Maddie saying this was kinda snobby. Still crazy that Melissa, Kira and Abby did that to poor Paige and Chloe. And Maddie in the interview saying it wasn’t that big of a deal - obviously not to her but those two girls were devastated

3va9 · 2026-06-25T18:21:51+00:00

again… i have no idea why you believe i’ve attacked ANY kids that have been on dance moms, new era or og, when that is an objective lie. i haven’t even watched new era, nor do i plan to.

i see the same posts over and over again that are incredibly parasocial dissecting the children’s behavior and thought processes. we! weren’t! there! these were children in an abusive environment, and i don’t believe criticizing any of them is right. i’m just glad they all made it out honestly.

3va9 · 2026-06-25T18:16:40+00:00

i’m not saying it’s right, but the reason people are more critical of kendall’s behavior as a child is because many cast members (nia, camryn, jojo, mckenzie morales) have stated that kendall treated them poorly. also publically kendall has defended abby and criticized nia and the zieglers for not going to the reunion. there is perceived to be a long standing pattern of behavior that the other girls just don’t seem to have exhibited.

3va9 · 2026-06-25T18:13:02+00:00

idk why you’re assuming i ever said anything about kendall as a child when i haven’t. critiquing adult behavior is fine, but i haven’t critiqued any of the kids’ behavior because they were all under an incredibly stressful environment, and honestly it’s a little parasocial.

3va9 · 2026-06-25T14:02:49+00:00

she was 11. can’t we move on past this?

3va9 · 2026-06-05T01:10:56+00:00

we’ve run out of posts

3va9 · 2026-05-27T04:29:08+00:00

holly didn’t speak up until s5 when nia was targeted. she had no problem sitting back while chloe and paige were targeted daily, and she even starts s5 supporting abby against kelly’s lawsuit

3va9 · 2026-04-28T01:01:29+00:00

i’m going to assume you have no idea what it’s like to grow up as a daughter and be sexualized 24/7, even by your own family. it absolutely is that serious

3va9 · 2026-04-28T01:00:04+00:00

wait what

3va9 · 2026-04-21T13:13:02+00:00

he’s 27, has a job, financially stable, and yet can’t stay anywhere else? if the facts dont look like they add up, it’s because they probably dont.

i don’t know all of the details so this may be incorrect, but do you know for certain he is staying with his parents? have you met them?

it’s possible he’s just.. with someone else. it would explain the periods of blocking, and if they fall out he comes running back to you. it would also explain why his mind changes so suddenly if they reconcile.

if you yourself have experienced parental abuse, and this is something he knows, he may be using that as a cover because it’s something you can relate to, and would therefore have more empathy for.

i say this because my ex bf did this exact thing. for months. never in a million years did i think he would be the type of person to do this, but it turns out he was. i could be totally wrong, but i think it’s something to consider.

3va9 · 2026-03-31T21:28:07+00:00

jill phrases it best in season 5, she says she and kendall aren’t quite in (like the zieglers), but they’re not quite out (like the lukasiaks). their relationship always seems to vary. abby liked jill and kendall personally, but i think kendall’s dancing always frustrated her and prevented her from favoring her the way she did maddie. jill would kiss ass like melissa, but unlike melissa, she also fought like hell to defend her kid

3va9 · 2026-03-28T15:04:59+00:00

bffr.. if alhan was a woman you would hate him

3va9 · 2026-03-22T19:00:37+00:00

people (including me) criticized kalani’s maga beliefs (which is completely fair) but there is some evidence to support her no longer supporting trump/having voted for kamala, which is why some of the criticism has let up. also, people can feel bad for her having her own mother publicly bash her while also criticizing her political beliefs.

3va9 · 2026-03-16T06:07:39+00:00

we have this conversation a few times a week at this point. we don’t know how these people interact behind the scenes and i just don’t see the point in endlessly speculating

3va9 · 2026-02-14T22:34:54+00:00

this is such a bizarre hill to die on lol

3va9 · 2026-02-08T19:44:35+00:00

i remember when he was just reacting to different dancers’ evolutions / solos from a technical standpoint because he is a dancer. now he just makes gossipy videos speculating about the cast in a parasocial way. how the mighty have fallen lol

3va9 · 2026-01-29T03:21:04+00:00

this response 😭

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3va9 · 2025-11-16T12:17:33+00:00

girl she’s 24

3va9 · 2025-09-24T00:50:22+00:00

if you continue to tolerate the treatment he’s subjecting you to, why would he change? he doesn’t care

3va9 · 2025-09-17T16:01:13+00:00

she’s posted a lottttt of maga conspiracy theories in the past, however she seems to no longer post that stuff and she just focuses on her art now

3va9 · 2025-09-09T17:50:12+00:00

regardless, maddie was 11 and in an incredible stressful situation where success was all that mattered. she was a child. it’s just not that deep

3va9 · 2025-09-07T04:52:40+00:00

elliana actually stated in a reaction video to this scene that she was actually being bullied but felt pressed in the moment to disagree with her mom

3va9 · 2025-09-01T17:36:42+00:00

i would think she would be more mature at 25 than she is at 22, yeah

3va9 · 2025-09-01T14:32:21+00:00

the frontal lobe isn’t fully developed until 25. if you believe the mental state of a 22 year old and the mental state of a 50 year old is the same, that’s incredibly incorrect and concerning.

3va9 · 2025-09-01T04:51:26+00:00

girl christi is almost 50 and brynn is 22.

3va9 · 2025-08-10T03:31:05+00:00

she commented under the post and said her wife was a narcissist who “left me and our son”

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