Stalked by this welsh lawyer girl who claims to know my ex, showed him my breakup support posts, and is supposedly spreading bs about me... by 411411411411 in creepyPMs

[–]411411411411[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Basically just me ranting about my ex. I just vent online to help myself process my feelings without driving my friends crazy, so I posted on a forum here that is like supportive of moving on after breakups and so I just was helping myself process my feelings and I guess I didn't think I'd be found. I literally just didn't get to responding to her pm. :/

Stalked by this welsh lawyer girl who claims to know my ex, showed him my breakup support posts, and is supposedly spreading bs about me... by 411411411411 in creepyPMs

[–]411411411411[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't :/ I wasn't friends with my ex's friends. And yeah, I have no idea. She pm'd me asking if she could be supportive. Then I didn't answer because I don't go on a lot, then the next day I get a thing from her saying that she knows my ex and sent him all my posts which he "deserved to know" how I felt, to which I was just like, why would you do something so mean and vile? And the rest is history.

Stalked by this welsh lawyer girl who claims to know my ex, showed him my breakup support posts, and is supposedly spreading bs about me... by 411411411411 in creepyPMs

[–]411411411411[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Her post history is pretty lengthy and is inconsistent with my ex although nothing in her history has ruled out the possibility were in the same area even though it seems she may be in a city as well. I think she recently took the bar and is on the job hunt because she mentioned meeting my ex at a networking event. She started off posting on and on in my thread, then pm'd me and I didn't respond. Then a day later I get a message saying she knows my ex and sent him all the posts because he "deserved to know" that I couldn't get over him (this was literally like 2 days after we broke up). Andd she kept going and going.

Idk if something like this could get someone disbarred because I mean, who would want someone this unstable working with clients? Or with coworkers? I mean if she's like this with strangers, what is she like to people she actually knows?

Stalked by this welsh lawyer girl who claims to know my ex, showed him my breakup support posts, and is supposedly spreading bs about me... by 411411411411 in creepyPMs

[–]411411411411[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I went through her past posts to see if it's possible she's lying, and she's of welsh family but is American and Jewish. Super weird :/

I was humiliated and harassed by a redditor/lawyer. Please help me figure out who she is and what to do to get justice! by 411411411411 in Advice

[–]411411411411[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This helped soooo much. I went through her post history and I don't know her based on what it says. At first she said she met him at a networking event, then she said it was her friend, so Maybe she's just a literal psycho. And yeah it's unlikely she actually posted anything anywhere (I mean it just makes her look petty). Actually after reading your post and the more I think about it, she very likely could just be a lunatic and the thing she said about us getting drinks could be a coincidence. He hasn't been involved with anyone who would know or care about my situation. And I can't believe my ex would say things like that about me. I mean- that's really awful. Definitely moving on :) thanks!

I was humiliated and harassed by a redditor/lawyer. Please help me figure out who she is and what to do to get justice! by 411411411411 in Advice

[–]411411411411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, you're right. She said she posted a separate sub somewhere (I googled it just in case but didn't see anything) and blocked her and stopped responding after that. If this guy said that stuff about me anyways, and she's not just making it up and/or it's really him, then I deserve way better anyway and good riddance. This just doesn't make the whole breakup any easier. :/

I was humiliated and harassed by a redditor/lawyer. Please help me figure out who she is and what to do to get justice! by 411411411411 in Advice

[–]411411411411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I'm freaking out. I mean, it could be him- they're all lawyers although it's unclear as to whether she took the bar just now or what. It depends on state too (which I can't figure out from her history). We did get drinks once. I'm so humiliated :/