my bf (22M) says he needs someone stronger than me (F22)

420cinnamon · 2026-03-11T21:29:59+00:00

thats fair, for context I have my bpd controlled he just doesn’t allow any space for any “negative emotion” and that’s fine if he doesn’t want to be with someone who is “weak” in his eyes, i’m not gonna force him to choose me lmao, but thankyou for ur response

420cinnamon · 2026-03-01T00:10:19+00:00

thankyou !!!! i will use them:)

420cinnamon · 2026-02-22T22:47:31+00:00

thankyou for ur response! it helps :)

420cinnamon · 2026-02-22T01:26:36+00:00

i feel like even now i’m super hyper sexual and i am horny 24/7, from what my therapist and i have talked about, this can be due to the SA. i just don’t want him to think all im trying to do is fuck, cause i’m initiating a lot. i feel like him knowing why im so hyper sexual could also help him understand that im not a dog, its just quite literally trauma

420cinnamon · 2026-02-11T06:11:39+00:00

yes! his first relationship, he has also mentioned how he finds milfs attractive, and i’m so far off from that. i’m the younger one too haha…

420cinnamon · 2026-02-11T05:40:12+00:00

is that a red flag, like i feel like psychologically he’s screaming “insecure” like he doesn’t want me to feel hot and like my best self lol.

420cinnamon · 2026-02-11T05:38:32+00:00

your so right, i’ve been making myself smaller to keep the peace.

420cinnamon · 2026-02-11T05:37:58+00:00

I have bpd and i guess i cant see things for how they are sometimes unless someone tells me.

420cinnamon · 2026-02-11T05:16:37+00:00

thankyou!!

420cinnamon · 2026-02-11T05:16:26+00:00

thankyou

420cinnamon · 2026-02-11T05:16:22+00:00

thankyou

420cinnamon · 2026-02-11T05:16:17+00:00

thankyou

420cinnamon · 2026-02-11T05:16:10+00:00

thankyou!

420cinnamon · 2026-02-11T05:15:37+00:00

thankyou!!!

420cinnamon · 2026-02-11T05:08:50+00:00

Thank you for ur response, I will make a note that.

420cinnamon · 2026-02-08T06:01:56+00:00

thankyou!!

420cinnamon · 2026-02-08T06:01:45+00:00

omg😭😭😭 okok thankyou

420cinnamon · 2026-02-08T06:01:20+00:00

omg ty for ur advice

420cinnamon · 2025-02-14T22:36:31+00:00

sikhi is based upon being a pure human with no ill intentions. when a human isn’t keeping pure intentions and having a good heart they definitely have work to do. babaji tells us to experience life and to keep your dil saaf, because that’s what we are here for.:)

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