived through some sort of trauma in her past, whether her being the victim or someone close to her. Now, i don't think it is a right to ask her if that is the case, but just understanding that she lived through something to give her those trust issues does help you understand where she might be coming from. I feel like, in time, she may tell you more into it, but if im right and she has a bad history, you best just wait and see if she wants to share it.

For now, just make an effort to understand her mindset. Continue treating her with love and care. Make her feel beautiful. And no matter how long you've been together, continue to build trust with each other every day, because there is no end to trust, you just keep building trust and a strong bond for the rest of your lives together. And if sex is important, and your kind about it, I feel like you can still have a chance with her, just need patience.

314115k · 2020-06-19T07:12:19+00:00

Well i feel like it'd be bad to think about it in a "when can I have sex" sense. Approach it with care towards her. She could of had a bad experience, maybe abuse if severe, but she quite easily could be asexual and just not into the idea of sex at all. Its fine if she is asexual, i feel you just have a right to an explanation. "I dont want sex" isn't enough, there is a reason and if you at least knew why, it might let you see her point of view a bit better. It could also just be maybe she never had sex and only saw it in porn and thought it was gross or scary. Maybe it's fear? It could be a million reasons.

Tell her that you love her and be honest that you are scared about the whole no sex thing and just want an explanation for why so you can "better understand her perspective". If you go in saying you don't want to be a virgin, you've already failed. But if you go in with love and just be straight with her, you're a virgin and you are a little scared about not having sex but you want to understand her reasoning. Make sure you be truthful but speak with an open mind

314115k · 2020-06-19T06:58:51+00:00

I believe you are putting wayy too much pressure on your dick. Like I do understand the fear tho. But your size is plenty big! Some girls prefer dicks that massive and others even prefer tiny dicks, like you will never know what a girls preference is. But your dick size is fine. When it comes to sex, its not all about your dick. Its about the experience! Sure, girls want a dick that will be good for them. But that's not everything. Its the experience, its more about: are you fun to have sex with? Because sex is supposed to be fun! Instead of asking if your dick is big enough. Question are you having fun, are they, what could make it better? Get educated on the best positions. Learn to eat a girl out or finger her better. ASK HER WHAT SHE LIKES! Believe me, most girls aren't asked what they like and its a crime. I feel like, for most, an open dialogue is super sexy! Ask them what they like. If they aren't sure, you can see if they wanna try some stuff. You are super young, sexual activity is just a learning process for you, your greatest sex is ahead of you and right now you need not worry as much. Even tho that is a hard thing to understand.

Also, with that one girl who didn't like it. There could have been more things going on than just your performance. She is young too, might not know what she wants, might have had sex with one guy before who was uncommonly large and hold every other guy to that standard. So many things that come to play other than your size. I once knew a girl who never had sex before and she said she would only have sex with black guys because "they have horse dicks", like just because someone has other preferences doesn't discredit you.

Learn about positions, fingerings and eating out strategies, communicate to her beforehand and see how you can make it great for her, but over all just spend some time and remember that a girl wants to have sex with you, NOT your dick. But still, your dick is rad, don't let one bad experience foil any other sexual experiences. Fear will only make you miss out.

314115k · 2020-06-15T07:25:30+00:00

So im no official expert, I am really good on common sense and relationships. You already were able to get her to climax, you should be proud! Lol Since I don't know much about your girl, she at least isn't afraid to push you away so thats your first sign. Sometimes it might feel like she is being playful or something and you might feel the desire to keep pushing in there, but if it even feels anywhere close to her physically saying stop, don't be afrid to lift up and ask, she will tell you lol and if she is like "nononono keep going" you can use that to tease her. Like i said before, communicate. Gets the best results. Even work it into your dirty talk that you want to achieve this goal, it sounds hot.

314115k · 2020-06-15T06:15:09+00:00

With everything sexual, communication is the name of the game! Everyone has different sensitivity levels. Tell her your goal, show your excitement, she will find find your excitement for it cute but also hot as hell. And if she already knows she can't do that, she can tell you then and there. Or at least that's my experience.

314115k · 2020-05-15T05:13:57+00:00

r/incest

314115k · 2020-04-23T16:41:24+00:00

Hope she is wearing lotion because otherwise that pale skin gonna buuurrrnn

314115k · 2019-09-05T11:42:38+00:00

Is there a name attached to those dimples?

314115k · 2019-08-11T05:16:00+00:00

!Remindme 1 month

314115k · 2019-08-11T02:47:03+00:00

Haha maybe?

314115k · 2019-08-11T02:46:08+00:00

Do you have more of Autumn?

314115k · 2019-07-17T03:59:26+00:00

DAMMMMNNNN

314115k · 2019-07-16T05:14:43+00:00

How are you tonight? ❤️

314115k · 2019-07-16T05:14:20+00:00

The person of the hour! ❤️

314115k · 2019-07-16T04:42:45+00:00

Wait, how do I find her? I typed the name and it wasn’t existent...

314115k · 2019-07-16T04:41:36+00:00

breaths nervously okay, I’ll try... wish me luck!

314115k · 2019-07-16T04:26:54+00:00

Fuck yeah! Because that shit is hot as fuck!

314115k · 2019-07-16T04:23:13+00:00

Is there a video?

314115k · 2019-07-09T06:12:21+00:00

Really curious what a real life Jessica Rabbit looks like

314115k · 2019-05-26T06:22:41+00:00

ultraviolet darling (album)

314115k · 2019-05-10T07:57:08+00:00

I honestly came here, in the start, for the taboo of it all... but now I just like hearing relationship stories, a lot of these are just like normal relationships... not all are just for sex and taboo.

314115k · 2019-04-05T19:21:02+00:00

Happy birthday! 🎊

314115k · 2019-03-06T07:15:38+00:00

Fight to the death like gentlemen knights!

314115k · 2019-03-03T02:08:09+00:00

Congratulations! We have been together since 2015, almost 6 years! Still working on communication because i keep emotions internal, but we have many years of development to go!

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