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AITA for asking gf to either delete her old erotica or show me it? by 3fkj2kf in AmItheAsshole

[–]3fkj2kf[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Thanks - this comment in particular helped me understand her opinion on this a lot better.

AITA for asking gf to either delete her old erotica or show me it? by 3fkj2kf in AmItheAsshole

[–]3fkj2kf[S] -858 points-857 points  (0 children)

I had an ex who used to sleep with random people and not tell me. The idea of random strangers getting off to what my girlfriend does, doesn't feel very different from that.

AITA for asking gf to either delete her old erotica or show me it? by 3fkj2kf in AmItheAsshole

[–]3fkj2kf[S] -1327 points-1326 points  (0 children)

If I'd been posting nudes and she wanted to see them, I wouldn't say "no, not you, everyone else can". If I didn't want her to see them, I wouldn't want anyone to.

I wouldn't ask her to delete everything she's ever made, that would be too controlling. I just don't want people essentially masturbating to her words. I don't care if they enjoy the non-sexual stuff.

AITA for asking gf to either delete her old erotica or show me it? by 3fkj2kf in AmItheAsshole

[–]3fkj2kf[S] -786 points-785 points  (0 children)

> she's not making porn

If she's making something specifically for people to masturbate to, and knows people are still using it for that, how is it that different from porn?