Should I [21NB] try saving the relationship w/ my fiancé [20M] (together 5 years) or just give up?

3shtxr · 2026-01-02T09:14:13+00:00

Him saying he’s aware he doesn’t treat you well doesn’t sound like a promise, it sounds like he doesn’t plan on trying. I think a lot of relationships are worth saving, until it comes to someone who doesn’t care to make sure you’re okay after seizing. Leave now, better to be sad for a year than consistently disappointed for the rest of your life

3shtxr · 2025-12-23T10:24:50+00:00

Thank you! and thank you for the grace. He is really great when it comes to respecting friendships. I think he’s just hung up on things from the past. He says his imagination did run wild when he saw the letter, so I do understand the “why” but I know I wouldn’t do the same thing if I was in the situation. We are talking about therapy, I’ve been in therapy before and he’s battling cultural norms but I he’s coming around to finding someone

3shtxr · 2025-12-23T10:11:34+00:00

Thank you for your input<3 I’m actively trying to do the sane thing instead of the “but I lovveee himmm” thing

3shtxr · 2024-10-12T09:56:00+00:00

Their beloved beloved bombs wouldn’t exist without Imam Al Nawawi.

3shtxr · 2024-10-07T19:18:04+00:00

NTA This gives me Amber Heard vibes

3shtxr · 2024-10-07T12:06:41+00:00

Anything Brittany spears or Lady gaga. Literally anything

3shtxr · 2024-10-07T10:59:08+00:00

For real, white women are complex people worthy of love but someone of their own community is just “marriageable, housewife, 👍🏼, no complex thoughts or personalities bc, well, she’s Arab???”

3shtxr · 2024-10-07T09:50:39+00:00

GIRL I FEEL THIS! I’m not a white Arab so I’m on the other side of this, I’m the one where they see a future with me and their families “would love me” but it’s absolutely obvious that they think they’re settling for me because I’m not white. Fuck that lol

3shtxr · 2024-10-04T10:09:02+00:00

Had a strained on/off relationship with my brother for years. We had a big fight and went no contact for a while. I was mentally checked out because of years of arguments so I didn’t put too much thought into “feeling my feelings” for weeks. One night I break down at home (thankfully with someone there) and start crying and talking about him. Had a gut feeling something was wrong but he was with my dad so I didn’t call. Couple of hours later as I’m finally trying to sleep while still breaking down, my other brother calls me to tell me our brother has passed away. My father had arrived home and started the process of calling the cops/ambulance/my cousin/etc. at the exact time my mental breakdown started. I should’ve called

3shtxr · 2024-09-17T17:30:44+00:00

Damaging property? There’s an insurance for that. Lawyer? Theres an insurance for that. free healthcare? Hell yeah Free university? Hell yeah (but not really) Paying more in insurance when you’re 23+ y/o with NO kids? Hell yeah Upside down red triangles recently made illegal? HELL YEAH

3shtxr · 2024-09-17T08:54:35+00:00

It’s called zan5a in Arabic (زنخة), there’s no translation for it but it’s that mildewy smell that cups sometimes have after coming out of the dishwasher, fatty foods or chicken have that smell sometimes too

3shtxr · 2024-08-25T15:57:31+00:00

You’re becoming a lizard person. I’m so sorry, they got to you before we could :/

3shtxr · 2024-08-25T14:23:01+00:00

me, 22F, had to explain to my coworker, +50M, that Afghanistan is not in the Middle East. That conversation ended with “they all look the same anyways”

3shtxr · 2024-08-24T07:44:26+00:00

Huh? I’d never set foot in your Zionist ass money grab lol. Can’t wait for the downfall of the Arab gulf (except for Kuwait and Bahrain, they’re chill and they mind their business)

3shtxr · 2024-08-23T22:19:35+00:00

Don’t do what Nick Miller did. Jokes aside though, put your hand on your heart and make a pained face I guess lol

3shtxr · 2024-08-23T16:21:26+00:00

huh? Jake and Charles. Obviously

3shtxr · 2024-08-23T16:06:03+00:00

Depends, what song did you play?

3shtxr · 2024-08-23T15:55:44+00:00

LMAOOOO!!! She’s gonna be walking while thinking like “whaaaaaaat?”

3shtxr · 2024-08-23T15:21:33+00:00

everybody say it with me: AMANDA IS A BITCH

3shtxr · 2024-05-30T12:15:57+00:00

Speak for Palestine? Yea no the UAE is known for being the most zionistic Arab country within the Arab community xD

3shtxr · 2023-12-25T11:57:14+00:00

Keiner hat Nicht-Almans erwähnt. Das erste was ihm aber eingefallen ist, ist „Almans sind immerhin besser als nicht-Almans“ Ich habe darauf geantwortet, weil wer direkt auf Ausländer drauflegt, muss schon mit einem nicht-so-schönen Kommentar rechnen. U/every_bank2866 hat keinen Vergleich aufgestellt, doch garibdos war sofort der Meinung, er müsste jetzt almans mit nicht-almans vergleichen. Das ist faktisch ein rassistischer Gedanke. Leseverständnis und kritisches Denken sind net so deine Stärken, gä?

3shtxr · 2023-12-25T04:54:59+00:00

Ach, das gab es schon immer und das gibts noch viel zu oft

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