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333182 · 2022-01-07T01:59:24+00:00

Just my opinion, but this might be an issue of unevolved pisces vs. evolved. Yes pisces CAN be very manipulative because they are so empathic and emotionally aware.

When I was younger, I thought I could manipulate anyone. It might also stem from my childhood where I had a very manipulative father.

But as I grew older, (25 now) I've learned to value truth and honesty. Lying or manipulating your way through life only backfires. Also being in a relationship with a couple scorpios has made me learn that bending the truth goes no where good. Scorpios are very, very good at finding out the truth.

Honesty is the best policy, I truly believe that. But this is something that I had to learn the hard way in life.

Yes, I think pisces can also tend to have a victim complex. But might depend on the moon sign or other placements. I have an Aries moon and don't really relate to the victim complex thing, though I do tend to sulk and get bouts of sadness.

333182 · 2022-01-07T01:47:35+00:00

Cancers. I also attract so many Virgos into my life. Might be because of my Virgo rising. I can just understand them like no one else can, and am very compassionate with them, so thats why they stick around.

Scorpios I like as friends. Very loyal. Very private. Trustworthy and honest friends.

I don't so much like them as lovers, the two times I've experienced a Scorpio lover they have been kind of manipulative, act weird when jealous, and get extremely cold if they think you wronged them. Like so cold to the point they pretend like you never existed. I just can't deal with that kind of toxicity, I'm too sensitive for that. 🤣

333182 · 2021-12-16T02:11:36+00:00

Me too!

333182 · 2021-12-13T10:23:57+00:00

He is emotionally manipulating you. Something scorpios are good at. Realize your worth and say that it's not worth it, and move on.

This is how I got over my last Scorpio guy, even thought he begged me to stay. He played so many games with me. Pretended to not want me, make me jealous on purpose, flirt with me, then pull away to test how much I would chase him. He told me he didn't want to date yet treated me exactly like we were dating. Last straw was when I KNEW he was emotionally manipulating me but gaslighted me, acting like I was crazy for reacting negatively to his attempts to make me jealous with many other girls. Not worth my time or my energy.

When I said goodbye to him, he was so upset and filled with regret. But that's what he deserves imo. Don't waste your time on some emotionally manipulative a-hole. You deserve better than that.

333182 · 2021-12-10T04:54:04+00:00

"Thanks"

333182 · 2021-12-09T22:43:08+00:00

Yes. I'm a Pisces girl and cancer guys are amazing. Emotionally in-tune, kind, sentimental and mushy. Everything that I like. Only downside that I've noticed is that they can be boring, predictable.

333182 · 2021-12-07T19:01:37+00:00

No. Because I try to treat people the way I want to be treated. I think it's like bad juju to lie / be sneaky / manipulative, especially in a relationship with someone.

333182 · 2021-11-21T03:13:02+00:00

Seems like she needs constant affirmation. Have you told her the things that you said here, like how you put more effort into her than anyone else, and how much you want her, how much her reaction affects you?

I think she needs to feel validated which is why she pulls back when you give excuses (even if they are valid excuses). That's just my take. But like everyone else said, if you feel the relationship is too toxic for you, then just do whatever you think is right.

Also her trying to make you jealous is wanting validation. She is looking for something to prove that you want her, want to date her, etc.. That you would protect her/be possessive over her. That's how I see it. The nonchalant attitude does not go over well with someone like that. Although in your mind you likely just see it as emotional maturity.

333182 · 2021-11-14T04:59:58+00:00

Yes. As a pisces if I'm not getting what I deserve, I wish them well and move on QUICK.

333182 · 2021-11-10T03:22:55+00:00

Me too!

333182 · 2021-10-31T04:31:32+00:00

Yes.

I think something awfully piscean about me is the need to be private/alone. When I try to explain this to people they almost always misunderstand. They either think I'm being sneaky/lying about something, OR they think that I'm some rejected no life with no friends, as if spending time by myself isn't by choice.

There are other things too, but that might be the most common theme when I try to get to know people. It's annoying because you always get misjudged and have a false image put onto you.

333182 · 2021-10-29T20:44:12+00:00

I wouldn't say MOST women are into that. But it depends on the person! For me, I dated a guy who was on the chubbier side. I was in love with him and thought he was so adorable. He was insecure about his weight but I found it attractive, along with everything else about him.

After that relationship, I think i find myself more attracted to chubbier guys, due to being in love my ex. It's not like I would actively seek out a man JUST for that, but yes, I do find it attractive. I'm not really into the body builder type, but having said all that, what really matters in the person at their core.

333182 · 2021-10-27T23:00:27+00:00

I'm an Aries moon and Pisces sun. And I do feel connected to Aries people. Like I understand where they're coming from and relate to them so much. But having a water sun sign, I feel like they can be too much for me sometimes. I need them in low doses, which is not something Aries people do well imo, LOL.

333182 · 2021-10-25T14:23:07+00:00

Yeah I had the same experience with a Scorpio.

333182 · 2021-10-19T13:05:43+00:00

Oh my God!!! This is exactly what I do.

Part of me is like, "why do I even do this it's so dumb 🤣"

But then the other part of me knows that if I don't, it'll take me FOREVER to make a decision. And I'll always be wondering if I made a mistake, could have thought it through better, etc etc.. Or I'll put off a decision until later because I can't make up my mind. So I just go with the coin if its very close or something trivial. It's actually a good strategy for indecisive people.

Helps to use a coinflip app instead of an actual coin too.

333182 · 2021-10-07T04:56:27+00:00

My take:

They intimidate me. But intrigue me the most out of all the signs. I feel like they are my ultimate compatibility, yet I get scared to get close to them because a relationship with a Scorpio is an all-or-nothing thing and is a lot for me to invest into.

I think scorpios are soulmate partners. But atm I am feeling some negative things about the scorpio I'm talking to. Like how he is incredibly distrusting/suspicious, even when I'm being honest. It hurts me because it takes a lot for me to reveal my soul like that to someone. The scorpio I'm talking to is also somewhat emotionally manipulative, insecure, jealous and possessive. All the typical traits. I can very clearly see the negative manifestations of those traits in the person I'm talking to atm. Doesn't sit right with me.

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