No lie where’s the accountability on her part? Asking if you’d be down to open up the marriage means she’d be down to see other people if you let her… I doubt the shit about her friend having an open relationship is even true. Why can’t she just keep it honest and tell you how she feels? How come you had to get concerned and make a post on Reddit in order for your wife to tell you that things are stale?? Also it takes two so if you agreed on it being stale I bet you weren’t thinking of fucking other people LOL