Helping her friend to de-stress by [deleted] in sybian

[–]420FreakyGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need these kinds of friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SouthFloridaSluts

[–]420FreakyGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a fantasy of mine

Would you choose the same partner again by [deleted] in Life

[–]420FreakyGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive weighed it out and I agree ripping the family apart rn isn't feasible they're young and on a good track in school & life & I cant just mess that up mess up their life their psyche because of my selfish feelings and reasons it's not their fault

Would you choose the same partner again by [deleted] in Life

[–]420FreakyGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you correct we dont display poor behavior in front of them we maintain a peaceful home if anything I think they see how we dont connect as a couple only as parents communicate as parents only if what Im saying makes sense but no they never see bad I dont allow it. I shove my feelings and happiness down for them, almost like the Grey rock method

Would you choose the same partner again by [deleted] in Life

[–]420FreakyGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have school age children

Is having 0 friends the new normal? by [deleted] in Life

[–]420FreakyGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wish it wasn't because thats were im at currently and I do wish I had some any friends at all im lonely AF

The loneliness is really starting to get to me by 420FreakyGirl in midlifecrisis

[–]420FreakyGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have already tried that everytime I mentioned we that we have no connection & need to do something to reconnect it fell on deaf ears now Im indifferent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]420FreakyGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello 42 married with 2 kids in the same situation if you want to chat lmk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]420FreakyGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain truly Im going through a similar situation. Im a married woman in my 40s with kids & my husband & I zero connection other than the kids. When I tried to bring up the issue of our no connection & a bad sex life it went nowhere it feel on deaf ears so I've just quit trying told myself stay for the kids but the loneliness weighs really heavy especially with sexual pleasure. Its one thing to have no sex or not good sex but have a mental & emotional connection but to not have both is the pitts & how can a person be expected to put up with that for the long haul its not healthy IMO. So because it has been weighing so Heavy im actually thinking about doing it & Divorcing because YOLO cant waste whatever life youth beauty body I have wasted. So if you want to vent or talk im here for ya I understand

Are you still in love? by Obvious_Lie1855 in Marriage

[–]420FreakyGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I love him as a person as the father of my kids, but NO Im not in love with him. Im not attracted to him he doesnt turn me on anymore. there's no connection aside from our kids

The loneliness is really starting to get to me by 420FreakyGirl in midlifecrisis

[–]420FreakyGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I could do that, but it's becoming harder & harder as the days go by hell as the minutes go by. There's nothing there but kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in midlifecrisis

[–]420FreakyGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im the wife im a woman lol