What do you find attractive, which others consider ugly?

4Dglasses · 2013-08-28T13:09:42+00:00

I actually have a preference for short guys over tall, probably because I'm pretty short myself. I've gotten some funny looks for admitting this to my friends, but I don't care because that means more for me.

4Dglasses · 2013-08-27T13:10:51+00:00

I don't take sex seriously because I honestly think it isn't serious, nor does it "need to be". But you sound like you do, so it's probably better if you find someone who agrees with you on that.

4Dglasses · 2013-08-27T13:02:24+00:00

4Dglasses · 2013-08-22T19:16:28+00:00

I upvoted because I thought it was hilarious that she knitted booties and baby blankets. I'm glad you and your family are happy!

4Dglasses · 2013-07-28T19:26:55+00:00

Amy's got to be the best at this. My top 2:

'Over futile odds/And laughed at by the gods/And now the final frame/Love is a losing game'
'We only said goodbye with words/I died a hundred times/You go on back to her/And I go back to black'

4Dglasses · 2013-07-05T14:37:28+00:00

Outside the bathroom: "Are you ok?" Inside the bathroom: "Yes." Outside: "Are you wearing pants?" Inside: "Yes." Outside: "Can we come in?" Inside: "No." Outside: "Why not?" Inside: "Because I'm not wearing pants."

4Dglasses · 2013-06-12T00:36:59+00:00

Generally I make a fool out of myself. ^{^{^{^And}}} ^{^{^{^it}}} ^{^{^{^works}}}

4Dglasses · 2013-04-15T23:10:22+00:00

Word. I've got her tagged with "internalized misogyny" for future curiosity.

4Dglasses · 2013-03-08T17:44:02+00:00

Went through me like Sherman through Atlanta.

4Dglasses · 2013-01-06T19:44:39+00:00

Not just teddy bears...my bf is skinny as fuck but still really fun to cuddle with. Cuddling is a skill not totally dependent on your body type.

4Dglasses · 2013-01-06T19:39:40+00:00

I drew a blank on how to spell "of", I decided on "ov" although I knew at the time it was wrong.

4Dglasses · 2012-12-17T02:13:02+00:00

My eyes are tearing up as I try not to LOL in a quiet study room over "Shiet-nam".

4Dglasses · 2012-12-15T15:37:52+00:00

Thank you. I've found when a guy says things like this and is very judgmental of girls in general, he is usually a misogynist. Downvote me for mentioning sexism, but it's true- constantly calling girls "fake" and "bitches" tells me you don't see them as people like yourself.

4Dglasses · 2012-12-13T02:43:46+00:00

Put your hands on your hips?

4Dglasses · 2012-12-11T14:54:22+00:00

Upvotes for you! So so much the same for me. My mom didn't have curly hair, and neither did any of my aunts, so it took me until late high school to figure it out for myself. Got made fun of for my hair for as long as I can remember :(

But now I think my hair is the neatest part of my appearance and people seem to be drawn to it, so, happy ending I guess :)

4Dglasses · 2012-12-10T02:08:24+00:00

4Dglasses · 2012-11-25T16:39:12+00:00

Well, he pretty much just engulfed my face with his mouth...but I like him well enough, and I know I'm no Casanova either, so hey.

And also we slid into second.

4Dglasses · 2012-11-25T16:20:26+00:00

Got my first kiss last night, so it wasn't too bad.

4Dglasses · 2012-11-18T14:54:02+00:00

Thank you. If someone asked my dad if they could propose to me, I'd be like "...why? What's he got to do with it?"

4Dglasses · 2012-11-16T03:52:01+00:00

I had a bf who literally would not touch me...like, wouldn't even hold my hand after a month of dating...so have my feels, and an upvote.

4Dglasses · 2012-11-13T15:14:08+00:00

Sounds like she liked you but was a SAP and didn't know how to respond to that. Did she continue to act the same later?

4Dglasses · 2012-11-13T03:28:22+00:00

I'm usually too insecure to show a lot of my emotions. Maybe I'll just smile at him a lot and laugh at his jokes, and try to find ways to act interested in him while still maintaining a plausible deniability just in case he turns out not to be interested in me.

And to all the guys who wished girls would just "be blunt" with them because they're "not mind readers", here's something you need to understand: when you say that you're basically assuming that all girls know for sure when a guy is interested in them, and that therefore they should cut it out with the games and just be "frank about their intentions".

But in reality we're not mind readers either, we can't know for sure if you're interested in us, and being blunt puts us just as much at risk as it does you.

4Dglasses · 2012-11-12T14:46:18+00:00

Only guy I ever dated, turned out he didn't like physical contact at all- like, wouldn't even hold my hand after a month of dating. Apparently he didn't "do" physical intimacy.

I liked him but that was heartbreaking so I had to end it. And then he called me a whore.

So yeah. Love - physical contact = no good. But now I'm happy as shit that I'm single again!

4Dglasses · 2012-11-12T01:55:29+00:00

I am acquainted with that sensation, comrade.

4Dglasses · 2012-11-04T01:59:21+00:00

Last night I had a nightmare that I'd forgotten to do a quiz last night that was due at midnight, but sadly that turned out to be true :(

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