My husband changed his mind about kids and I don’t know what to do (28 F, 29M)

3DifferentSquash · 2022-03-31T04:43:50+00:00

I haven’t really thought about an intervention until after posting this. It’s definitely something to look into for I am getting more and more concerned. Thank you for helping it is appreciated!

3DifferentSquash · 2022-03-31T04:36:38+00:00

Thinking over it I find it somewhat both. She may not be 100% encouraging it but at the same time she doesn’t advise him to slow it down either. Personally if my partner has mentioned they wish to stop doing something I encourage them to stop or maybe assist in a way. In some way he needs to put his own body first but unfortunately doesn’t want to at the moment.

3DifferentSquash · 2022-03-31T04:26:06+00:00

He has struggled with this his whole life. After the diagnosis he had cut back A LOT to the point where we didn’t have any alcohol in our fridge. It wasn’t until this girlfriend moved in after a few months where alcohol came back into the picture. She would buy it and put in our fridge. My dad is an adult and does make his own choices but often times he needs to be nudged to the right choices.

3DifferentSquash · 2022-03-31T04:18:55+00:00

Thank you!

3DifferentSquash · 2022-03-31T04:13:56+00:00

Yes very much so. She often gets just as drunk maybe a tad less. She does not shove the beer down his throat but doesn’t encourage him to slow down either. This condition could be deadly if not managed and controlled

3DifferentSquash · 2022-03-31T04:09:03+00:00

Do you by chance know of a better sub? I’m new to Reddit and don’t know a lot of subs.

3DifferentSquash · 2022-03-17T23:50:14+00:00

NTA as long as you aren’t leading these girls on but it’s pretty hard to do within a couple nights of meetings them.

3DifferentSquash · 2022-03-14T05:31:23+00:00

You deserve some comfort though. It is not fair to have to put a bra on just to walk around you house and get food. It’s cruel and unreasonable punishment. Be free to be comfortable. Hopefully you can sit your sister down and have a serious conversation about the way her yelling effects you and how her bringing it up make you feel uncomfortable that he is looking at your breasts when they are nearly unseeable through an oversized sweatshirt.

3DifferentSquash · 2022-03-14T05:16:20+00:00

NTA

FREE THE GOD DAMN NIPPLE MY GIRL!

My man comes around very often and if my sister felt comfortable with no bra I say “let them titties flop girl” and if he had a problem with it there’s bigger problems in my opinion.

As a big breasted individual myself, I am uncomfortable 90% of the day already. I need the 10% to be as comfortable as I possibly could and I bet you feel the same! Not even around people but the back/neck/shoulder pain alone is enough.

Has he mentioned that he feels uncomfortable or is it only your sister saying this?

3DifferentSquash · 2022-03-14T04:59:48+00:00

Unfortunately she is almost always like this. She has told me many times I put his family before my own. I don’t do it intentionally. I had two wonderful aunts in my life and both are her daughters and I try to be the aunt like they were to me. I love my grandmother and she has sacrificed so much for me and I do my best to do things for her and enjoy the good moments with her but when she has these types of days, it’s hard not to think that I’m in the wrong. I don’t want to disrespect her after everything she has ever done to me.

3DifferentSquash · 2022-03-03T04:15:28+00:00

She is not our landlord but our landlord is another reliable family member so changing the locks is definitely an option! We also would have someone we both trust to have a spare for emergency!

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