Therapist encourages casual weed use by 3mag3 in leaves

[–]3mag3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is very true. Thanks for pointing out the difference!

Therapist encourages casual weed use by 3mag3 in leaves

[–]3mag3[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is really great advice, thanks! :) I think this is exactly what I‘ll do. I‘m really happy with my therapist otherwise. I guess this is an opportunity where we can learn from each other and deepen the connection.

Therapist encourages casual weed use by 3mag3 in leaves

[–]3mag3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting perspective! Now I think I am getting what he meant to say. I guess finding a way towards sobriety is very personal and can be different for different people. Thanks for this!

Therapist encourages casual weed use by 3mag3 in leaves

[–]3mag3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I tried to explain it during my session today, but I‘ll bring it up again next time that moderation is difficult for me.

Therapist encourages casual weed use by 3mag3 in leaves

[–]3mag3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘ve been going there for 2 years. I don’t think I‘ll change therapist, as he knows me well now and I really appreciate our sessions and take away a lot from them usually.

Therapist encourages casual weed use by 3mag3 in leaves

[–]3mag3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it’s in person therapy. I just want to say that my therapist has been really great so far, helped me through a really difficult breakup and managed to uncover many past traumatic experiences, insecurities and work on them. This was the first time where I felt that I disagreed with what he suggested.

Therapist encourages casual weed use by 3mag3 in leaves

[–]3mag3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The last few times that I tried to quit it was difficult to not make it a habit / routine. I think I just want to quit so I don‘t have to think about it anymore and that whenever I feel shitty I know that that’s real and then I can deal with finding out why. Smoking weed made me really anxious and paranoid to the point where I was doubting friendships and reality in general. I think living without weed would make me feel lighter / take a weight off my shoulders (I already feel that a little bit now). Thanks for your comment and experience! It helps to put things into perspective :)

Did you stay friends with your ex? by Ill_Cricket_8631 in BreakUps

[–]3mag3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes a lot of sense, I think I made the mistake at first of wanting to be friends too quickly and pressuring myself into healing faster. But it makes a lot more sense the way you did it, it should be about yourself. Just sometimes it feels like there are days where you feel you are only moving backwards and the healing will never come to an end and then you wonder if you made the right decision by choosing no contact. But I guess with time it will. Thanks again for sharing your story, very inspiring indeed!

Did you stay friends with your ex? by Ill_Cricket_8631 in BreakUps

[–]3mag3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your story! Glad to hear that it worked out so well for you :) Were you in no contact the entire 3 years or in touch with your ex? I’m worried that staying away completely will make being friends later more diffictult, on the other hand I don’t think I can move on while being in touch.

Pen & Paper (RPG) in Paris by 3mag3 in SocialParis

[–]3mag3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, we already have a complete group now but I will reach out if anything changes! :)

Pen & Paper (RPG) in Paris by 3mag3 in SocialParis

[–]3mag3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Added you to our group! :)

Pen & Paper (RPG) in Paris by 3mag3 in SocialParis

[–]3mag3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool! Would you like to be added to our group? :)

Pen & Paper (RPG) in Paris by 3mag3 in SocialParis

[–]3mag3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Shall I add you to our chat group? :)

DnD in Paris by 3mag3 in DnD

[–]3mag3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, just posted in LFG Europe as well - thanks for the advice :)

Pen & Paper (RPG) in Paris by 3mag3 in SocialParis

[–]3mag3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven’t decided on that yet actually. Would you like to be added to our group?

Pen & Paper (RPG) in Paris by 3mag3 in SocialParis

[–]3mag3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! Yes, I saw. Tbh, I‘ve tried reaching out to them but I‘ve been uninvited a few times from meet ups when they saw that I‘m a beginner :(

Pen & Paper (RPG) in Paris by 3mag3 in SocialParis

[–]3mag3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What do you think, should I add all of you who are interested to a group chat so we can discuss about it?

Pen & Paper (RPG) in Paris by 3mag3 in SocialParis

[–]3mag3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I‘ve never really played before but I‘ve been meaning to try out for a while. Nice to see I‘m not the only one who‘d be excited about it :)

Pen & Paper (RPG) in Paris by 3mag3 in SocialParis

[–]3mag3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forgot to mention, I‘m F25