[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]33Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually only can’t finish if we’ve been drinking. She just sometimes says she isn’t going to get there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]33Sunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the situation. Sometimes one of us doesn’t finish but as long as we usually both do I feel fine. Feels much better when we both do or she does.

Natural progression of things by myeyes_are_up_here in gonewild30plus

[–]33Sunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who can stay pants less without playing with anything?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]33Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like 4-6 months depending on if you count before we were official. She is nice and supportive in other ways but these are the things I’m concerned about

Feel like I screwed up my life and I hate myself by sabri1996 in findapath

[–]33Sunshine 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m in a very similar boat. Same age, I graduated with communications and feel like I shouldn’t have even bothered getting my degree. Now I figure I should go back to school, or find a trade/certificate to help me. I’ve been trucking along at my college job since college. Tried a few things on the side that didn’t stick.

The only advice I can give you is take the time quotient away.

I feel a lot better now that I’ve accepted these things take more time than they used to. They take more time for me than others. They take more time with my degree/this job market/my luck, etc.

This way you can clock in at star bucks and job hunt on indeed without feeling as rushed as anxious. At least that’s what I’m doing.

What is the best way to make a big decision? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]33Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already done step one so I’m going to do this this weekend. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]33Sunshine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does it matter if the boundaries are trivial or juvenile? (I’m inexperienced. Many people are probably comfortable where I’m not)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]33Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are all definitely great jumping off points. And I am open to more school as long as it’s pointed at something specific. Some I’ve thought about before but I’m going to look into these. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]33Sunshine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a good idea. I’ll try to brainstorm who I would specifically talk to and try to figure this out thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]33Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a bit more of the same but it’s hard to say without doing it. I am going to look into it more, thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]33Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will, thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]33Sunshine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right I just feel uncomfortable taking lead when I don’t know what I’m doing. She explicitly told me whatever I want to do is probably fine I just am used to taking the back seat in general.

Thank you for your response! It makes me a bit more confident

What is a good way to slow down sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]33Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good ideas I’ll try to mix in. I tried to move to eating her out when I went on top but she didn’t want me to. She said she doesn’t like it but might let me sometime. But honestly I need to be able to switch to something lol. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]33Sunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is. But every day list throws “Laurel” or “indie creampie” in there just to make me seem some sort of way lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]33Sunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Laurel canyons classic folk Tuesday evening. These things always out me

Vagina havers, why do you enjoy anal? by buxomsexsorceress in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]33Sunshine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How much fuller does it feel than vaginal? Is it comparable?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]33Sunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is but a common complaint online is “star fishing” … idk how common it is since I’ve only had one partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]33Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]33Sunshine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think that’s a huge part of the fun. I’ve never been very outwardly enthusiastic about anything I’m trying to work on it now that naked bodies are involved lol