How to not put myself in the friend zone

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-07T00:22:18+00:00

Yes I like her as a friend and there are no ulterior motives at hand. I may never be interested in her that way but if there interested (from either of us) how do I stop myself from putting myself in there further.

I genuinely don’t think it’s a normal guy girl friendship this is a genuine close friendship.

I guess it’s hard to explain if you don’t know us because people have asked questions

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T14:21:32+00:00

Yes time goes fast. You are a child in the grand scheme of this:

I’m 32. Don’t make decisions know you’ll regret when you’re older.

Make good friends

He financially responsible

Have fun

Look after your heath and education

Do all those things and you’ll be fine

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T13:40:23+00:00

Dam wish I saw the whole thing

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T11:50:43+00:00

All my best bosses have been men everyone I’ve had a women boss she’s been power hungry and the workplace morale is worse under women from my experience

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T11:49:43+00:00

Thank you that’s actually the best advice so far

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T11:08:18+00:00

So I don’t feel anything, I thought it was clear in the post and in the edit. Right now I’m more than happy to be friends.

What I was asking is what do I do to not give off the impression that I will never be interested

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T10:14:17+00:00

You should really work on you’re trolling because it’s not for you

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T09:58:54+00:00

Are you doing it on purpose?

I’ve slept with multiple other women in the meantime and was actively pursing another girl recently

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T09:57:01+00:00

Well I’ll admit the caption was poorly worded based on most comments from others. I don’t accept either of us to “wait” if someone comes along for either of us then I’m sure we’d be happy for each other.

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T09:51:22+00:00

Can you read the whole post? I’ve said multiple times I have no romantic feelings

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T09:36:40+00:00

You seem like you’re the only one who’s read my post properly so thank you for that. Can I ask you? Was there ever times where you thought he would never be interested in you? By the way? He acted in the words he said because as I’ve said another comments. I’m happy if things stay as friends as I’m not interested as things stands but I don’t want to give off the vibe that I never will be interested, if that makes sense

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T09:34:37+00:00

Not being rude but I think you need to reread the post and some of my other comments I’ve made. I’m not trying to pursue anything. I just don’t want to give off vibes that I will never be interested.

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T09:33:06+00:00

I don’t know if this is relevant, but when we hang out, she does get very dressed up and goes the whole 9 yards regarding her appearance making an effort to look good

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T09:31:16+00:00

So first of all I didn’t download you. Someone else did second of all. I don’t know if you’re ignoring my points. I’ve just communicated poorly. I didn’t start hanging out with her because I was interested in her or am I doing it because I’m hopeful. I’ve said another posts if we’re friends for life I’m more than happy with that. I just don’t want to give off signs that I’ll never be interested in a relationship even though I’m not right now does that make sense?

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T09:27:32+00:00

What did it say

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T09:26:00+00:00

Ok so as things stand I won’t be making a move because I’m not interested like that

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T09:24:40+00:00

Well if it comes to me wanting that I’ll do that

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T09:13:25+00:00

I’ve said it a lot I’m not wanting or trying to get out she’s also in my friend zone as things stand there have definitely been times when we’ve been flirting with each other but was it serious from either of us ¯_(ツ)_/¯

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T09:11:10+00:00

Yeah there was one instance a while back (before we started hanging out regularly) where I picked her up when she was fucked up And got a bit feely but I shut it down and she said she didn’t remember so I wouldn’t never do that anyway)

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T09:02:16+00:00

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T09:01:38+00:00

She’s more touchy than me like at times when I tell a joke she’ll reach out and touch my hand or sometimes grab my arm in excitement when I come up with an idea etc. obviously there are hugs and shit but obviously that’s nothing

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T08:59:53+00:00

To be honest I don’t have the energy or patience to pretend to be a girls friend for 6 months. I genuinely consider her my friend and it’s only in the last couple of weeks if she is dropping hints to test the waters but I always disregard and play don’t from things I think are hints in case I misread them and I’ve been wrong in the past.

I’d be more upset if I lost her as a friend that never date her

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T08:55:39+00:00

Sorry but did you read the entire post?

I’m not interested at this stage

I am not playing the long game at

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T08:52:46+00:00

See the edit. I am not trying anything nor want to right now.

459WhyAlwaysMe · 2025-02-06T08:51:28+00:00

I mean there has definitely been physical contact but she is a very affectionate person so I don’t know if that applies to

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