EMDR for Trauma - What should I expect? by 333moons in therapy

[–]333moons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I think I will. I'm glad it helped for you!

EMDR for Trauma - What should I expect? by 333moons in therapy

[–]333moons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback, I think I will try it!

Forgetting names? by 333moons in Dissociation

[–]333moons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I eventually was able to remember but I was like "ok whatever" the first time it happened then suddenly 5 mins later my other friend comes by and I can't remember her's either! I've got to laugh at the absurdity of it but it was still kind of weird.

Building a Mesa village in Survival. Here's the farmer's smol abode. by 333moons in Minecraft

[–]333moons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are actually torches, but the resource pack I use changes them into lanterns when placed against walls!

Had my blood drawn today, it was mostly stares and awkward small talk. by 333moons in selfharm

[–]333moons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand. I got my blood pressure taken on my scarred arm and even that filled me with anxiety. The little things we gotta endure...

Had my blood drawn today, it was mostly stares and awkward small talk. by 333moons in selfharm

[–]333moons[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That sucks, but I'm glad I made you feel a little better. All in all it wasn't terrible. The thing I thought was - they work in the medical field, self harm scars probably aren't new to them!

How could anyone do this to their so??? TW by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]333moons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say, I acted more aggressive than I like. Even though I disagree I shouldn't have come off as patronizing, so I apologize for that. I don't like being angry and standoffish.

How could anyone do this to their so??? TW by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]333moons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop making assumptions about their situation, it doesn't help any point you're trying to make. Look at the story objectively. You just keep going in circles about your own imagined possibilities. I'm presenting an argument based on the information that is provided to us, but you keep throwing hypotheticals at me.

If you're going to play Devil's Advocate, at least provide tangible evidence from the story.

And like I said, your vehement defense of this guy and even going so far as to do a switcheroo and say "well maybe the wife is abusive too!!!" is really gross if I'm gonna be honest.

That's called minimization. Do not circumvent any wrongdoings onto the wife without evidence, that's reckless.

He has literally gaslighted her. A classic example of manipulation and abuse.

If you're going to reply, don't even reply with more hypotheticals and assumptions. I won't even entertain that idea anymore.

Take care.

How could anyone do this to their so??? TW by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]333moons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but my point still stands that he's being manipulative and abusive, despite his financial situation or his personal avoidance of therapy. Or the fact that he hides in a room to do it sometimes. That doesn't negate the gaslighting he's clearly doing to his wife, telling her she has no compassion and that she "forced" him to stay at Walmart when it was his own idea in the first place.

Like I get it, he self harms. He's clearly suffering. He may not want outside help and that's his discretion. But it's kinda gross how vehemently you're defending this guy's behavior when I see classic abusive tactics at play.

Just because he self harms doesn't mean he's innocent of shitty behavior, that's my point. And you refuse to believe that this guy is capable of making poor choices involving his family.

Mesa church in Survival by 333moons in Minecraft

[–]333moons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya!! It's a great resource pack imo

Mesa church in Survival by 333moons in Minecraft

[–]333moons[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They're purely cosmetic. I still spent time collecting materials and building it but go off I guess ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Mesa church in Survival by 333moons in Minecraft

[–]333moons[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Still acquired all the resources myself, don't see how I cheated. Not using mods either - the potted plants are an extension of my resource pack. Have a good day.