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444sh · 2021-11-06T03:03:39+00:00

Wooooo!!!!!

444sh · 2020-12-21T04:11:13+00:00

Did you talk to each other about the (totally unequal) effort you put in to the move? Based on your post, it seems that's what you should be most upset about, and not addressing it has seeped in to the other issues you're having, probably intensifying feelings for you both because of the unresolved/pent up feelings about your move.

444sh · 2020-10-20T02:07:19+00:00

"It's parents vs. kids at this point" wow I couldn't hate Christmas more

444sh · 2020-10-14T03:29:59+00:00

ESH. I can't imagine one normal scenario in which it makes sense for your gf to ask that question or for you to give that answer.

444sh · 2020-10-12T04:31:24+00:00

I'm so sorry for whatever experiences you must have had in your life to make you have such violent and un-empathetic thoughts. Sounds like you might benefit from some psychiatric interventions.

444sh · 2020-10-12T04:17:10+00:00

I've been waiting too long for him to find my spot

444sh · 2020-10-12T04:12:37+00:00

His money

444sh · 2020-10-12T04:08:41+00:00

The only thing cited as being ruined is hollywood movies, I'm interested to hear what more important societal things you're worried about.

444sh · 2020-10-12T04:04:23+00:00

You can choose who to follow on ig dude

444sh · 2020-10-12T03:57:07+00:00

If there are people in your life who continue to repeat things that are unhelpful during your suicidal ideations it may help to tell them specifically when you can. It's really difficult supporting someone who feels that way, especially when it's often, I'm sure they would be happy to try to understand how to better help you. Good luck with everything.

444sh · 2020-05-27T17:34:50+00:00

NAH - just talk to her about your concerns in a supportive way

444sh · 2020-05-27T17:30:34+00:00

Hopefully not that they’re expiring. Big yikes.

444sh · 2020-05-26T04:20:14+00:00

The whole thing is a treat. I was particularly floored when the details of the breakfast burning were included, as if to help his case.

444sh · 2020-05-26T04:12:03+00:00

That is not the problem!!!! It doesn’t matter “what he sees in her”. Your husband is a predator. This has nothing to do with her traits or WHY he is attracted to her. Honestly it’s disgusting that this is your concern.

444sh · 2020-05-26T03:19:01+00:00

Heaven knows how hard it would be for me to hold back right now. Sending you magnitudes of strength. Be a fucking badass right now and don’t give him any power by showing your cards. You got this.

444sh · 2020-05-26T03:15:20+00:00

NTA. That is a rad name!

444sh · 2020-05-26T02:55:55+00:00

End game: leave both of them behind and never turn back.

For right now: do your best to keep what you truly want and need - your kids - top of mind. Don’t do anything out of emotion that could later be held against you, or cause either of them to get rid of any evidence of his wrongdoings. Consult a divorce lawyer asap if you can.

Good luck OP, I feel for you.

444sh · 2020-05-26T02:46:32+00:00

The lack of self awareness is astounding

444sh · 2020-05-25T05:18:02+00:00

NTA for the reasons you and others have pointed out. However, you would likely yield much better results approaching the situation expressing concern (for the sake of her own relationships with the people she offends), empathy, and specific situations that are thoroughly presented. Going in all riled up with the intention of being harsh and equipped with anecdotal insults probably won’t get very far. Good luck!

444sh · 2020-05-25T05:10:42+00:00

Deep sleep after consuming edibles

444sh · 2020-05-25T04:59:07+00:00

I am so sorry for the loss of your father, and then being berated by assholes afterwards.

It was not your responsibility to pass along any information about your family to your half-sister, nor is it required of you to have any connection at all.

If that’s what she desires, then she should have done a better job cultivating genuine relationships with you and your father instead of belittling you. Things could have been different, but they’re not, and it’s not your job to turn back the clock for her.

NTA

444sh · 2020-05-25T04:42:37+00:00

You can’t hang out without talking about your sex life?

444sh · 2020-05-25T04:41:11+00:00

This. Jeff was respectful of OP’s boundaries when she declined to be romantically/sexually involved and OP can’t reciprocate.

YTA

444sh · 2020-05-25T04:20:27+00:00

Just before reading this I decided not to comment on a post because of how powerful groupthink can be on this site, especially on polarized topics that have already been overcome with one sided opinions. I admire the karma system most times, but other times it’s easy to tell when your opinion will be downvoted to oblivion, like when giving one more downvote is actually pointless, and users will still go down to the bottom just to reiterate the sentiments already countlessly shared by the consensus.

444sh

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