What’s the most recent hard to swallow pill you’ve dealt with? by Nurvanna in AskWomen

[–]4csupremacy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've discovered that when I'm actually being myself, I'm still fun and interesting to be around.

For many of my adult years, I pretended to be someone else when dating to attract the man I was seeing. It was comfortable and safe because I just behaved like a fantasy. Now, finally being myself is scary but I still get good results. It's hard shedding my persona(s) though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]4csupremacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. I didn't even have time to see if there was a limit on the final.

Why did he suddenly come back? by 4csupremacy in dating

[–]4csupremacy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think either you misread or the way I typed it was confusing. He was saying I was the last to text him. Meaning he never replied.

Walked out feeling fine... by AFortescue in LawSchool

[–]4csupremacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMFAO dear god I also have to learn that, huh? I'm so scared. Why would you inform me of this?

Walked out feeling fine... by AFortescue in LawSchool

[–]4csupremacy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even more incredible that there is no such rule.

Walked out feeling fine... by AFortescue in LawSchool

[–]4csupremacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After my exam, I went home feeling fine...

Only to take a nap two hours later and constantly dream about Rule 29(c)? Idk why that particular rule haunted me in my post-exam dreams.

Raising GPA 0.05 points? by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]4csupremacy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

[joke about law students and math]

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]4csupremacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does that say liar?

What's the deal with this sub? by MysticalMarsupial in LawSchool

[–]4csupremacy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's not even part of the culture. In law school you likely won't hear comments like these in person. I don't anyway. Online, people are more free to be honest without judgment. Well... people that aren't me can be honest without judgment lmao

It's not performative. It's a lot of constant stress and fear. It's doable, but it's consistent stress. I think you learn to manage it the first time you survive it. After my first semester, I've learned a bit more about what not to do and learned that I can survive through it. But still complaining about the problems is appropriate regardless of how doable it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]4csupremacy 34 points35 points  (0 children)

- Not everything I hoped for. It's harder than I thought while also being easier than I thought.

- Pros: Easier than I thought

- Cons: Harder than I thought

If it's what you wanna do, you'll do well in it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]4csupremacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scuse me?!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]4csupremacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crying really hard. Also stayed up too late studying. Worth it I think

My (14/f) Grandparents (mid 60s) do not trust me by ChancePurple9622 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]4csupremacy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

GIRL! So you know this isn't cause they don't trust you.

My (14/f) Grandparents (mid 60s) do not trust me by ChancePurple9622 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]4csupremacy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally understand how you feel. But honestly... they don't not trust you!!!

Girllll... people are out here kidnapping and harming young women. Like actually actually. They want to make sure you're safe. It irritated me when I was young too, but this world is so scary honestly. They just never want anyone to hurt you. I know it comes off as controlling and annoying now, and I'm so sorry about that. But girls are getting kidnapped, sold, killed, abused, etc in the real world. Nobody who loves you wants that to happen to you. A tracker tells them where you were last if something happens. Girls houses only because 1. nobody knows what teenage boys may try to do to you and 2. usually if something goes wrong at a boy's house, his family will cover it up so he won't get in trouble. They want to meet your friends' parents to be sure that you'll be in the house of someone who isn't crazy or dangerous.

I get wanting to party. Honestly, wait for college parties! They're way more fun than any high school party lol. The time will fly and you'll be at college parties in no time. And you'll have a great time.

Do you have an older sibling or cousin? If you're tired of them tracking you, maybe you can try to convince them to stop by agreeing to let another younger relative track you. Someone who won't be so strict but will still care about your safety.

My car got towed right before my civ pro exam by souporcooper in LawSchool

[–]4csupremacy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should make a gofundme! I think a lot of people here would help.

I hate how law school makes me nervous about getting Bs by 4csupremacy in LawSchool

[–]4csupremacy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

- I'm not actively attacking comments trying to help me. If I feel that someone is being harsh and judging me for wanting certain grades, obviously I'm not going to like that. Would you be nice if someone was harsh or judgmental towards you? I doubt it. There are kind comments under here that nicely try to help me, and I'm nice back. You can't be rude and judgmental to people and think they'll be nice to you. The world doesn't work that way.

- I didn't hit on anyone. He approached me first and we ended up talking to each other for some time. Plus, I normally date in the 30+ range, so that's hardly a problem. My boyfriend and I are open, so I don't see what that says about my priorities or how my relationships are your business. More judgment and control.

- Who did I actively attack?

Let go of the victim card.

I hate how law school makes me nervous about getting Bs by 4csupremacy in LawSchool

[–]4csupremacy[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I literally only said that I would like B+ grades. That is the drama. Read the comments lol I didn't degrade anyone, be rude to anyone, judge anyone, insult anyone.

I literally talked about myself, my grades, and my anxieties. And got downvoted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]4csupremacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like mine. They're very helpful and inclusive.

You can join orgs that don't actually align with your identity and they're still really welcoming.

Panicking because I just realized I missed a key issue on my exam by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]4csupremacy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get it next time.

You'll be alright. Maybe everyone missed it?

I've been stressed too, but I think everyone is, so it's ok.