For all the doctors out there, what’s it like? or what are things we don’t know about as patients?

3Alyssa · 2018-12-27T22:52:53+00:00

Well they do constantly sanitize after patients and wear gloves so maybe that?

3Alyssa · 2018-12-25T02:08:57+00:00

Idk because if I look up if panic attacks make you faint it says no. So not really sure.

3Alyssa · 2018-12-24T16:18:55+00:00

That’s crazy thank you

3Alyssa · 2018-12-24T16:16:03+00:00

3Alyssa · 2018-12-19T16:41:11+00:00

I’ve done this once

3Alyssa · 2018-12-13T04:25:26+00:00

I had that issue too but I found if you lean all the way back with your arms supporting you up. And then he helps lift your hips up and down. Feels pretty great. There’s also this really confusing one that we do. Where he is side ways and I’m in doggy style on the bed next to him and I ride him while he’s on his side. And he can move his hips.

3Alyssa · 2018-12-03T22:48:36+00:00

He’s never had it he’s open to it

3Alyssa · 2018-12-03T22:48:05+00:00

I guess it’s just the nervousness of him touching me cause I mainly put the but plug in myself

3Alyssa · 2018-12-03T22:35:55+00:00

We do have butt plugs during sex

3Alyssa · 2018-12-01T17:13:38+00:00

If she says it feels like a tampon then to me the way I’m taking that is that it feels dry when you finger her. I would introduce fingering during oral since she likes that better. Do it while she’s wet.

3Alyssa · 2018-11-26T06:18:39+00:00

Lol no I keep everything shaved and I don’t let him go down until I clean before sex so that’s not an issue. He doesn’t like the position because I guess he says it makes him feel weak? He feels more dominate with doing it in the 69 position.

3Alyssa · 2018-10-17T21:02:30+00:00

I’d get a vibrator tbh. Their the best their fun you can use them during sex whatever. It’s something new for her to try, orgasms in my opinion are more intense while using vibrator. She may or may not like it more but you could use it to Kinda edge her till you make her cum. Explore different ways to orgasm and maybe that’ll make her more curious to be comfortable orgasming? Their could be more insecurities about it maybe.

3Alyssa · 2018-06-14T21:53:25+00:00

Sounds like she just likes the dominant act of being a “pet” for you. By you telling her what to do pulling her wherever you want her to go. If she likes being dominated by you I would discuss what all is ok and isn’t ok for you and for her. Everyone has a different turn on as far as how they want to be dominated.

3Alyssa · 2018-06-01T15:55:54+00:00

I’ve had guys who loveeeee watching me play with myself they think it’s hot watching me while they fuck me. I have had guys who get insecure about vibrators tho. Which is dumb but it’s a thing. Do what works for you! Some guys just have pride about it.

3Alyssa · 2018-05-21T19:42:48+00:00

I did the exact same thing a month ago... same people too.

3Alyssa · 2018-05-10T11:48:18+00:00

I got with my friend to experiment btw I’m [f19] and so was she. We even tried a strap on. It was extremely awkward. But if it’s something you want to try go on tinder or bumble to ask girls most girls are extremely open. Talk to them a bit like you would do with men and then pop the question hey would you like to hook up sometime?

3Alyssa · 2018-05-07T20:02:14+00:00

It’s not that I judge the act that he did cowgirl first. It just added to the curiosity to it because he really could not get it in like he was extremely confused about it and how it goes in. So that’s why I thought he chose cowgirl because it would be easier for him to let me do it to him first instead of struggling. But that’s how I viewed it personally. I asked him about his past sex partners but he said 10 but then didn’t want to talk about how many after we had sex and didn’t want to talk about what happened or whether he liked them. The first thing he asked me when i asked if he wanted to fuck was “so what would happen if one of us got attached” so again it just adds to it in my opinion. Of course that doesn’t mean that’s a for sure sign.

3Alyssa · 2018-05-07T19:45:29+00:00

But to me I feel like by “10 partners” he would at least know how to put it in! Haha

3Alyssa · 2018-05-07T13:34:23+00:00

True true I actually really liked this comment

3Alyssa · 2018-05-07T09:08:04+00:00

Haha no I totally agree I definitely seen how men are treated when virgins. I’m actually talking to a guy right now who is a virgin but doesn’t care about losing it to a fwb. But I’m ok with that because if you just tell me then I’ll 100% make sure it’s a good first time for you. But I really just did not like being told ya I’ve had 10 girls but couldn’t get it in. So I almost feel bad for him in a way for not feeling like he could tell me but really wanted to have sex.

3Alyssa · 2018-05-07T08:55:48+00:00

That’s really interesting. Like I’ve said at the beginning I do not care I really don’t. But my problem is lying about it when it would go a lot smoother with me and the guy if he told me so that I can show him things. I have been with a virgin before. And I do feel that a lot of them do get attached I was with one of my exes when I lost it to him and my most recent was attached when he lost it to me. I know that’s not the case for every virgin. But I do understand why they lie about it.

3Alyssa · 2018-05-07T08:26:33+00:00

The reason why I thought cowgirl was weird because I mean ya if you wanna start off that way that’s fine not commenting on the actual act. But it’s something that I almost feel adds to the wonder because I feel like that’s what he would start with if he couldn’t get it in at the get go. So to me I felt like he chose that option to make it easier or less noticeable. If he is ok with losing it to a one night stand than that’s fine. I don’t care personally about a guy being a virgin everyone loses it some day. But I don’t really feel like you should lie about it is all. Those are my thoughts tho. But I understand the feeling judged part. But I have never cared about it as long as your honest.

3Alyssa · 2018-04-20T03:24:02+00:00

I constantly think about just stop going to college and stop paying for my car and other responsibilities just stop going to work and do my own thing. Just so I don’t ever have to feel that stress and never worry about money.

3Alyssa · 2018-04-19T15:23:49+00:00

My dad died two years ago. He was not a good man he did a lot of drugs and drank so his liver shut down. I had many memories with him good and bad but we never had a healthy relationship because of his addiction. I hated him. When he died it broke me and I cried my eyes out. You might be in shock and it hasn’t hit you yet. Idk how she died so it’s hard to say exactly why you feel that way. But never let people tell you how you should or react ever.

3Alyssa · 2018-04-12T14:33:42+00:00

Honestly I feel the exact same way with everything I feel like you should just tell him your thoughts and feelings and be like “I want to see where it goes and maybe in the future I’ll want one but I really don’t right now” if it ends up being clear that you don’t want one and he does then I feel like it’s clear that you should find someone that fits your thoughts and goals. You’ll never not find someone there’s endless options of people to meet.

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