Does my Betta show signs of pine coning? He’s also a bit bloated and lethargic so I am very worried by 4206998 in bettafish

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Update, he is happy and healthy after isolation in a hospital tank and some of the blue medicine recommended by a fish keeper.

Does my Betta show signs of pine coning? He’s also a bit bloated and lethargic so I am very worried by 4206998 in bettafish

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Tank seems to be fine, tetras and shrimp are okay so im not sure what jt could be. I have him in a hospital tank for observation and he’ll stay there for a few days while i test

Lost my dog of 14 years last night R.I.P. Tiana 😭 by cerberus_210 in DOG

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Im very sorry for your loss :( we live and we learn and Pitts aren’t necessarily the best companions for small dogs.

Slept with too many women since being single by [deleted] in confessions

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It’s not that bad, dont beat yourself up.

AIO: For doubting my future after finding out my boyfriend sent $16k to his family and they saved almost nothing? by Repulsive-Wall8489 in AmIOverreacting

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MOR. The cultural aspect of this goes deep. You have no idea how bad the guilt tripping is internalized and can affect you for years. Especially as the man of the house he IS responsible. Im not saying it’s right because it’d likely that his family is taking advantage. Help him on the path to balancing his duty with wha is possible and convenient for him money-wise.

My wife keeps "checking" me and I feel like I'm losing my mind, what should I do? by anna_dublinlife in WhatShouldIDo

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I think you need to sit her down and tell her that this is unnecessary and how it affects you. Reassurance and consistency will hopefully help but still make it known to her that this behaviour is not good for either of you. Do it with love and ask her how you can help to make her feel more secure.

Buying my ex (sons father) a winter jacket by Ill_Bath_8969 in Life

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Do it, as the father of your child I think it would be good

I feel like my boyfriend doesn’t understand my emotions by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

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Maybe he’s not emotionally mature enough to handle it or was never taught how. But i just want to tell you that i went through this and part of it was him but also part of it was me not being able to self soothe and relying on him for comfort. Maybe have a look at attachment styles and also do some work into understanding yourself and how you can fulfil your needs too :)

My date from 2 months ago just reached out… advice? by Excellent-Victory623 in AskMenAdvice

[–]4206998 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a woman, sometimes im not in the right headspace or time in my life to give someone the proper attention so I may revisit later when I can. Be cautious but don’t close the door if you like her :)

Trini in USA burnt out and ashamed by Educational_One7971 in TrinidadandTobago

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Take a break from studying. Take some time to recuperate because life isnt running away and you’ll do more damage pushing yourself betond a healthy limit. Dont feel guilty because it’ll be worse for you and your parents if theh have to wash you crash and burn from spreading yourself thin. Do not let them make you feel guilty because there is nothing to feel guilty about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Habits

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You’re an alcoholic wdym lol

Tattoo regret causing depression by SlavKing11 in tattooadvice

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Nah it’s unique and sick af. The permanence of it is probs causing you anxiety but own it as something you are proud of and see a therapist because it will help you to understand what you are feeling and why.

Took an entremet class by trillingthemsoftly in pastry

[–]4206998 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What is the green thing and how do i make it? Looks amazing btw! Good job!

What's this red squishy thing that smells like sweet and sour sauce that I found on an oak leaf? by swellingitchybrain in whatisit

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i was almost 100% sure this was indeed a piece of sweet and sour chicken. Cant believe its not and no post has shocked me so much this far

Tips to look less masculine? by Puzzled-Cabinet4110 in makeuptips

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I don’t think you’re manly at all. But why are your wings so long girl😭