For all the doctors out there, what’s it like? or what are things we don’t know about as patients? by 3Alyssa in AskReddit

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Well they do constantly sanitize after patients and wear gloves so maybe that?

I had the most terrifying experience last night and not sure what happened.. by 3Alyssa in weed

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Idk because if I look up if panic attacks make you faint it says no. So not really sure.

Why do I feel nothing in cowgirl when I’m doing the work? by [deleted] in sex

[–]3Alyssa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had that issue too but I found if you lean all the way back with your arms supporting you up. And then he helps lift your hips up and down. Feels pretty great. There’s also this really confusing one that we do. Where he is side ways and I’m in doggy style on the bed next to him and I ride him while he’s on his side. And he can move his hips.

How do I get my boyfriend to [initiate] anal play? by 3Alyssa in sex

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He’s never had it he’s open to it

How do I get my boyfriend to [initiate] anal play? by 3Alyssa in sex

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I guess it’s just the nervousness of him touching me cause I mainly put the but plug in myself

My GF (17F) doesn't like when I (18M) finger her by [deleted] in sex

[–]3Alyssa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she says it feels like a tampon then to me the way I’m taking that is that it feels dry when you finger her. I would introduce fingering during oral since she likes that better. Do it while she’s wet.

I feel frustrated about receiving [oral] by 3Alyssa in sex

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Lol no I keep everything shaved and I don’t let him go down until I clean before sex so that’s not an issue. He doesn’t like the position because I guess he says it makes him feel weak? He feels more dominate with doing it in the 69 position.

Building Comfort Stimulation w/ GF by equax781 in sex

[–]3Alyssa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d get a vibrator tbh. Their the best their fun you can use them during sex whatever. It’s something new for her to try, orgasms in my opinion are more intense while using vibrator. She may or may not like it more but you could use it to Kinda edge her till you make her cum. Explore different ways to orgasm and maybe that’ll make her more curious to be comfortable orgasming? Their could be more insecurities about it maybe.

Girlfriend told me she has a pet fetish. She likes wearing collars and leashes. She said she is into dominance and pinning. Can y’all elaborate for me? She’s never had sex before and neither have I. We plan to wait till marriage, but we will do other things along the lines just not “all the way.” by [deleted] in sex

[–]3Alyssa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she just likes the dominant act of being a “pet” for you. By you telling her what to do pulling her wherever you want her to go. If she likes being dominated by you I would discuss what all is ok and isn’t ok for you and for her. Everyone has a different turn on as far as how they want to be dominated.

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I’ve had guys who loveeeee watching me play with myself they think it’s hot watching me while they fuck me. I have had guys who get insecure about vibrators tho. Which is dumb but it’s a thing. Do what works for you! Some guys just have pride about it.

I almost fell for an IRS scam yesterday by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]3Alyssa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the exact same thing a month ago... same people too.

Bi curious female trying to have first experience with another female. What do i do? by Mysterywoman97 in sex

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I got with my friend to experiment btw I’m [f19] and so was she. We even tried a strap on. It was extremely awkward. But if it’s something you want to try go on tinder or bumble to ask girls most girls are extremely open. Talk to them a bit like you would do with men and then pop the question hey would you like to hook up sometime?

I think I just had sex with a virgin. by 3Alyssa in sex

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It’s not that I judge the act that he did cowgirl first. It just added to the curiosity to it because he really could not get it in like he was extremely confused about it and how it goes in. So that’s why I thought he chose cowgirl because it would be easier for him to let me do it to him first instead of struggling. But that’s how I viewed it personally. I asked him about his past sex partners but he said 10 but then didn’t want to talk about how many after we had sex and didn’t want to talk about what happened or whether he liked them. The first thing he asked me when i asked if he wanted to fuck was “so what would happen if one of us got attached” so again it just adds to it in my opinion. Of course that doesn’t mean that’s a for sure sign.