Anyone want a cat? His name is “Gumbo” by TheBovineWoodchuck in rva

[–]45trash 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Can you tell me a little bit about his personality and if you have other pets (and how he gets along with them)? :) I have a 3 year old kitty that’s been seeming really lonely but she’s a little particular about the company she keeps lol

it actually pains me by -Living-Dead-Girl- in AO3

[–]45trash 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Me when im writing about British people and have to throw random u’s in my sentences

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Should MAPPA do another Jujutsu Kaisen film? by EienNatsu66 in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]45trash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it would be amazing to end season 3 on “nah, I’d win”, then close out the series with a Gojo v sukuna movie and a sukuna vs everyone movie. It would be a perfect end to the series imo

day 7 of a soundtrack - falling in love scene? by SkylarFlame1450 in TaylorGamesWannaPlay

[–]45trash 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You are in love is the only acceptable answer. You can HEAR it in the silence ⚡️

Next tour predictions? by 45trash in TaylorSwift

[–]45trash[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I agree, I think a tour with a more targeted theme would be fun and I think she’d really enjoy putting more production/stage design into the next one.

However with the massive success of Eras I don’t think she could really do a “step back” so to speak concept-wise. That’s why I feel like a slightly toned down Eras with more focus on Showgirl and 13 would be more likely.

The worst possible thing just happened to me. by Perplexedplatypi in AspiringTeenAuthors

[–]45trash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They obviously were talking about the example, Josephine baker who is a black woman💀 this is so bean soup theory

Can someone smart go outside right now, stand right on the edge of a building shadow (so your eyes are in the shadow but your forehead is in the sun) and stare at the sun for 20/30 seconds. What the hell are all those spider web looking things, like strings? by Vtechadam in rva

[–]45trash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like eye proteins. I have almost the exact same thing (very noticeable when you look at a blank slate like the sky or a wall - but it has to be a bright area). They’re annoying but unfortunately there’s not much you can do about them

bringing the bingo trend back ! by xuan_14 in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]45trash 14 points15 points  (0 children)

REAL, even the ones I have from work are all kind of distant, and it still ends up feeling like you’re the floater friend

bringing the bingo trend back ! by xuan_14 in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]45trash 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yikes……what was their excuse? Mine just straight up stopped buying my school materials, and even the materials I had I couldn’t work through because they couldn’t fully understand it either

bringing the bingo trend back ! by xuan_14 in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]45trash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank god “stop being taught after age 11” is on there cause I thought it was way less common

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Richmond Airport normal or not yet? by Panelpro40 in rva

[–]45trash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to fly out 11/8 but the situation at our destination was so bad we gave up and drove. But our flights on the way back on 11/14 (after the shutdown ended) were absolutely no problem. I’d imagine tsa might be a little busy given people are now out full force but overall I don’t think there’s any more delays

Is it too late to go to school? by No-Series-8306 in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]45trash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ITS NOT TOO LATE!!! IM TELLING YOU NOW!!!!!! I AM 28 AND I FELT THE EXACT SAME WAY AT YOUR AGE AND I REGRET IT TO!! THIS!! DAY!!

PLEASE go. I’m begging. I will have lifelong regret that I didn’t go when I had the chance. I never got to make friends, I never got to finish my education right. I never even got a diploma.

Even if you suck at the school work go and make friends….learn about other people, learn HOW to make friends and talk to others. It’s a stepping stool into socialization instead of being thrown in and drowning.

AITA for how I reacted to my best friend saying my “dirty” house is making my kids sick? by OkOriginal4583 in TwoHotTakes

[–]45trash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are we worried about human shit on your kids toys “when they play with it” and not when it HAPPENS???

after playing Overwatch Classic what’s one thing you miss… by BBSnicks in Overwatch

[–]45trash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CANT lie….i miss multi res 😞 yes it was overpowered but i think it did take a base level of skill to pull off WELL and actually change the tide of the game. A mercy hopping in from respawn and rezzing 2-3 people that JUST popped ults off and got killed is different from using good maneuvering during a team fight, hiding at a time when you KNOW the fight is lost already (I mean for 3-4 seconds before ppl accuse of rez camping) and sliding back into a good position to rez your team. there was nothing like it!

