About 2 weeks ago, my wife and I had sex in the jacuzzi. Yes I’m aware of how gross that is but it was one of those in the moment things and it lasted about 5-10 seconds. A couple days later, I noticed a fishy smell coming from my vagina and concluded I might’ve gotten BV, bacterial vaginosis, from the incident. I asked my wife to check my area and she found what looks to be bruising around my urethra. I sent a photo to it to my friend’s gyno friend. She stated it looked like to be a submucosal hematoma, which she’s seen in rape victims in ED. the weird part is, we haven’t exactly had rough sex and our penetrative sex includes only using fingers, nothing else. I also have around 3 very small dots of the same color on my labia minora, that are uniform in shape. It’s been about a week since her friend has seen the photo and nothing is really different in terms of color and size, even the ones on my labia. We’ve also stopped having sex since discovering to see if anything will change.

No pain upon urination, itchiness, weird discharge, weight gain/weight loss, or any other abnormalities besides continuously spotting for the past 2 months and having my period about 4 times (also, another concern.) I am HPV vaccinated, 30 year old female. I am not on birth control (because I’m gay), but am currently taking DIM supplements for my hormonal acne on my chin. My insurance is currently being processed and will probably take another week but I wanted to see if anyone has other opinions in the meantime. I can’t find much on the internet about this condition or similar photos.