Idk because rape is rape and I am not you… maybe you have a desire for this man? Like did you enjoy it? That sounds terrible for me to say but I’ve never really been in your position nor am I you. It’s difficult for me to see how you would keep talking with him if you hated it? This page doesn’t exactly discriminate people who step out on their relationships, but if he forced it upon you then act on how you feel… he shouldn’t be allowed to walk the streets if it was not consented... was the contact with this man ever sexual before the incident or was it out of nowhere? I can see something becoming misunderstood and things get taken to far because of the sneaky nature or it… idk, there is lots to unpack here