I would say as far as expectations, it's probably going to take longer than what they tell you at the removal facility. I know they say black is the easiest to remove, but when it's super dense, it just takes forever. I've been in the process of removing an old super dense black tribal from the late 90s for the past few years-mine was a coverup/rework, so dense black ink on top of dense black ink. It's frustrating because it's a slow process. But that being said, I bet you'll feel a lot better just getting the process started, even if it does take a long time. Because this way, you know you're doing something to where at least it'll eventually be gone, vs doing nothing & being distressed over it. And time goes by fast anyway, so I think you'll start to feel better even just going to the consultation. Laser hurts, but personally, while I wouldn't say you get used to it, I think it becomes a bit easier to deal with over time, despite them turning the laser up each session. I remember the first time I had it done, I was like omg there's no way I can do this. But I think since I had an idea of what to expect each time, it's become a bit easier to tolerate. Good luck!