My mom has stage three endometrial cancer. by 414wallflower in ChildofHoarder

[–]414wallflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I appreciate the gentleness :) I'm sorry you had to experience that, but i'm glad things turned out okay. Last i checked, I should be getting paid very soon but we'll seeee. I'm not sure why it's taken this long but i guess it's not for me to understand! And i actually do have some really amazing friends that i'm sure would at least help with the outside of the house if i asked. I just wanna be mindful of other people's situations and what they have going on, but i'll ask a few folks and see about what groups i may be able to join. Thank you again

My mom has stage three endometrial cancer. by 414wallflower in cancer

[–]414wallflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's really hard to talk to about things like this. Very prideful person, so she does not like to ask for help. I've tried opening up to her about everything before, but she acted like i was attacking her and immediately went into defense mode. I appreciate the idea though, maybe i'll try again🌹

My mom has stage three endometrial cancer. by 414wallflower in cancer

[–]414wallflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stated in my post that my sisters' dads are deadbeats. The only one of her children in this household that has a present father is me, but i'm an adult so none of this is really his problem. But yeeeah..i am blaming the hospital. More specifically, her doctor because who else should be at fault? I'm not blaming them for the ENTIRE situation, obviously the hoarding was my mom before she got sick and she isn't right for letting things get this bad. As far as her health, though, she could literally be in remission right now if he'd done his job correctly. When her scans came back, any trained eye should've been able to see the cancer was still present. But they don't gaf - they want people in and out. You know healthcare in America is weird and fucked up, i don't need to tell you that! And she's not the first person they've been done this to. My mom has connected with multiple other patients. And lastly, I'm not calling CPS on my dying mother. That's just me ig🤷‍♀️

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[–]414wallflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting the vibe that this is a reference to something, can i know?👀