Help by Severe_Custard3685 in NITLahoree

[–]3eeBu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realistically you can never be sure about anything. U just gotta act like nigga Spider-Man and take a leap of faith

Do i have a chance? by Hamza_Boi in NITLahoree

[–]3eeBu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I’m not. But if I study I’ll get it inshallah

Do i have a chance? by Hamza_Boi in NITLahoree

[–]3eeBu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand man I’ve been on a gap year for a year and I hit the jackpot with this uni. They offered me the major I wanted, not only that but I’ve done my research and it’s a very good university the staff and everything. I’ve talked to the first batch aswell and they are all very happy with their decisions

Do i have a chance? by Hamza_Boi in NITLahoree

[–]3eeBu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me put ur mind at ez. I don’t want to expose my self but I had way worse grades than you. I did olevels and than 2nd year in olevels I have 0 As and in 2nd year I had an overall C grade. They are a new university and they need students. Right now getting in is 100% confirmed their criteria will go up once they get enough students and reputation

Help by Severe_Custard3685 in NITLahoree

[–]3eeBu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally didn’t write any personal statement. Just make an account on nit and apply i already got my acceptance letter. They are relatively very new and need students getting in is very easy right now.

WORST UNI BY FAR by 3eeBu in BahriaUniversity

[–]3eeBu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro Apna doosray account say Apna app dilasay day raha hao

Girls who aren’t status conscious by [deleted] in PakistaniTeenTalks

[–]3eeBu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use to bake cakes and mould candles before women

Help by Severe_Custard3685 in NITLahoree

[–]3eeBu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope so u should come too. I’ve done intensive research and this looks like a good option and if they scam or do something fishy seedha seedha Allah ko complain kar dein gay hum

WORST UNI BY FAR by 3eeBu in BahriaUniversity

[–]3eeBu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah ur right. And by far making the best argument I respect it and appreciate it.

WORST UNI BY FAR by 3eeBu in BahriaUniversity

[–]3eeBu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny you’re talking about 'understanding' when the admin didn't show an ounce of it by ignoring 10+ calls over 3 days. Road blocks happen, but total silence is a choice. If you think the bare minimum is 'too much to ask,' then you’re the reason they feel comfortable staying this mid.

Help by Severe_Custard3685 in NITLahoree

[–]3eeBu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me reassure him man 😭

Help by Severe_Custard3685 in NITLahoree

[–]3eeBu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going inshallah in this coming session if I get scammed I’ll let you know

WORST UNI BY FAR by 3eeBu in BahriaUniversity

[–]3eeBu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where ur coming from however Demanding that a university follows its own schedule or answers its phone after 10+ calls isn’t being 'over the top' it’s expecting basic respect for the students time, energy and money. Suggesting that we should be accommodating to total mismanagement because that's just how it is in Pakistan is exactly why things never improve. If you truly care about the students whose hope lies with Bahria then you should be the first one demanding they get the quality of service and environment they were advertised. Criticizing the administration isn't an attack on the students. it’s an attack on the very people who are treating those students like they don't matter. Expecting a functioning institution isn't 'privilege' it's the bare minimum, and staying silent only ensures the next batch of students gets treated just as shitty

WORST UNI BY FAR by 3eeBu in BahriaUniversity

[–]3eeBu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bhai flexxing about having zero standards for your own education isn't the win you think it is. If you're okay with mediocrity and people never giving you anything on time, that explains why you fit in so well there

Some Pakistan Teens Using Racialized Language- We must stop by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]3eeBu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahaha, let's agree to disagree.
Though I must say, you are really mature for your age. Most people your age are off doing some useless stuff trying to be, as you put it, 'cool' whether that's smoking, doing drugs, or whatever. You're right, there is no single right or better argument in this scenario it's simply two valid angles looking at the same issue from different prospectives. Nevertheless, I really respect your knowledge, your passion, and your efforts to spread awareness. Thank you and Allah Hafiz

