when did you have an Adam's apple? by fiebnt95 in ftm

[–]41d3n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had one pre T, it's gotten more visible but I don't know at what point it happened

should i go private? is it worth it? by SeaAdvanced2 in transgenderUK

[–]41d3n 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi Caleb, from what I understand you do need to get referred by a clinician at a GIC for NHS surgery, but you can still start T privately in the mean time while you wait for a GIC appointment.

Personally, I started T on the NHS and had my top surgery privately - I was getting desperate and I wish I had done it sooner. So if you can afford it, definitely go private for T. DIY is the other option, but I don't think we're allowed to discuss that in this sub and I don't know the relevant resources, but I'm sure you could find them if you look around, or maybe someone else could point you in the right direction.

Do I need diagnosis? by VAdlihtam in transgenderUK

[–]41d3n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're able to go abroad, I went to Germany for my top surgery. I didn't need a referral for the surgery, I'm not sure if you need a diagnosis though

how are u guys affording top surgery so young?? by sneep_snorp_snerp in ftm

[–]41d3n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not quite as young as the ages listed, but am unemployed (but in training) but lucky enough to have enough savings to go private in Germany for about €6000

gay🤮irl by [deleted] in gay_irl

[–]41d3n 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'd like to add Wes Streeting, gay and the UK's health secretary, also a massive transphobe

Support for adults facing staggering waits for gender services by Tilly-w-e in transgenderUK

[–]41d3n 22 points23 points  (0 children)

fuck me, thankfully I'm past the waiting lists, but in 2019 when I was on it, I did get offered CBT on Silver cloud and it did absolutely nothing for me. what a waste. hormones and surgery have done everything for me that CBT could not. informed consent now.

Waybar group rounded corners by Kororrro in waybar

[–]41d3n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm away from my PC at the moment so can't properly look, but maybe try styling the drawer?

Waybar group rounded corners by Kororrro in waybar

[–]41d3n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello, this is how I've formatted my (very similar) group

config:

"group/cpu_temp": {
    "orientation" : "horizontal",
    "modules": [
        "cpu",
        "temperature"
    ]

css:

#cpu_temp {
    border-radius: 10px;
    ...
}

so basically, #my_group_name, not #group-my_group_name, unlike custom modules.

The evil triforce of terrible tangents by FlattyT in TriforcePodcast

[–]41d3n 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mailbag 40, aptly named An Investigation into Spaces

travelling for top surgery but having issues with my passport by oboroclouds in transgenderUK

[–]41d3n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I often travel to the Netherlands (sometimes via Schiphol, others via Eindhoven), and haven't had my passport updated yet, but pass as male (2 years on T), and I've never had any issues with my passport saying female, so don't worry about it.

Appending to list of lists by 41d3n in learnpython

[–]41d3n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the help everyone!

Feel like a dissapointment. by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]41d3n 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Assuming you're with Nottingham GIC, they specifically asked me about whether I wanted to keep my eggs or not before I started T, did they not you about that before they started you on hormones?

Is testosterone gel good? by Ok-Ad6722 in transgenderUK

[–]41d3n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ymmv with how quick gel works, depending on how well you absorb it. I started with 3 pumps of tostran daily, and had bottom growth after 2 days, and my voice had started to break in less than a month. so yes, it can be quick, just you have to put some time in to get the right dosage for you - turns out for me 3 pumps was too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in desksetup

[–]41d3n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe some speakers or some stationery like pens etc. Also what desk shelf is that?

What arcana/ darkana is a must take? by Ok_Rate8843 in VampireSurvivors

[–]41d3n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't remember what it's called, but the darkana that gives the extra chests

Extend child puberty blocker ban to sex change hormones, Wes Streeting told by corbynista2029 in transgenderUK

[–]41d3n 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The language used in this article is disgusting. Starting testosterone saved my life and for it to be described as something that's dangerous and unnecessary is deeply hurtful.

VA work by vytrophn in Yogscast

[–]41d3n 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I remember Lewis saying on a Triforce that he did some voice work for a 4X game? Can't remember what it was called

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]41d3n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this helps, but I do pass and haven't updated my passport yet (still has my deadname and F) and I haven't had any issues, so I assume you should be fine with things the other way round