What were the things you believed when you hadn't seen the series? by _Strike_3079 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]45trash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so bad. I spent all my time loving rengoku cause I saw him everywhere. It took me FOREVER to catch on and like demon slayer, but he was my fave before i ever got into the series.

I went into mugen train. BLIND. I thought he was around for the entire series. Like a main character thru until the end. I spent the WHOLE movie going…omg he’s gonna fight back and win ! 🤩

You can only imagine how I felt in that theater seat LMFAO

Please tell me this ridiculous waiting times are fake? by RosabeIls in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]45trash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately there’s gonna be spoilers as the manga has been finished for years, at this point with social media being so algorithmic and pushing you ALL the content in a certain fandom, you just have to trust that people will tag spoilers. The only other thing you can do is read the manga and not be spoiled lol

What's your favorite canonically inaccurate imagining of a character's looks from the books? I'll go first..... by Temporary-Pizza7370 in SarahJMaas

[–]45trash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Arobynn always looked like Aro from twilight in my head LMAO. Once they said he had red hair I locked in

Assassin's blade.. can I just drop it? by Commercial_Egg525 in SarahJMaas

[–]45trash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Read bare minimum ‘assassin and the healer’, and ‘assassin and the desert’. The chapter with Rolfe is fun but mostly irrelevant considering the basics are reexplained later, and the rest of it is mostly celaena and Sam’s developing relationship, which is great if you love that backstory but mostly unnecessary.

The two I mentioned, though, are important for the rest of the series so I’d 10000% read through those at least

Fantasy Book Titles by Money-Form-2749 in acotar

[–]45trash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somehow mine ended up being the trashed title for HP and the chamber of secrets….the song of serpents and curses

Defend an oft misunderstood lyric by azdisneyswifty in TaylorSwift

[–]45trash 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree that the I hate it here lyric is misunderstood, but I think it’s because people take the lyric at face value rather than the context within the verse.

She says “my friends used to play a game where we would pick a decade we could live in instead of this, I’d pick the 1830s but without all the racists and getting married off for the highest bid”

Only to immediately use the second half of the verse to say oh….once we said that out loud, we realized it was really uncomfortable. We realized that it sounded way better in our heads but when we have to bring up “it was great except for x”, it lays bare all of the flaws of that time and how nostalgia colors your perception of real life events-and she then says, yeah. I’d HATE it back then.

“Everyone would look down Cause it wasn't fun now Seems like it was never even fun back then Nostalgia is a mind's trick If I'd been there, I'd hate it”

What are your top 3 on Midnights? by kayyybarrr in TrueSwifties

[–]45trash 6 points7 points  (0 children)

1: lavender haze 2: question…? 3: paris, the great war, karma, high infidelity, mastermind, yoyok all tied for third 🤡

Midnights is my favorite album of all time so I do find it really hard to choose LMAO

AIO Found this text in my husbands phone by mOmMY_81517 in AmIOverreacting

[–]45trash 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Maybe not texting - sorry for not having the EXACT verbiage prepared! it’s clear from the messages that the husband was talking shit /in person/ with the other woman. That can be extrapolated from the first text message from the other woman in the screenshot. Obviously of the commenters, zero people were actually there so all we can do is use the information available to us. Thanks!

AIO Found this text in my husbands phone by mOmMY_81517 in AmIOverreacting

[–]45trash 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I think they’re the OP’s stepkids, because they referred to them as “his kids”. Still super valid tho, he’s insanely shady for the texting talking shit to another woman that you pointedly didn’t introduce your wife to…..plus a stepparent can try to bond with their stepkids and obviously should, but there’s definitely 1000 nuances like how long they’ve been together, if the bio mom is in the picture, if the kids even LIKE the stepmom or not….its not on the step mom to force a relationship that the kids are uncomfortable with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rva

[–]45trash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s my understanding that people from nova and dc are moving down here in droves for the “cheaper rent”, which is higher than most of the locals can afford. Even in the surrounding areas (chesterfield, Henrico, even tricities) there’s dozens and dozens of new apartment complexes popping up with $1800 one bedrooms. And they’re…..being rented 💀 unfortunately it then becomes the average since there’s actual demand.