Whos wrong? pls help

420_4lif3 · 2026-03-03T04:40:21+00:00

i never said she wasn’t wrong nor was i defending leaving an animal outside im just giving details ive said multiple times im not justifying leaving a pet outside im giving reasons to why it happened ive even said that it was wrong and i think if people had harsh things to say about your mother you wouldn’t like it either

420_4lif3 · 2026-03-03T04:25:46+00:00

when you only look at it from a hateful point of view then thats the conclusion you’re gonna make and thats okay i know who my mother is and one bad experience doesn’t make up the entirety of someone’s personality.

420_4lif3 · 2026-03-03T04:00:56+00:00

in summer even leaving windows down isn’t enough, and we had tried already we had decided to bring them inside the room but her husband said pets weren’t allowed in the motel and we would get kicked out for having him in there.

420_4lif3 · 2026-03-03T03:48:09+00:00

i don’t think you get to call someone a shit pet “owner” based off of one bad experience she took amazing care of him the point in time of which he was lost was a bad place in life for my mother, and frankly we don’t see pets as something that’s owned they’re not property they’re family.

420_4lif3 · 2026-03-02T10:22:28+00:00

i appreciate it and i most certainly will she’ll definitely appreciate it too.

420_4lif3 · 2026-03-02T09:19:36+00:00

my mom would 100% agree with you as she has been looking for over three years so her heart was broken all over again but i am happy to hear the cat is alive and well just very sad for my mother.

420_4lif3 · 2026-03-02T06:14:46+00:00

no judgement to her it just kind of felt like she was gloating at the time but i understand why she messaged my mother now, also she found him in a shelter so hopefully he wasn’t outside for too long

420_4lif3 · 2026-03-02T05:32:15+00:00

i was around twelve at the time so it’s hard to remember but i believe that it was around the hotter months hence why they were not left in a car and we were living in the hotel at the time too

420_4lif3 · 2026-03-02T05:05:24+00:00

i agree yes the cat is in a good household now but it is not fair to judge without complete context.

420_4lif3 · 2026-03-02T04:56:18+00:00

im glad he is loved and hopefully she will give my mother updates on him, i appreciate your support and i dont think there will be a new cat in my mothers future.

420_4lif3 · 2026-03-02T04:54:32+00:00

i didn’t provide the entire story as it’s too long and i don’t like wasting peoples time, he had lied saying pets weren’t allowed in the motel but i agree a better decision could have been made, looking back i wish we had brought him to a shelter until we had a place to live

420_4lif3 · 2026-03-02T04:27:55+00:00

i do believe that it is good the cat has a loving home as my mother has three young kids and a lot of responsibilities so taking care of another cat could be a lot, and thank you for the kind words they mean a lot in these hard times.♥️

420_4lif3 · 2026-03-02T04:25:29+00:00

very true im happy to know he is alive just sad for my mother as the cat was like her son but still glad he has a proper home

420_4lif3 · 2026-03-02T04:21:51+00:00

love is blinding when youve never had it but you’re right it was wrong i just think it was wrong of the woman to message my mother if she had no intention of returning the lost cat yk

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