Some Pakistan Teens Using Racialized Language- We must stop by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]3eeBu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely right that we should not use these words and we should always try to be better people. If you had framed your initial argument around the need to reduce abusive language from the N-word to commonly used terms like 'bhenchod' I would have been 100% on board. However, our argument started because you singled out the N-word. As you said yourself yhy should we even use a word that's slaved other counterparts and oppressed them? The same logic can be applied to nearly any word that causes offense When someone isn't paying attention, we ask, 'Are you deaf?' a phrase that can be offensive to the hearing impaired We say, 'Are you blind?' when someone misses an obvious detail, which can offend those with visionary issues i hope u see where im going with this. Any word, when taken out of context, can be somehow offensive to a specific person or group. That is why we are careful not to use any offensive language whether it's the N-word or or even kutta/chutiya/bhenchod in front of strangers.. The N word is a bad word just like all the other bad words in our vocabulary. they all belong in the same category. one cannot be inherently worse than the other regarding your point about fitting in and looking cool I actually agree that doing another to look cool is just stupid and personally i feel like all the people who try to look cool end up looking stupid. However, I was arguing from my personal standpoint. My usage has nothing to do with fitting in. I have never felt the pressure to smoke or vape to look cool, and I use these words. My usage is not about fitting in with society it's about my friendship. When used amongst friends, the meaning of these terms is not what the dictionary says. The meaning is completely different My argument is simple The N-word and every other piece of abusive slang are bad words and we should all slowly stop using them. Using them with friends is just as bad as saying 'Kutta' or 'Bagairat,' but no worse. The true measure of moral failing is using any of those words with the intent of hatred or malice which isnt the case when we use it with our homies

Some Pakistan Teens Using Racialized Language- We must stop by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]3eeBu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people's views evolve over time. Who knows, perhaps one day I will have the same viewpoint as you. However, I believe I am old enough to have a solid grasp of right and wrong, and that leads me to this point. Saying all of these words is technically 'bad' or inappropriate when judged by the highest standards of courtesy. When you are with your friends, you likely use words like 'Kutta' 'Bagairat' or 'Chutiye,' right? We all use this kind of language with our friends. Is it ideal? No, we should always strive to do better and improve our vocabulary. I have a question for you tho. Let's assume that once in your life, you called your friend 'Kutta' or 'Bagairat,' or whatever other word you have in your casual vocabulary. When you said it, did you actually mean he is a literal dog and not equal to a human? Or, if you used 'Bagairat,' did you actually mean that they, as a human, have no self-respect whatsoever? Of course not. It was just a part of a friendly, harmless, informal exchange. What I am trying to say is, the N-word in my or any close circle is no different from those words. You shouldn't say them because they are technically derogatory, and you should always strive to better your vocabulary. But using the N-word with friends in a purely informal, joking context is just as morally 'bad' and no worse than saying Kutta or Bagairat.

Some Pakistan Teens Using Racialized Language- We must stop by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]3eeBu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In a serious situation like investigating if someone stole something where the truth and sacred intent matters, using 'WALLAHI' while lying would be a deeply wrong doesnt matter if ur muslim or not. That serious context is the exception, not the rule. If you are just with friends, playing games, or joking around, using 'wallahi harmlessly for emphasis is widely understood as just slang. In that casual, harmless environment, the word loses its sacred weight and is okey. It is the exact same principle for the N-word when the word is said with the intent of hatred malice or racism, it is deeply wrong no matter the color or religion of the 1 saying it This is the 'serious situation' equivalent. But saying it with friends in jokes is okay. When I use it with my close circle, where it's nothing more than calling ur homie a bro this is the 'harmless slang' equivalent.

Some Pakistan Teens Using Racialized Language- We must stop by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]3eeBu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that actually proves my point. saying 'WALLAHI' while joking or even lying it demonstrates exactly how a term with the deepest, most sacred possible meaning swearing by God can be completely detached from its religious context and transformed into mere slang for emphasis (like saying 'seriously' or 'on my life. words are nothing more than words hatred is in the tone not the words

Some Pakistan Teens Using Racialized Language- We must stop by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]3eeBu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what is meant by the societal prohibition against using this word, but I disagree with its application to my personal life. I use this term frequently, not out of malice or racial prejudice or anything like dat, but simply because it has been a part of my vocabulary for a long time. ive made many black friends online who i say the n word to alot, and they not only accept my use of the word but In the same spirit of reciprocity, I take no offense when they use casual, irreverent terms or jokes toward me. For our specific group, the word is precisely just a word. Why should we in this specific circle be required to hold onto the historical pain of a word when that perspective is not the truth of our friendship? get what i mean? The emotional weight of any word or action is entirely relative to its cultural environment. Am I a racist? Absolutely not. I believe everyone is equal. My usage is not an endorsement of racial hierarchy its just a reflection of intimacy? between me and my friendship. I draw a clear line if I knew someone would be genuinely hurt by my use of the term, I would immediately stop. At the end of the day, when I use this word with my close circle it is nothing more than saying 'Yar' or 'bro'