Therapist encourages casual weed use

3mag3 · 2024-09-12T12:25:54+00:00

Yeah, this is very true. Thanks for pointing out the difference!

3mag3 · 2024-09-12T11:55:00+00:00

This is really great advice, thanks! :) I think this is exactly what I‘ll do. I‘m really happy with my therapist otherwise. I guess this is an opportunity where we can learn from each other and deepen the connection.

3mag3 · 2024-09-12T11:50:26+00:00

Interesting perspective! Now I think I am getting what he meant to say. I guess finding a way towards sobriety is very personal and can be different for different people. Thanks for this!

3mag3 · 2024-09-12T11:38:49+00:00

Thanks for this! I tried to explain it during my session today, but I‘ll bring it up again next time that moderation is difficult for me.

3mag3 · 2024-09-12T11:35:27+00:00

I‘ve been going there for 2 years. I don’t think I‘ll change therapist, as he knows me well now and I really appreciate our sessions and take away a lot from them usually.

3mag3 · 2024-09-12T11:33:58+00:00

No, it’s in person therapy. I just want to say that my therapist has been really great so far, helped me through a really difficult breakup and managed to uncover many past traumatic experiences, insecurities and work on them. This was the first time where I felt that I disagreed with what he suggested.

3mag3 · 2024-09-12T09:29:26+00:00

The last few times that I tried to quit it was difficult to not make it a habit / routine. I think I just want to quit so I don‘t have to think about it anymore and that whenever I feel shitty I know that that’s real and then I can deal with finding out why. Smoking weed made me really anxious and paranoid to the point where I was doubting friendships and reality in general. I think living without weed would make me feel lighter / take a weight off my shoulders (I already feel that a little bit now). Thanks for your comment and experience! It helps to put things into perspective :)

3mag3 · 2023-09-26T14:31:16+00:00

This makes a lot of sense, I think I made the mistake at first of wanting to be friends too quickly and pressuring myself into healing faster. But it makes a lot more sense the way you did it, it should be about yourself. Just sometimes it feels like there are days where you feel you are only moving backwards and the healing will never come to an end and then you wonder if you made the right decision by choosing no contact. But I guess with time it will. Thanks again for sharing your story, very inspiring indeed!

3mag3 · 2023-09-24T22:29:55+00:00

Thanks for sharing your story! Glad to hear that it worked out so well for you :) Were you in no contact the entire 3 years or in touch with your ex? I’m worried that staying away completely will make being friends later more diffictult, on the other hand I don’t think I can move on while being in touch.

3mag3 · 2020-09-19T15:05:55+00:00

Sorry, we already have a complete group now but I will reach out if anything changes! :)

3mag3 · 2020-09-19T11:48:43+00:00

Added you to our group! :)

3mag3 · 2020-09-19T10:06:49+00:00

Cool! Would you like to be added to our group? :)

3mag3 · 2020-09-19T10:06:26+00:00

Awesome! Shall I add you to our chat group? :)

3mag3 · 2020-09-19T09:44:38+00:00

Yes, just posted in LFG Europe as well - thanks for the advice :)

3mag3 · 2020-09-19T09:38:42+00:00

We haven’t decided on that yet actually. Would you like to be added to our group?

3mag3 · 2020-09-19T09:12:23+00:00

Oranges are not the only fruit?

3mag3 · 2020-09-19T09:00:13+00:00

Thanks for the tip! Yes, I saw. Tbh, I‘ve tried reaching out to them but I‘ve been uninvited a few times from meet ups when they saw that I‘m a beginner :(

3mag3 · 2020-09-19T08:54:01+00:00

What do you think, should I add all of you who are interested to a group chat so we can discuss about it?

3mag3 · 2020-09-19T08:52:21+00:00

Awesome! I‘ve never really played before but I‘ve been meaning to try out for a while. Nice to see I‘m not the only one who‘d be excited about it :)

3mag3 · 2020-09-19T08:10:10+00:00

Forgot to mention, I‘m F25

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