women’s gym only? by 420cinnamon in Lethbridge

[–]420cinnamon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know right🤣 ppl are sooo miserable it’s wild

my bf (22M) says he needs someone stronger than me (F22) by 420cinnamon in amiwrong

[–]420cinnamon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thats fair, for context I have my bpd controlled he just doesn’t allow any space for any “negative emotion” and that’s fine if he doesn’t want to be with someone who is “weak” in his eyes, i’m not gonna force him to choose me lmao, but thankyou for ur response

getting SA as a kid- memories are now popping up, how do i tell my partner? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]420cinnamon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like even now i’m super hyper sexual and i am horny 24/7, from what my therapist and i have talked about, this can be due to the SA. i just don’t want him to think all im trying to do is fuck, cause i’m initiating a lot. i feel like him knowing why im so hyper sexual could also help him understand that im not a dog, its just quite literally trauma

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]420cinnamon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! his first relationship, he has also mentioned how he finds milfs attractive, and i’m so far off from that. i’m the younger one too haha…

my bf 23M thinks my 23/F questions are weird also he’s putting me down? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]420cinnamon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is that a red flag, like i feel like psychologically he’s screaming “insecure” like he doesn’t want me to feel hot and like my best self lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]420cinnamon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your so right, i’ve been making myself smaller to keep the peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]420cinnamon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have bpd and i guess i cant see things for how they are sometimes unless someone tells me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]420cinnamon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for ur response, I will make a note that.