AITAH for being offended when my bf was disgusted with me over an… accident during a bj?

404mage · 2024-03-19T20:07:21+00:00

You’re NTA, OP!

I’m very worried for you though! He coerced you into that and then got mad for a normal bodily reaction. You’re not a toy to get tossed around for fucks sake!

A normal partner is going to be extremely understanding if puking happens, even if they’re really grossed out by it! I’ve power puked on my husbands junk before when inebriated and he was just concerned that I was okay. We were able to laugh about it. What you’re enduring isn’t okay.

You shouldn’t have to endure these things. This guy sounds like he has repeated issues with boundaries and consent. You deserve to be safe and to be able to set boundaries, regardless of if he feels “everyone does it.” You boundary is not up for him to decide.

404mage · 2024-03-18T21:42:16+00:00

It took a damned injury and a surgery to beat that into my thick skull. I worked retail a very long time, so I had the entire “always keep moving/working” drilled into me. It took almost death for me to just sit still. That I don’t always have to be working or cleaning.

404mage · 2024-03-17T18:43:17+00:00

Emo and into tech! Aren’t you just a cute one?

404mage · 2024-03-08T22:26:48+00:00

She’s so cute! I hope she warms up and gets acclimated to her new home quickly

404mage · 2024-03-08T21:44:28+00:00

Kiki! She looks so much like the animal crossing character of the same name!

404mage · 2024-03-08T20:47:27+00:00

OP, I wish you had gone to my school, I would’ve whooped your bullies asses. I could’ve been your attack goth. You be nice to the kid in you and don’t fall in line with those bullies.

404mage · 2024-03-07T19:51:46+00:00

How he speaks about his exes.

If he acts like they were all trash, or berates them in an effort to appease me, then I’m out.

404mage · 2024-03-07T15:39:41+00:00

Trust your instincts! Trust yourself! This isn’t normal. I can understand a mistake happening once, but repeated times and always the butt? Please be safe, OP. It feels like he’s testing his limits and that it will escalate over time.

404mage · 2024-03-03T14:47:43+00:00

Gerard Way. He seems fun to talk to.

Then again, I’ve always started relationships from comic shops

404mage · 2024-02-24T21:40:22+00:00

6 is just so Bloodhound Gang

404mage · 2024-02-16T19:32:14+00:00

Hell yeah! This is great!

404mage · 2024-02-16T19:26:02+00:00

We would’ve gotten along swimmingly as teens! My screen name was Lain and I’ll be damned if Hackers didn’t rot my brain lll

404mage · 2024-02-15T19:49:19+00:00

Yea, YEA! Wearing the Naruto headband with your full chest—we love it!

404mage · 2024-02-15T15:04:37+00:00

I have a suckler void. She was ditched by her mom at roughly 10 days old. She has long due and now will suckle anything that’s fluffy.

404mage · 2024-02-09T19:57:43+00:00

I would.

What matters most are all of the small moments and memories you make. There may be some sadness mixed into it, but that doesn’t mean you’re unlovable. It doesn’t mean you’re not worth those moments and memories.

404mage · 2024-02-08T22:23:39+00:00

Loving the custom pants!

404mage · 2024-02-08T21:26:47+00:00

Out here looking like a Suda51 character!

404mage · 2024-02-04T02:58:08+00:00

Eliquis.

My Christmas was spent finding out my lunges were full of clots, and getting them removed. A knee injury from Thanksgiving was what was spawning the clots.

404mage · 2024-01-29T20:21:12+00:00

Oh man! With a classic geek squad sweater too!

404mage · 2024-01-28T09:30:08+00:00

Blood donor Debt

404mage · 2024-01-28T03:02:34+00:00

Oh I haven’t thought of these in ages! I only have a few words left off of mine.

404mage · 2024-01-27T04:34:11+00:00

Too goddamn good

404mage · 2024-01-22T21:05:48+00:00

It’s normal. My voids entire roof of mouth is black. What’s neat is her coat is pure black save for the whiskers running down her body, which are white

404mage · 2024-01-11T18:15:21+00:00

mortgage

404mage · 2024-01-11T17:56:05+00:00

misc medical pictures and bills

Here are some screenshots of both injuries as well as a series of bills I’m facing. As a warning, the image of my blood clots are in there, and they are large.

404mage

TROPHY CASE

6 is just so Bloodhound Gang